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 Melodic Euphoria

Joined: 3/22/2005
Msg: 1
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Posted: 5/18/2006 9:19:02 AM
what did you end up doing? and why? did it ruin the friendship?

Just innocently wondering
 a_sweet_fishy

Joined: 3/11/2006
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Posted: 5/18/2006 9:26:54 AM
I did. It was really strange at first. We really never expected it to happen. I ended up marrying him. Still married to him. We have had some major problems, but I really think our friendship was what made us able to work through them. The friendship is still as strong as it ever was or stronger.
 Melodic Euphoria

Joined: 3/22/2005
Msg: 3
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Posted: 5/18/2006 9:27:35 AM
that's wonderful to hear
 holly20

Joined: 3/9/2006
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Posted: 5/18/2006 9:36:35 AM
i slet with my bestfriend! and him n i are better friends now then we ever were n we dont even sleep together no more! its been over a year since we last had sex with each other! and i think its mainly a curiosity thing where u want to see what it is like! cause no mattter what u think u are phyically attrated to them n have feelings for them! just take it in n if ur scared act like nothin happened!
 Melodic Euphoria

Joined: 3/22/2005
Msg: 5
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Posted: 5/18/2006 9:58:24 AM
Nice :)

I'm going to tell my best friend that I'd like to **** him (I'm too curious to not fantasize about it, LOL), and if the sex don't ever happen again, I want him to promise we'll still stay good friends I hope it'll work for the best

PS. @ Holly20: Wow, your eyes are great :)
 holly20

Joined: 3/9/2006
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Posted: 5/18/2006 10:05:16 AM
lol yes ! its a weird experience but it has to happen i think if a person never experiences there bestfriend! then therekinda missin out! cause ur friend is what make u who u are! remember there ur betsfriend.(for a reason) and most bestfriends sleep together it is just enevitable! and it works out! it will be weird to start it in the beging but it think it come naturally witha bestfriend!
p>s thank you! my eyes are my favorite thing! n ur very pretty! hope the best to u!
 Crushberg

Joined: 2/2/2006
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Posted: 5/18/2006 10:50:21 AM
If you want a scapegoat (an excuse), one of my best friends for over 5 years and I got drunk and ended up at my place, that lead to some of the best sex of my life. The next morning, even though we were both totally aware of our actions, we blamed it on the alcohol. Since then this has happened a few times, we've almost got a routine of it.

During the week we still talk as if none of it ever happened. As soon as we start drinking though, all inhibitions are out the window.

The sex is great and nothing really changed in our relationship. The only thing I regret is not having this happen earlier.....even though this may lead to us becoming alcoholics.
 destruction

Joined: 5/14/2006
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Posted: 5/18/2006 10:52:33 AM
I wanted to, really bad.

I told her that, she played the 'best friend' card. I never called her again, she called me a few times after that, but she got the hint.

Everything or nothing!
 holly20

Joined: 3/9/2006
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Posted: 5/18/2006 11:00:22 AM
well that is kinda rude clearly u are not a good friend n u dont deserve the bestfriend card! a friend is a friend not a relationship! u should carish everythign u have n not give it up! if u are willint o hurt a bestfriend like that then what are u capable of in a relationship! i would rather have my friends then a relationship!
if u can ruien something that special(a bestfriend) then u arent really worth much! in my opinion! and im sure other people will agree with me!
 NaeKid

Joined: 1/1/2006
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Posted: 5/18/2006 11:00:38 AM
Yuppers - been there - done that.

My best friend and I had a couple of encounters at the weirdest places possible. We have always loved each other, but have been in "other" relationships that didn't allow us to fulfill our needs to be with each other in a carnal sense.

I gotta say, it was beyond amazing ... we are still best friends, the sex hasn't happened in a while due to crazy lives ... and if it doesn't happen again, we are still the best of friends. We pinky-promised to be friends till the day we die ... and nothing will ever change that!
 holly20

Joined: 3/9/2006
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Posted: 5/18/2006 11:03:02 AM
that is a true friend! one u keep no matter what!
 kav2001c

Joined: 12/8/2005
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Posted: 5/24/2006 9:08:02 PM
It doesnt work... I slept with a really close friend who had kept coming on to me & it totally ruined the friendship (& then even when I said ok stop doing it she would always agree with me, then we'd end up in bed, then she'd be all pissed at me afterwards and crying why we werent ever going to be together permanent)
 Bad_WolfXIX

Joined: 8/4/2005
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Posted: 5/24/2006 11:46:43 PM
I Know i would love to Sleep with my Best Friend... Since i've had a Thing for her since forever, lol And I would hope things worked out that we stayed together ... she's everything i've looked for in a partner .. I always wanted to spend my life with my Bestfriend .. It's Kind-of An ideal for me.
 Harry Peter

Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 14
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Posted: 5/25/2006 12:05:03 AM
My best friends have been mostly guys. The close girl friends wouldn't let me Atleast that I can think of.

