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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/18/2005 5:22:21 PM | | I would say don't take it personally. 85% of the women here wouldn't know a good thing if it hit them in the head. Personally I would think they would want a good guy but from experience it seems most don't know what they want and seem to pick guys that are least good for them. Its all just a big baffling world to me..... | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/18/2005 5:31:16 PM | "hot" women, as you put them are relatively uneducated. If they are educated, there's a very good chance that they were also the "ugly duckling" in high school and miraculously turned into a swan. These women tend to get by on their looks and arent concerned with such frivolous qualities such as education, humor, a good heart..etc...what they want is the man that will look good on their shoulder...regardless of if that man cannot offer the positive qualities that makes a couple truly compatible.
good lucky jazzy....dont give up! | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/18/2005 5:31:58 PM | Well then slow down dude! I think you should probably get to know some girls, develop a relationship and THEN ask them out. I have had a girl in my math class the past 2 semesters and I can't wait to ask her out. I probably should have asked her out about 3 times by now, but the thing is maybe you just don't have the relationship with these girls to ask them out. If you are asking out too many, it probably means that these girls mean nothing to you. Now I am sure that that is not the case for all of these girls, but I say that you should pick the ones that you like the most, try and be as unstalkerish (because girls hate stalkers even though I like to call it "persuing") and kind as you can. They should start coming around... at least the right ones. Good luck bro... and just put your heart in it aight? Peace
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/18/2005 5:33:58 PM | Perchance, you should redefine your definition of HOT?
The ones who look good on the outside are often ugly as hell on the inside....not all the time...but ifn they don't have to develop a personality because they can get whoever they want, they ain't gonna make that effort...
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/18/2005 5:34:23 PM | jazz... homes... you gotta find a good match. I'm an ok looking dude, but you're not gonna see me cruisin up to Britney Murphy any time soon trying to hook up an evening alone. It's not gonna happen, she's outa my league... Birds of a feather
Have you heard that song... bum bum bummm
"If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life... get an ugly girl and make her your wife..
from my personal point of view.. get an ugly girl to marry you!"
well.. you get the point anyway | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/18/2005 5:36:52 PM | I totally agree Yada, well said.
I would also like to add by saying I see "hot chicks" with average looking or below average looking men all the time. Yea, there the ones sitting in the passenger seat of a lexus or a jaguar. It's true, all fake in there glory! | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/18/2005 5:40:31 PM | Now - to comment on Noodlers idea...y'all are really really ok looking...I mean, cute as hell but that is my opinion...hehe
Birds of a feather is the truth...I remember some research done years ago where that was proven...most people get together with someone on the looks scale close to where they are...
Thank Goddess, the looks thing is subjective...
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/18/2005 5:53:55 PM | I have dated many guys who were considered less atractive than myself. What I found was that while they liked having the arm charm, they were pretty insecure and would make continous verbal atempts to bring down my own self esteem. For some reason they thought this would keep me around.
Bye bye guy. One ex still calls after three years, yet when I am sweet enough to have a conversation with him, he ALWAYS turns into a pompus, bombastic jerk who tries to find a way to insult my acomplishments, looks, (I have no fat , he does) friends etc..
I do know many men who make up for lack of looks with personality and fortunately they aren't so shallow as to persue only "hot" girls. They, like I, really do look for something deeper. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/18/2005 6:08:15 PM | I ended up with a girl who was beyond my wildest dreams out of my league gorgeous. She knows I'm insecure about her but she also knows that I'm struggling to avoid becoming jealous so she goes out of her way to make me comfortable.
Things just get better all the time. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/18/2005 6:48:27 PM | "What I found was that while they liked having the arm charm, they were pretty insecure and would make continous verbal atempts to bring down my own self esteem."
zyxananda, if a man has to put you down in order to feel superior... I'd say, bye bye... Not worth your time, much less anyone else's...
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder...
True when it was first said, true today... | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/18/2005 7:16:13 PM | yeah well Jazzy.. LISTEN UP!
Yo need to trump your image too.
Some of these girls can be shallow and if that's what yuo want, play the game.
we do live in a shallow world, but If you want some of that. You gotta give them somthin' they can relate to.
You got the confidence to go up ask them out, but you go to have an angle with a reputation, looks and somethin' different. You got talents? You good at somethin?
Hey, hate to use that kind of stuff for currency, but these gals want somethin' happenin' so use it.
Spruce up your image.
You like nice clothes and are smart?, try somethin' slick, like suits or casual wear somethin' in the vain GQ magazine.
You sporty? where the gear man, show that you got skills, and it don't hurt to wear the bling-bling. I recommend silver and some flare tattoos.
you work hard, work hard on youself as well, look after you self, love will look after you and keep huntin' | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/18/2005 7:38:35 PM | ...Jazzy bro I'm going lay it down to ya straigth...I'm sorry man but at this present Time Your Profile sceams desperate...i'm not picking On You ..Just laying out for You Man...Lose the Glasses, Drop the Tie....Get a few days growth or a five a o'clock shadow ...couple shots of You in t T-shirt..and Chill......As far as hot babes go some Guys are lucky to find ones with thier chit together ....sadly some are like fast cars ...exspensive ,,,Hight maintenance..And for Guys like You and Me out of our price range.......That is just the way it is ..there are Men out there the same way....My best advice is stop trying so hard and just chill, be cool.. chat in the forums make friends let people get to know You as a person....remember the most attractive part of a Man to Most Women is His Mind ....good luck Bro..... | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/18/2005 8:39:06 PM | So very true Dragonred. If the fish aren't biting switch to something else, but never go against your own grain. Stay true to yourself, work on yourself and good things will happen.
A quote from my uncle at Thanksgiving. "How the hell does someone that looks like you seem to get these pretty girlfriends."
My response -- Just a smile. | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/18/2005 8:45:02 PM | remember the most attractive part of a Man to Most Women is His Mind ..
Absolutely!!!! A cute guy is nice, but if you can't talk, laugh and communicate...well why bother? Now a man that is more intelligent than me and makes me think is a REAL turn on.... | |
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| Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy?
Posted: 2/18/2005 10:31:10 PM | yada..
"hot" women, as you put them are relatively uneducated."
c'mon ~that's not a fair statement at all.....
anyway...for me, it is a major turn off when a guy reiterates that he is nice over and over...something fishy going on there (no pun intended)
it's a cliche' , but confidence is EVERYTHING. i can not say it enough. you know how guys always **** about girls going "i'm fat!" or "my ass is big" or "i look fat in this"
major turn off, right? shows a lack of self esteem.... same thing with a timid guy who portrays himself as "nice" and "walked all over". have confidence in yourself! that's the hottest thing a man can do is be confident in his looks and intelligence.... | |
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| Who do you ask out?
Posted: 2/18/2005 10:45:07 PM | How do you decide who you ask out?
Are you using the buck-shot technique? (Ask out as many girls as possible...eventually *someone* has to say yes)
Do you know what you have to offer?
Do you know what kind of woman would be attracted to your total package?
Do you know what kind of girl you are attracted to?
Do you know what kind of guy this fictional girl would date?
Is there a match? If not, you're going to have to make some changes. (Lord knows, you can't make someone else change!) | |
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