| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 3:00:09 PM | I was in a book store today and saw MANY books about how men are unfaithfull and that women just gotta accept it.
What do you think???
I hope it's not true, cause it's really depressing | |
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| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 3:02:12 PM | No, it is not true. Not all men cheat and not all women cheat. This generalization bothers me....
I have been cheated on in the past and I still trust people. I decided that I could not let bad past experiences ruin my present or my future.
I would rather wear Payless shoes than mess around on a boy that I like....
~Carrie B. | |
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| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 3:03:18 PM | Was their any books about how women can be just as unfaithful!!!???
Yes Fidelity is definately possible.....but it's also just as possible that both genders can't help but get away with cheating.
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| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 3:06:17 PM | | Fidelity is VERY possible! If it weren't... most of us would have given up a long time ago. | |
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| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 3:08:16 PM | yes, in the same shelf as:
"green mens amongh us" , "Elvis work at burger king" & "greatest phylosoph of all time:jerry springer".
Am simply speechless!
Fidelity DOES exist and is FAR more common that few 'burned ones" broadcast around to get attention, relief, pitty or even in some case, your money! | |
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| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 3:11:09 PM | I truly believe in fidelity. That's one of the reasons I'm still a virgin. I want to get to know the woman enough first that I know I'm not going to find them dating another man. Am I naive? Perhaps. Then again, I can't be the only naive person left on the planet.
Yes it is hard to overcome one's primal urges and not see there are many attractive women out there. Still I have enough stamina to hold out until I'm ready to be with someone permanently and they are obviously ready to be with me permanently. I will only date one woman at a time. That way if someone really is desiring to be with me, I don't have to worry about turning someone down. Surely there are some women out there who are the same way.
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| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 3:15:48 PM | Don't worry, that's not true there are all type of people out there, and of course there are honest people too.
Things like those books are written with that purpose, to get people depress, sell them medicine for "depression" at individual level, and to make easier to manipulate the masses at social level
And they are written by people who pursue to destroy everything they can in society including you, as a human being. | |
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| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 3:32:31 PM | | yeah, there are some of us (men and women) that are faithful and will always be | |
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| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 3:36:39 PM | | of course it is.....and the majority of people are not cheating.....i would never think of cheating on someone....you can't expect people to respect you if you cheat and show the utmost disrespect........karma will catch up with the good people and the people who cheat....it is possible......the people who are monogomous and keepers need to be more vocal about it.....too many times all you hear about is the cheaters......it should be news when people don't cheat...... | |
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| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 3:47:22 PM | | I've never cheated on any girl I've been with. Not even when I wanted out of the relationship. | |
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| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 3:50:44 PM | | Wow. That was so one sided...not all men are cheaters, but why when it comes to cheating...the guy is always at the top of the list? | |
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| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 3:58:31 PM | Yes it is - on my end anyhow. I firmly believe in it (I have too much conscience and wa-aa-ay too soft a heart to play her) I trust in hers. If either side fails, the whole thing falls.
Steve | |
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| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 4:44:09 PM | melp...No, it's not true...I believe in totally fidelity to the person you love and care about...and there is NEVER anything going to change my mind on that ever!! And I know a lot of decent guys that feel the same way...just because it's in a book...doesn't make it so!!! It only sells copies...they will do anything sometimes to make money...so don't get depressed...there still are a lot of people that believe in Fidelity...
Sorry you have such a terrible marriage Frankie, that you look to other's to fill the void...
~Micheline~ | |
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| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 4:50:33 PM | 1st
Frankie: I just dont think she has yet found a person thats rocked her world, both physically and emotionally, enough for her to be faithful with..Remember we all have our own stories..just too bad shes so far away LOL
Now with that said
Ill admit that all my life i have been girl crazy...BUT when my heart goes out to someone, they are the only one in my life and thats how its always been. Cheating is for spineless losers who cant face up to their partner. Fidelity shows strength and conviction, therefore Fidelity is Cool. I figure if Ive been able to survive all my life without cheating, so can anyone else. | |
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Joined: 5/28/2006
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| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 5:01:04 PM | Well...........I dunno.............if I went to a bookstore and read something in one of the books................I could onlly surmise that it IS the TRUTH!!  | |
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| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 5:01:04 PM | | Fidelity is cool! If you don't have trust and communication in a relationship then it will never survive the ups and downs. | |
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toyoux
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Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 21 | |
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| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 5:05:32 PM | I have been lucky though - if a man in my life is contemplating cheating, knowing I have no tolerance for cheating and believe in monogamy - I can tell by the sudden perceived "distance". Fortunately very few men in my life have been cheaters. They don't admit to cheating but they don't deny it. End of the relationship, period!
I practice what I preach and I expect the man I am involved with to do the same. | |
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| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 5:24:50 PM | | I think it's hype that people will buy it and read it...to validate what all people believe. I don't think self help books and relationship books will help if one person in a relationship keeps looking for other prospective sexual partners | |
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| Fidelity - Is it possible?
Posted: 6/2/2006 5:34:22 PM | I agree with ^^^^^ post...those books are written for those who are being unfaithful, or involved with a partner who is being unfaithful in order to validate their own feelings, and actions.
It is possible when in a relationship that is meeting the needs of both individuals to maintain fidelity. | |
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