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Posted: 5/25/2006 4:24:39 PM | i read an article the other day that i found extremely shocking, i could not believe that this goes on. there are men that do it as a sport.
they start thier nights out with a few beers...browsing the bar for thier prey, they find a large woman and spend the next couple hours wooing her into believing they really like her then they take em home or whatever, do the deed then the guys get together and compare notes.
wow...how inhuman, that is awful! i was sickened by the fact that there are people out there that have no feelings...damn! | |
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Posted: 5/25/2006 5:09:10 PM | | That is pretty low of someone to do. Hopefully karma will get them back. I would never do something like that to someone... | |
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Joined: 3/1/2006
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Posted: 5/25/2006 5:16:04 PM | | Well all I can say is that there are some pretty messed up people in the world. A player is always a player and both men and women play. | |
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Posted: 5/25/2006 5:29:02 PM | | haha Yes, I agree it's sick and it's about the same as a pretty girl picking out an older guy that's not as attractive and getting him to buy her things. It's just done in a different way and the girl actually gets something from it tho lol jk sorta haha | |
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Posted: 5/25/2006 6:03:20 PM | Madamx, I've read similar articles.
I've also read that some go farther than merely comparing notes. In some cases, the guy's friends hide in the closet or wait out in the hall, then storm in with a camera after the deed is done.
As disgusted as I am, I have to wonder how many of the men who use larger women for sex secretly prefer them. Instead of sticking to smaller women, they sleep with the large ones but joke about it to their friends...
The guy I'm dating said he used to date smaller women when he was younger because he didn't want his friends to give him a hard time over his natural preference. Then he grew up, became a man, and became vocal about his preferences. | |
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Posted: 5/25/2006 6:25:31 PM | | Ever seen "In the Company of Men"? Same thing...I wanted to kick those guys in the coconuts | |
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Posted: 5/25/2006 6:36:14 PM | I am sorry to tell you this..but this has been going on for ages!!..
NO!!..its not right!..
yes!!..it is awful..
but it still happens..
I have also heard the phrase..."moped girl"..
it means they are fun to ride..just dont let your buddies see or hear of you doing it!!
some peope are just slime!! | |
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Posted: 5/25/2006 7:46:26 PM | Can't really say I've heard of this before, but human nature is depraved. Nothing shocks me anymore.
~Aurora | |
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Posted: 5/25/2006 8:11:41 PM | mmmmmmmmmm...c'mere Aurora...I wanna show you sumthan!! | |
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Posted: 5/25/2006 8:21:57 PM | I agree that this is about as low as you can go....for both sexes...and nothing surprises me anymore, either.
~DC~ | |
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Posted: 5/26/2006 7:15:58 AM | Why does everyone act so surprised? Are those that are surprised new to the dating scene?
To me, there is no better or worse of the genders. I have seen both act irresponsibly and immature. If you don't like those types of people, stay away from where they normally go. But that doesn't even keep you safe as there are predators everywhere (and predators are both male and female). Use common sense, don't jump in the sack right away and those kiss and tell people usually get weeded out pretty quick. | |
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Posted: 5/26/2006 7:30:40 AM | haha Yes, I agree it's sick and it's about the same as a pretty girl picking out an older guy that's not as attractive and getting him to buy her things. It's just done in a different way and the girl actually gets something from it tho lol jk sorta haha
yes, well besides sex, he may get something else from it | |
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Posted: 5/26/2006 7:33:13 AM | | Sounds like the nasty games the boys used to play in high school. | |
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Posted: 5/26/2006 7:43:40 AM | When it comes to men (not all) but...nothin' really surprises me anymore!!!
Some guys are just PIGS and always will be...not to say it's just men by any means, but... | |
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Posted: 5/26/2006 10:18:43 AM | | Well girls play the same kind of game they go around and at the end of the day whoever collected the most numbers wins, ain't that stupid or what? They can do better and more useful things with those numbers like ACTUALLY CALL THE DAMN PEOPLE! That's one of the reasons I don't give away my number and prefer to get theres first. | |
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Posted: 5/26/2006 5:19:40 PM | | call me stupid i was just shocked...i do not doubt that there are women who play some sort of sick game i am not classifying anyone as bad either man or woman i think that all people who do this sort of thing are sick and need help and yes i do hope that some day karma catches up with them. it is cruel! | |
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Posted: 5/26/2006 10:40:42 PM | Women who were defrauded into a sexual act MAY FILE CRIMINAL AND CIVIL CHARGES.   | |
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Posted: 5/27/2006 12:11:11 AM | | i dont know about that....no real criminal thing there...they have the choice to do it or not...just need to use thier best judgement i guess | |
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Joined: 5/4/2006
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Posted: 5/28/2006 9:41:02 AM | It amazes me that people are actually shocked by all this,.First of all, who is in the wrong here?, she did go home from the bar with some guy she didnt know.What do you really expect when you do that? Be honest.
Guys will do the same thing with the hottest chick in the bar too, buy her drinks, get her drunk and do the deed,.So let's not all be shocked by the pig, lets be shocked by the fact that in this day and age, people are still stupid enough to go home with a complete stranger.Secondly, you can't tell me the girl didnt know what was up to begin with.Nothing worse then a chick crying wolf after the fact. Have a great day. | |
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Posted: 5/28/2006 12:39:31 PM | | saige.. i totally agree... the victom here is not really a victom when she makes the choice to go home with someone...her weight has nothing to do with it... guys like sex...... drunk girls are easier to get into bed..... some guys take advantage of this..... well shouldn't some girls be smart enough to figure this kind of thing out??? most people do keep some sort of sense when they are drunk.. and where are the girls friends.. they let her go??? obviously she wanted it too... otherwise it never would have happened.... | |
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Joined: 5/25/2006
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Posted: 5/28/2006 1:10:53 PM | I'm a big girl and I can't imagine having sex with a guy I've only known for a few hours, I don't drink to get drunk maybe that has something to do with it, all I know is that the *ick* factor would be to high to put out no matter how cute the guy was. | |
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Posted: 5/28/2006 2:00:07 PM | | The motive of the men or man is the problem. And the intent to "hogging her". The means was to seduce, get her high on illegal drugs or and alcohol, and lie in wait. One, its called character assassination. Premeditated, to defraud. With enough evidence, this would stand in court. Watering it down, does not make it any less, its a criminal and a civil CRIME. And for any woman to character asssassinate and find fault for the woman victum, speaks for itself. Either this has happened to you and you are in denial of your own unresolved feelings, or, you have problems with women, with being a woman. | |
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Joined: 5/4/2006
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Posted: 5/28/2006 4:06:50 PM | LMAO ,, she accepted the drinks, gimme a break..She could have refused the drinks the guy bought her at any given time. HELLO PEOPLE WAKE UP!! Men and women play stupid little games in bars all the time. Had he put drugs in her drink then okay thats a different story all 2gether but nobody is talking about that.Stop giving pity to the "fat" girl, she was a dumb girl fat or skinny..
And yes my gf's and I always stick 2gether in a bar, we go together, we leave 2gether.Its a rule we have and never break.  | |
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Posted: 5/28/2006 4:41:43 PM | my x told me he knows a 'game' that some guys play. it's a contest to see who can get the oldest or uglyiest women. and of course it is a joke on her but she doesn't know that it is a joke until after. but they don't buy her drinks.
the guy will act like he is honesly attracted to her, cares about her whatever. i guess the object of the game is to humiliate a woman. | |
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