| can people just be f___ friends
Posted: 5/31/2006 6:37:19 PM | | I am just looking for feedback as to weather people can just be f___ friends or weather one will alwayse want more and end up hurt? | |
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| can people just be f___ friends
Posted: 5/31/2006 7:09:35 PM | Well if you are referring to f.... buddies who are friends,my personal opinion is i do not sleep with my friends,maybe im old fashion but i would at least think if you sleep with someone you care for one another or love one another.yeah from what i see people putting in forums yes they probably get hurt''.i guess to each his own,if i decide to ever sleep with someone i will be able to have feelings and respect for them.its not just a physical thing i think to do with just anyone.but to each his own. | |
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| can people just be f___ friends
Posted: 5/31/2006 8:30:24 PM | | Sure you can aslong as you both agree to that at the beginning. For some this is what is best for them at this time. Don't want to get involved in a relationship but want to grab a piece. Some people are better off friends than b/f & g/f. | |
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GT99
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Joined: 5/13/2006
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| can people just be f___ friends
Posted: 6/7/2006 12:15:46 PM | sure you can be **** friends...but really its a two way street, most of the time you can talk about it, agree to it, but it still gets complictated by one party.
it can be a hassle | |
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| can people just be f___ friends
Posted: 6/11/2006 9:13:46 PM | | I don't see the problem with having friends with benifits just as long as everything is understood between both parties. And if feelings do start to arise, it needs to be address right away and dealt with. I've never had any problems. The key is communication just like any other relationship whether it be frienship or more. | |
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| can people just be f___ friends
Posted: 7/21/2006 5:53:20 PM | | As much as I'd like to say yes, from past experience, it has to be a firm no. Usually these things start out great and can be an absolute blast, but one person tends to be into it more than the other, and as time goes by, no matter how many discussions you have about being honest with your feelings, it moves towards a strained relationship. When that starts to happen, there can be unmet expectations and hurt feelings. If you're not very careful you can lose not just the sexual element but more importantly, the friendhsip too. | |
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| can people just be f___ friends
Posted: 8/16/2006 12:55:05 PM | | NO, most of the time feelings get involved and the other person wants more or tries to change the other person. | |
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| can people just be f___ friends
Posted: 12/19/2006 12:16:51 PM | | well, here it is! men will NEVER seek a female for a friend ok? that's just the way we are!! this is for many reasons! for starters,most people dont know what the meaning of a friend is!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! most people DO NOT have any true friends.they have aquaintences/associations,etc.. women cannot be trusted with the deepest;most sacred of thoughts/feelings,etc.etc.! they are emotionally-based creatures,and therefore emotionally un-stable.there is an old saying:if u ever want something kept secret,don't ever tell a woman!like it or not, this is so true!! a womans' "critical-thinking" part of their brain is wired vastly more different than a mans' brain!! for the sake of simplicity, a womans' "un-predictability" is their nemesis! this is just 1 reason. I'll give you another!(if you want); men are independent creatures-ok? women are "co-dependent" creatures.women will ALWAYS need a man, more than a man needs a woman!(regardless of the reason why)!!! NOTE: bathroom trips together,shopping together,school-work together,constant phone talk,finding jobs at the same place together;EVERYTHING TOGETHER !! a man is basically a solo-artist. we are straight-to the-point.TOGETHER is almost a "need" for a woman, where it is a "want" for a man. It's also a confidence thing/security thing! Here are just 2 reasons why. It actually is even more complex than this, but...............................................................................a man deals with a woman for sexual reasons(incl.pro-creation).that's it.. period.. that's just the way it is. | |
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| can people just be f___ friends
Posted: 12/21/2006 10:41:43 AM | OP:
F' buddies, sure, For awhile, but eventualy someone will get emotionaly involved in it.
Just friends, I have a few female friends that are just, friends. | |
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wow_tt
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Joined: 1/24/2007
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| can people just be f___ friends
Posted: 2/27/2007 10:19:28 AM | | I think it can always start out as friends but unless you just don't have a heart....someone's gonna get hurt sooner or later. What if your friend finds a true love and leaves ya ...then what?? | |
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| can people just be f___ friends
Posted: 3/7/2007 1:29:54 PM | | you mean to tell me that you have never had the feeling when you are in like a check out line or at a club or even in a restaraunt and you see that person who isnt really hot but has justthat one part of their body that you want to get all over...or that they have something on that makes up for their face or other places...and you think...yeah I'd **** him/her....or, "what if i just grab him/her and pulled them aside and started in on it"....and when you were done...you'd be like yeah id do it again....or what if you are involved with someone and you just want a different taste....of course you can have f.friends....i have two!!!!!! | |
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| can people just be f___ friends
Posted: 7/15/2007 10:45:07 PM | Yes, men as well as women can have f*** buddies. The comment made by uandmeareus is obsurd....he really thinks he understand women, or maybe he's only dealth with the small world of Minnesota white women.... to make the statement that women... " ALWAYS NEED A MAN" IS ABSURD. I definitely don't think that if he ever interacted with a variety of women from other cities as well as cultures and ethnic backgrounds he would have made this statement. He certainly doesn't have enough info to say this about ALL WOMEN...sorry!! you just can't.
