| Ladies....How to spot a player on this site.
Posted: 2/18/2005 2:58:37 PM | Hi Ladies,
Firstly i just wanted to send this out as an FYI due to my having met a man off here and being hurt after being made to think he really intially wanted something good! Needless to say he is back on this site with a different name out to hunt down and hurt more women (as he stated he does change his name every time after a women tells him to take off his ad when in a relationship - how many is he still dragging along?). The second a women gets close he gets rid of them - after the sex, the attachment and the interest has all taken ahold. He should he classified as intimate encounter because for those that do not want to get attached (now that is where i stand moreso) he is perfect! I was listed as a long term relationship at that time which ironically blows my mind that if he (who was posted as dating) would even bother! So who would not think that naturally he really must be interested in getting to know one another!
The signs started coming out - i will not call you all that often (yeah we need space but come on no communication - you are not going to get to know****all about each other), Intially he was not materialistic (good thing he does not know how much i really financially have and never will or the car i actually do have) and would not make boobs an issue (naturally he kept on harping on about d boobs - come on guy - shallow). The dates intially were fun but sadly enough limited, sports and video games (they were fun but no movies if my tv was not over 50" ha ha - he saw my loaner (14") while mine was being fixed). That was his real interests along with food and wine (hey food and wine - so he got that right). I think i put my heart out there regardless of his flaws and towards the end abusive manner (nasty) because i really cared to get to know him - and whamo the boy went right back on here without tellling me! I wonder why they do not think we will figure it out?
So women i hope you do not have the same experience with this individual or any other for that matter unless you really want it (i would not know why you would)! I am bitter now and i will definately bite. If you want to talk more to me about your experiences that would be great- hope it has been better. It sucks when they cannot be honest - yeah i want the sex and fun only in the beginning - then we could say yeah well to ****in bad before ending up bitter over an angry man that likes to use women for his benefits only. If any of you men read this that are only out here hunting for prey i am sorry but hunt for women who want to be your pray not the ones that actually wanted something good - really want something good because they truly have something more then sex to give...
k thats it ....he brought out the devil in me! I still believe good men exist though - wherever they are! LOL | |
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| Ladies....How to spot a player on this site.
Posted: 2/18/2005 5:05:52 PM | All I can say to that, mixed with the profile, is that you need to find yourself a coke dealer. Well, atleast a decent drug dealer of some kind. You'll be gaurunteed to not have to compete with finances or who has the better vehicle or house(s). On top of that you'll have yourself access to a posse for a time.
Of course, once the wine and dine finishes, and you get sucked in you'll be lost to us forever. Not for love, but for fear of being hunted down for "looking" at that guy across the street, or any other jealous and posessive antic.
Hon I"ve got friends that put your looks to shame, as well as those that you would put to shame. It's freakin looks. I thought only horses had blinders.
More to the point, however, is that your profile announces your intentions quite broadly. Guys have the potential to be played by you. You were played by a guy and you are sending a warning to other ladies? I'm not entirely sure I understand how that works. | |
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jimi77
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Joined: 7/13/2004
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| Ladies....How to spot a player on this site.
Posted: 2/18/2005 5:33:45 PM | | Sorry you got hurt.. I take everything on the internet with a grain of salt. Because people can portray them self’s to be anything they choose.. Its like there wearing a mask or are a chameleon. Sad people can not be true and honest.. They might find real love if they were.. Besides it’s all going to come out when you meet anyway. And then you run the chance of losing someone you care about or at the very least a friend As for me.. I am just what I say I am for the most part, and anyone that knows me will tell you.. Yep ... that’s jimi. | |
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jimi77
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Joined: 7/13/2004
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| Ladies....How to spot a player on this site.
Posted: 2/18/2005 7:37:06 PM | You are all so off - the profile was to get back at the man who takes advantage of women on this site (the one who took advantage of me)! It was altered! So gullable! Honestly! Have you ever dealt with an individual that does this. After starting to give them your time and all to them because they made you believe they really care. Hell it was 2 months into it when he turned around and did this! Really, check and see how many times people come on this site with different user names and false pretenses. When you find out those lies it's a wonder these sites exist! BTW no i am not that materiallistic but it is sad to think you all lash out at someone you do not know ~~ rather abusive at that! As well as a profile that is come on obviously a joke - if you take everything on this site as i have learned it will come back and get you ten fold! Goodnight all - sadly this site really is a waste of time! Which is to bad for those who really are genuine (which i was originally).
Good Luck! (p.s. the names not lara) | |
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| Ladies....How to spot a player on this site.
Posted: 2/18/2005 7:41:43 PM |
You joined this site 2 days ago, and you already met a guy off here AND broke up with him?
And she is on 50 peoples favorites lists in 2 days. LOL
Go ahead, try to tell me it isn't all about looks. | |
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