| Will Someone Please Explain
Posted: 5/20/2006 4:10:27 AM | This may sound redundant, but I still don't get it. I met this nice guy on POF, we had a great talk, he is employed, sane, and everything was going well. Afterwards we had a slightly prolonged kissing session, so there seemed to be a physical attraction, too.
He told me to call him and I did, but no response. I don't understand? Why do some men post here if they really don't want to meet anyone and just want to play games? To see if they can attract people like notches in a belt? It's pretty sad, especially since we're both middle-aged. Can someone explain this because I still don't get it. | |
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Posted: 5/20/2006 4:15:25 AM | | There's no understanding it - some people just say they want a relationship but they really don't | |
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Posted: 5/20/2006 4:16:00 AM | maybe he just didnt want to get you know more and just said call so didnt look rude i dunno blokes mega hard to work out alien species  | |
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Posted: 5/20/2006 4:28:15 AM | | Never mind this b.s. who do you like king JAMES,DUNCAN,nash or BEN WALLACE?Me I like new air go LeBRON go! | |
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Posted: 5/20/2006 4:31:15 AM | | would you have responded, much less gone out with him if he had admitted all he was interested in was "notching his belt"? | |
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Posted: 5/20/2006 4:37:05 AM | | Are you joking? "why are they here if they don't want to meet and they just want to play games?" Jeeze girl, this is a GREAT place for people who want to play games...that's why. | |
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Posted: 5/20/2006 4:52:41 AM | | Hi everyone, thanks for your help. Yes, I did call more than once, and I have the right number. We didn't go further than kissing. I guess this is a great place to play games, you are right. I'm recently divorced and new to all this again, so I think I'm getting my sea legs again. | |
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Posted: 5/20/2006 4:54:47 AM | | Yo Earl,joking-no joking 'cause my brain is out of place(it's off to the principals office I go)remember that one?Like them apples, too bad I was only 12 when that song came out. | |
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Posted: 5/20/2006 5:00:13 AM | Cause he was a player ..and an idiot . Gurlfriend .. since you are back in the game... Hone you woman's intution skills .. they have been on sleep mod
There are some slick ones on this site ...only because I have seen them on other sites too
Ever here of the expression "wolf in sheep's clothing" ? | |
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Posted: 5/20/2006 5:12:10 AM | obviously your disappointed. men are men lol
if the connection was there for him, he would call u back, at least he is not stringing u along, there are lots of nice guys on here for sure, but it all has to jive u know.
just keep going and say NEXT !!! lol
good luck to you, and dont be discouraged by one false impression. | |
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Posted: 5/20/2006 5:31:44 AM | | its really sad butt true . so many people will lie and do what ever they have to to get what they want . and yet there are a lot of people who will lie becouse they dont want to hert another persons feelings . forget him -and keep on looking.. | |
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Posted: 5/20/2006 5:57:07 AM | | Tell the truth now!!!! you got laid!!!!,,,next. I don't feel sorry for you at all. Why do some women let these guys play? | |
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Posted: 5/20/2006 6:04:08 AM | OOOfirefighter, Good intuition! I wonder if it is true. I am waiting for the OP's response to that one | |
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Posted: 5/20/2006 6:08:31 AM | There are a thousand reasons he may not have responded.......most of the people on this site are adults which means we have adult size problems......I have met several people on here and had a great time with who probably think I have given them the brush off...I have health issues that you don't want to share in a budding relationship....and my daughter has been in and out of the hospital.....these are things I have to deal with which makes it hard for me to create a personal life...but I am worth having and any man who is worth time will understand that my family is going to always be there.....
if you interested in him keep trying....be an adult...if you have a problem with how he treated you confront him and ask for some answers | |
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Posted: 5/20/2006 6:50:34 AM | | He met someone better! (sorry to be blunt, I understand how you feel, as it has happened to me) and he, the coward, doesn't have the guts to tell you...as you said, head games...take care | |
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Posted: 5/20/2006 7:09:12 AM | Maybe there wasn't enough pizazz in the kiss? Or maybe he wanted it to go further and it didn't?
Some men here are players, this will never change. But you can find these types of people everywhere.
There are genuine people on here that are looking for their perfect match. You just have to put your line back in the water and hope you catch a better fish the next time.
Men have the same problems as you are being faced with, women do the same thing. | |
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Posted: 5/20/2006 7:21:54 AM | Firefighter tell all as if you would not get laid if you had a chance, plus a lot of men on here say they are married but they are, then have some guilt feelings for a while this is a chance one takes when on a date line. Just do not allow your heart to get involved till all is well and you have all the info about your date. Till then enjoy life and the person you are spending time with and take your time.  | |
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Posted: 5/20/2006 7:26:35 AM | To the OP, just keep moving on. Trying to figure things out like that is like having an anchor attached to you. Just think of all the time and aggravation this has SAVED you. He lost out that's all.  | |
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Posted: 5/20/2006 7:41:23 AM | It just wasn't meant to be, there are player's here and the real world.
Take it slow and good luck patti098 | |
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Posted: 5/20/2006 7:59:50 AM | | To Day Brite, I'm not into casual sex,,,,and I don't sleep with my dates,end of storey. | |
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