I am orginally from Chicago and have noticed that the women in Minnesota tend to be prissy, clicke, uptight and very close minded. I am a strong black women whose openmined, down to earth, assertive uninhibited and I think that... if you know that you are the kind of person that can not handle a ****-buddy type of situation then you should steer clear of them. You have to be sure that it's what you are looking for. When you connect with someone... you have to discuss in the beginning or early
stages of the connection what your expectations are - whether a guy or a girl - you have to both agree upon what you want from that situation when you meet. The other thing is.....you don't make a ****-buddy out of any of your personal friends - THIS IS JUST ASKING FOR TROUBLE.
****-buddies should be made up of people you don't already have in your existing social/personal circles. I don't have a lot of faith in and or expectations in men and many of the men that I meet tend to tell me that I conduct a relationship like I am conducting a business. I am a strong Capricorn -Capricorns are the father of the zodiac and Cancers are the mother - which would be one explanation for why I approach men as I do... in addition, to the way that I was raised. I'm am not one of those emotional females/person and tend to get along considerably better with men than with women. Not only have I jugled more that a few men I've been going out with at once, but I have been in a ****-buddy situation for more thanfour years.
So YES..****-BUDDIES ARE POSSIBLE. | |
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| can people just be f___ friends
Posted: 7/19/2007 1:17:49 PM | | I don't know why not as long as both of you agree. But I do think that it would be nice to also be friends and understand anything can happen such as the other one finding a companion they want to be true to. Or if for some reason it just isn't working out it can be over without any regrets. People these days men or women like being single, easier now days and most of us still need a little | |
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| can people just be f___ friends
Posted: 7/31/2007 11:59:07 AM | Hi,
I have had a couple women who were f---- friends and it worked out just fine. It's not only possible, it's doable. We are stll friends today and there are no feelings of jealousy or angst when we see each other. | |
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| can people just be f___ friends
Posted: 8/24/2007 11:34:45 AM | | hey uandmeareus, yes , i can go to the bathroom bye myself, i can definately keep a secret, i shop by myself and travel by my self. i think you have some serious issuse with the opposite sex. it's not surprising that your alone. get help honey. i had been in a reltionshipthat i guess you could say was [**** buddies] we became great friends and both went on to other relationships . we always kept it discreet and till the the day he passed on ,it was terriffic. | |
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| can people just be f___ friends
Posted: 8/24/2007 11:35:58 AM | | hey uandmeareus, yes , i can go to the bathroom by myself, i can definately keep a secret, i shop by myself and travel by my self. i think you have some serious issuse with the opposite sex. it's not surprising that your alone. get help honey. i had been in a reltionship that i guess you could say was [**** buddies] we became great friends and both went on to other relationships . we always kept it discreet and till the the day he passed on ,it was terriffic. | |
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| can people just be f___ friends
Posted: 10/27/2007 5:16:38 PM | Sorry for being too cliche or too simplistic.
Sure people can have sex as just friends.
Yes one may want more and left hurt that the other doesn't and feel used.
I had one of those types of relationships but sex buddy wasn't a term I would prefer.
I loved her as a friend and we were like friends but we were oposite sex that loved to have sex with each other.
The relationship wasn't based on just sex.
I couldn't answer why we did just have a serious boyfriend /girlfriend relationship but we have great memories.
Again what really matters is what the two of you want, hopefully you both agree and it works for yea. | |
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| can people just be f___ friends
Posted: 11/10/2007 4:45:03 AM | | then you find another .....you know life is what you make it ..it you feel moraly that its wrong then thats a different issue but the real issue is a need and a want ,,some people have a great need to be loved ,or just wanted and they will take it in any form they can get just so there wanted if only for a brief moment ,the main reason kids join gangs is they dont get the attention or feel loved at home alkaholics..sp? there reasoning is the same ..so a f...buddy or friend as a good thing as long as both partys understand that one person might fall in love with the other ..... | |
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| can people just be f___ friends
Posted: 2/9/2008 11:11:55 AM | Yes freinds can sex.
And still be firends to.
It happens all the time.
So it what you want do you want to be more then friends?
Is the really question.
Do what feel right to you guys.
And is if it becomes more then friends .
If it dooes then it was mean to be.
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| can people just be f___ friends
Posted: 4/23/2008 4:34:24 AM | yes the can have fk buddies and stay friends hell even be the best man at there wedding.
friends are friends nothing more and i have i think one friend that really all one needs
in 5 years she never asked any thing from me so i bought her a new car . now this female is only a friend nothing more she lives in my house and everything i have is hers but there is no other feeling involved she has her own room as do i . WE DO NOT EVER AND WILL NEVER HAVE SEX | |
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| can people just be f___ friends
Posted: 4/29/2009 9:54:35 AM | | As long as both parties are looking for the same thing why not. Personally, I have had that and it worked well for the both of us. We didn't want to be committed to one another and didn't expect anything serious and so we had fun for the time being with it. | |
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