| WHY DO WOMEN SAY ONE THING AND DO ANOTHER
Posted: 5/12/2006 12:28:56 PM | | why do they do this i met a very beautiful lady on line about two years ago we talked off and on by phone chat rooms and e-mails than it came time to meet and i was looking so forward to this as it seemed she was too as in the way she talked and she set up when we would meet well when that time came she has not talked to me sence what did i do to deserve this i care so very much for her i miss her big time she was my friend my angel face friend | |
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| WHY DO WOMEN SAY ONE THING AND DO ANOTHER
Posted: 5/12/2006 12:39:42 PM | | sometimes when you correspond on line and also by phone an excitement builds up and when the time comes to meet..... i could be just the chemistry is not there... you have to take the rejection and move on.... there are others to pursue... it happened to me and im very happy now that im gland the first one did me the favor. | |
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| WHY DO WOMEN SAY ONE THING AND DO ANOTHER
Posted: 5/12/2006 12:40:47 PM | did you call or write her? i let the men make the moves, shows interest. assuming that you were everything you said in profile, chat and by phone, and then you followed up after the date... she may have found something in your demeanor, looks, actions offensive. did you wear clothes? show up promptly? smelling good? clean? flowers? chocolates? good music? a jay for the sunset? were your kisses juicy and succulent or just plain out mushy and gross? you know... food in da beard? no one wants to eat again off a hairy face.... assuming you did not grope her and or expose something before decency allowed... and da food, smoke, company, music were good... ya got me?     | |
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| WHY DO WOMEN SAY ONE THING AND DO ANOTHER
Posted: 5/12/2006 1:16:10 PM | | Could be any manner of things,she could have just been a player,a tease,something to keep her amused.some people on these kinds of sites,just like the excitement and company and have no intention of meeting anyone,harsh I know but true.sorry this has happened to you,but move on honey,you will be fine,we women are not all the same | |
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| WHY DO WOMEN SAY ONE THING AND DO ANOTHER
Posted: 5/12/2006 1:17:08 PM | | hulahoney you didnt read it right or maybe i wasnt plain enough we never had a date as u put it we never met when it came time to meet she quit talking to me and by the way i am a very very kind and caring guy i would never do any of the things you said i know i am far from perfect i tend to want to protect to much i guess i even care to deep about people i care about if that makes sence thing is from the first time i ever talked to this lady i took to her like a duck to water i was 100% honest in everything with her anyways i am just trying my best to figure out what went wrong and yes i have tryed to contact her but no replys | |
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| WHY DO WOMEN SAY ONE THING AND DO ANOTHER
Posted: 5/12/2006 1:24:59 PM | It sounds to me like she is not interested in meeting you anymore and is too scared to tell you.
I have found that what seems like a great match online and even on the phone can turn out not to be in person. This has actually happened to me. But, I would tell the person rather than leave them wondering, which is worse than knowing! | |
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| WHY DO WOMEN SAY ONE THING AND DO ANOTHER
Posted: 8/22/2006 7:08:31 PM | Hulahoney... great sense of humor... and so pretty to boot.. i shoulda been a hawaiian..
Shag,, i assume this handle doesn't describe your hairstyle...
where have you been.. women are famous for not saying what they actually mean... sorry
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| WHY DO WOMEN SAY ONE THING AND DO ANOTHER
Posted: 8/22/2006 8:53:58 PM | Sorry this happened,hon.Sometimes you can imagine so much about an online person, that often it's easy to fill in gaps,and create a relationship that really,is only in you and not as shared as you think it is. It sounds like you were really in love already,by the tone of your posts.But you hadn't even met her.Sometimes when one person shows so much attatchment to another in such intensity as you seem to have felt,it can be all too much for the other to handle.It's usually percieved as overwhelming for them,and you might be giving them more power over you than they want,or know what to do with. You have to think of how a real relationship builds,over time,to really get a picture of what this person is all about. I have a lot of compassion for you here too, but I do want to tell you to try and not offer so much so fast,it's best to hold back a bit and practice checking out how the other person really feels first.Sorry it didn't work for you this time around.
By the way, miss hula- thanks for the chuckle...And shag,honey,I bet there is a really nice face youre hiding under all that hair. A lot of women (including me) aren't into the viking look,at least as far as facial hair goes.Maybe try something a bit less, well, you know, bushy...Its nice to kiss a clean shaven face.... | |
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| WHY DO WOMEN SAY ONE THING AND DO ANOTHER
Posted: 8/26/2006 8:39:28 AM | | LORIE1, thanks for the reply but no i was not in love with her , i just dont think you can fall in love with someone u never met , this is just how i am i care about others feeling , and if i like you as in i did her than i put your feeling ahead of my own ,and the beard thing ,i got to get another picture because i have told that before , but thing is my beard is only about a inch long ,thats a shadow on the picture ,its not bushy lol | |
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