I have had sex with friends before. Long ago. Sometimes it changed, sometimes it didn't.
 killergurl666

Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 15
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Posted: 5/25/2006 4:49:49 AM
its rather simple, if its amazing sex you'll still be amazing friends
if their lame in the sack, just tell em how bad they were and that u can still be friends but that if they touch u again u'll stab their eyes out with a fork
if the sight of your friends naked a$$ was too gross, then no u probably can't be friends anymore.
 killergurl666

Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 16
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Posted: 5/25/2006 4:54:13 AM
I wanted to, really bad.

I told her that, she played the 'best friend' card. I never called her again, she called me a few times after that, but she got the hint.

Everything or nothing!

some guy said this and i was in shock that someone said it was rude and gave him sh!t for it.

its just sex its not a relationship. they are 2 very different things that don't always mix, actually they hardly mix. just cuz u sleep with someone doesn't mean your goin to have a relationship with them, your not even obligated to even speak to the person again, humping doesn't come with rules. ease up on the guy. i woulda said the same thing then added 'put out or get out baby.'
 Russbear

Joined: 3/21/2006
Msg: 17
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Posted: 5/25/2006 5:05:31 AM
I wanted to.

It finally happened and we made out for 2 hours (second farthest I've gone with a girl) I asked her out on a date. Date went shitty cause she didn't want to do anything and hadn't slept since we made out (because she was thinking about "us"). Day after the "date" she told me that she never wanted to date me, ever.

I don't call her anymore, she has called me once in 3 months. Two days ago. I still need the whole thing resolved in my mind and that phone call didnt help. ****it.
 kmhstx

Joined: 8/23/2005
Msg: 18
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Posted: 5/25/2006 5:12:05 AM

If you want a scapegoat (an excuse), one of my best friends for over 5 years and I got drunk and ended up at my place, that lead to some of the best sex of my life. The next morning, even though we were both totally aware of our actions, we blamed it on the alcohol. Since then this has happened a few times, we've almost got a routine of it.

During the week we still talk as if none of it ever happened. As soon as we start drinking though, all inhibitions are out the window.

The sex is great and nothing really changed in our relationship. The only thing I regret is not having this happen earlier.....even though this may lead to us becoming alcoholics.



Ok, maybe I don't get this because I have never had sex with my best guy friend. but....
IF you are best friends....and the sex is amazing...and you want to keep coming back for more......WHY don't you change the relationship and start a relationship....would that be so horrible. lol you would not have to drink to have amazing sex...you could have the amazing sex with some one you care about when ever you both wanted because you were bf and gf. That is the ideal relationship to be with someone who is your bestfriend that you are completely turned on by!!! At least for me.


Now admittedly I did think about sleeping with my best guy friend, and had a crush on him...but at the same time I was pretty sure he didnt feel the same towards me lol heck we always used to hang out with me lying in bed, and him sitting on the end talking to me. I figure he would have made some kind of move besides giving the best hugs in the world. I ended up distancing myself from him at one point only because I was starting to have too many confused feeling for him....and now that I'm over that its back to normal friendship. lol although no more hanging out in bed, lol that was back at a more innocent time...ah youth
 7times

Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 19
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Posted: 5/25/2006 5:12:34 AM
damn I need different friends that actually say yes
 bikebowman

Joined: 3/28/2005
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Posted: 5/25/2006 5:19:13 AM
I did.
It changed the relationship 100X.
I think she is still asleep at the cabin
 jim bag

Joined: 5/23/2006
Msg: 21
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Posted: 5/25/2006 8:26:46 AM
well my best friend is a guy, so thats out of the question
 cuppa mojo

Joined: 5/25/2006
Msg: 22
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Posted: 5/25/2006 9:35:45 AM
I have never had any problem defining relationships one way or the other. I have had friends who we grew interested, made love, then didn't again, and it was just one more thing we did as friends. The romantic template didn't come crashing into place like the bar of a mouse trap just because I nibbled her cheese one afternoon.
 Mr Sullen

Joined: 5/5/2006
Msg: 23
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Posted: 5/25/2006 9:48:11 AM

Innocent my ass, ****ing out side of marriage is hardly innocent. Can you say, a slutting we will go?


Nevermind all that... how did the Thread author get her f-word in the title but the rest of us end up with asterisks like the ones above?
 prize inside

Joined: 4/6/2006
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Posted: 5/25/2006 11:04:47 AM
Just who is that third person you carry with you? Yes, you can have relationships with those other than the "only person in the world for you". Does it ruin a friendship? You can only know after the fact. Up to you to throw the dice.
 Greeneyed Enigma

Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 25
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Posted: 6/1/2006 6:17:52 AM
mr sullen.....that had me blinking in amazement too. hey admin.....you asleep at the wheel??
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