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Posted: 5/19/2006 12:35:45 PM | So, Are you done with this site? I have had little to no attention here........Is this a social misfit place to find comfort? I noticed that the client list is a bit tainted. Maybe I forgot to read the fine print. I found you assessment to be somewhat accurate regarding the popularity thing....as I see it, it should only take one contact to make this all worth while. I am putting myself out in this medium in hope to expand on an already disfunctional dating pool called midlife. I never viewed myself as needy, but here I am.....looking in on others relationships thinking why am I so hard to mate up with? Why can't I find that unconditional soulmate? Is it me, or is it the world? Am I not doing something right? So, your profile serves as a public service messege at least. Where are you from? I grew up in Northshore, Ma my name is Bob
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| what seems to be the problem?
Posted: 8/3/2006 2:11:38 PM | Get involved in the forums and it may help. You can visit other states and countries and make people mad if you want? Just a suggestion. good luck man. | |
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| what seems to be the problem?
Posted: 8/4/2006 4:48:52 PM | ^^ Which is pretty much everywhere except USA .. hahah
To the OP .. Id hit on you if I was older and a non smoker.. but I'm not , your a cutie though.. for an old fart anyways . .. *joking* | |
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Posted: 8/6/2006 8:45:34 PM | | I have to agree, they say getting involved in the forums helps a lot. I don't know I just started here about a week ago, so probably wouldn't be the best at giving advice in this situation. I don't think you're doing anything wrong, maybe people have their searches too narrowed down. Perhaps they need to broaden their horizons some. I can't imagine you not getting hit on or noticed the way in which you want. I guess different strokes for different folks, but either the best of luck. | |
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Posted: 1/4/2007 10:01:08 AM | | I don't even know why I bother it's complete bullshit having to deal with people who accuse you of trying to "pick them up" Geez, who the hell are they to assume that? It's called NOTICING SOMEONES INTERESTED AND ANSWERING THERE DAMN QUESTIONS!" I know where guilty until proven innocent here but if taking a GENUINE interest in the person constitutes "being a player" then I don't know what the hell to do anymore. | |
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Posted: 1/28/2007 5:00:35 AM | Hey Bob,
I totally get your drift as far as finding it difficult to find someone on here, or for that matter any dating sight. I have been at it for quite a long time, and it only TRULY worked for me once. It seems to me that women want the power, which they already have. I think they get a kick out of gaffing (avoiding) men, just as a power play. I think the whole thing is a joke. Its like finding a needle in a haystack full of pricks..lol. Anyway, for whatever reason, I keep on trying, and thinking that eventually ONE will smarten up and respond.
KEEP YOUR CHIN UP DUDE!!!
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Posted: 2/7/2007 12:56:10 PM | I have been on a few of the "Dating Sites" that charge. And the downfall to those is, unless you pay up front you are extremely limited as to how to contact people there. At least here it's totally free, so it does'nt cost you anything to surf and inquire.
Now on that note....... I don't consider myself overtly attractive. I am a handsome man. I have found that all I needed to do was put all my feelings into my profile as honestly as they came into my head and then wait. Kind of like baiting a hook and dropping it in the water. I occasionally go out and look at the profiles but I never make contact. If a woman is reading through profiles and likes mine, she will contact me. As has happened on many occasions. And for the most part they all say it had to do with my heartfelt profile information.
I have met someone on this site and we are currently dating. The key she told me was the honesty in my profile. Women today are somewhat jaded and have every right to be. Think about all the ego maniac players that are out there and consider that unless you give these women something different to expect............ they will group you in. Even though I have posted on my profile that I am in a relationship and just looking for friends and chat buddies, women still read it and contact me. Just now they contact me for conversation.
Look all I am saying is, this place is only different from the rest of them because it's totally free. Effort still needs to be made to sweep a woman off her feet. When all other avenues are explored and no solution comes to mind..... look to ones self for changes. Vamp your profile up a bit. And consider what a woman might be more interested in, your car or your heart?
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Posted: 10/9/2007 2:40:30 PM | | You are on quite a few favorites list and you are quite attractive. I find it hard to beleive you are having a problem. I don't fir your profile but give it some time I am sure you will have good luck soon. April | |
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Posted: 10/9/2007 2:48:52 PM | | you look like an attractive man I find it hard to beleive you are having a problem. You are on a few favorite lists. Give it some time and be as honest as you can, that's what we like, honesty and being true to your profile. I don't fit your profile but I am sure you will have luck soon. Best wishes God Bless. April | |
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Posted: 10/21/2007 5:17:17 AM | I seem to have the same problem no one answers my profile. You try to IM someone and they blow you off or not answer at all. I can't be that ugly. :D
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Posted: 10/21/2007 12:13:25 PM | You guys are too funny. You all have something interesting... well almost all ...to offer someone special. You cannot expect to rush something. If you are looking to
"hook up" then maybe you need to edit your profile intentions. If you are looking for more, then be patient, she may step into your life when you are least expecting. Think about it.. my folks met in a bar 35 yrs ago and are still together... there is always that option.
Good Luck, Kris | |
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