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| How does a women know when a guy uses sex to show he cares, or just using her for sex??
Posted: 6/10/2006 10:24:40 PM | First, know that good sex is a big part of any relationship. Don't think he's just after play because he has a more satisfied look on his face when you let him cum in your mouth. All guys just wanna mate, so don't judge him either way based on this.
Next, try to see what he's doing to keep you. Is he sharing his free time with you. Is he more considerate to you then others? Is he honest with you? Is he loyal? Is he sharing his emotions sincerely with you? Does he give you straightforward answers when you ask him where he sees the relationship going? If all of these are a go, chances are you've got a keeper. | |
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| How does a women know when a guy uses sex to show he cares, or just using her for sex??
Posted: 6/11/2006 8:42:23 AM | | Ok...let me get this strait....you think that men have sex with a woman because they care about her? Sex is a purely physical act for a man. I am convinced the physical nature of a relationship determines whether they become emotionally engaged at all....and the emotional connection does not necessarily happen at all. | |
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quark
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Joined: 4/29/2006
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| How does a women know when a guy uses sex to show he cares, or just using her for sex??
Posted: 6/14/2006 4:29:07 PM | first let me tell you unless your a vegetable there's something there. my advice don't have sex first get to know your partner ,they'll surprise you the angel in the sack can be a **** other wise run for your lives ,i made that mistake,if there's nothing but sex let her go unless that's all you want ,but she is going to spill her guts and problems on you ,you owe her now nothings free! | |
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| How does a women know when a guy uses sex to show he cares, or just using her for sex??
Posted: 6/19/2006 12:03:03 AM | | I would disagree. I don't think that the two are always related. I have had emotional ties with someone and the physical portion of the relationship was a train wreck. Not all men are shallow and only want sex. Some give up on the emotional relationship for the ladies sake because the physical relationship becomes difficult for whatever reason. Don't you think that is possible? | |
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| How does a women know when a guy uses sex to show he cares, or just using her for sex??
Posted: 6/19/2006 12:12:44 AM | Well...
If a guy is really into the person and it's about caring and loving that person, there will be more time spent on the person and not just the act itself. Personally, the idea of savoring
the person you love can be like a fine wine. You wouldn't just just gulp it down. You savor it in many different ways and take time to appreciate what it is. To gulp it down wouldn't exactly be showing any appreciate of being into them and would reflect just the interest in sex.
Cheers,
J G D | |
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| How does a women know when a guy uses sex to show he cares, or just using her for sex??
Posted: 6/19/2006 4:11:38 AM | If you sleep with him and he still calls you. If he still listens to you. If he still does silly things for you. If he supports you. If he still is cute with you, he is NOT using you for sex...
However, if he stops calling you as much. If he does not seem to care If he seems to be losing interest in you...Then he IS using you for sex.
I do not know much about men but that much I do know...
~Carrie . | |
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| How does a women know when a guy uses sex to show he cares, or just using her for sex??
Posted: 6/19/2006 5:06:38 AM | yeah, girls tend to worry about this.
I guess it's easier to be a guy, enjoy sex, and if you decide you have feelings, enjoy sex and feelings.
I guess it can be hard to tell.
back when i first got with my old girlfriend, she had these concerns early on, because we'd go at it like 4 or 5 times a day.
JUST BECAUSE I WANT LOTS AND LOTS AND LOTS OF SEX, doesn't mean that i'm using you FOR sex. in fact as i came to love her i wanted more still.....man...life is good lol.
anyhow, after she woke up one morning to a song i had written her, she got the idea that i really liked her....then she ****ed my brains out, and we were both really happy.
man, i wish her family hadn't moved. **** Utah. | |
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| How does a women know when a guy uses sex to show he cares, or just using her for sex??
Posted: 6/19/2006 6:01:33 AM | It's all about the things that precedes and follows the sex that makes the difference.
It's the attentiveness you get around the clock - the touching, the little things to make you smile, the helpful things done unselfishly, anything that makes you feel good about you and your relationship together. There are a ton of things that make all the difference in the world, to how you feel once you lay together. You will also be able to tell by how your emotions overwhelm you and the ability to absorb yourself in him and reach climax - when he cares and you care for him it's a very different experience. | |
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| How does a women know when a guy uses sex to show he cares, or just using her for sex??
Posted: 6/19/2006 6:19:57 AM | | is there a reason he doesnt tell you what you mean to him? I have been here and i know its frustrating and you second guess the relationship at times...I dont get why guys cant just say what they are feeling towards a gal. Good Luck hon...and i agree witht he above posters saying its alot about how he is the rest o the time. | |
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Joined: 12/17/2005
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| How does a women know when a guy uses sex to show he cares, or just using her for sex??
Posted: 6/19/2006 7:10:59 AM | Here are signs to look for that says he may actually care about you instead of just wanting a piece.
1. He spends the night. (On purpose, just didn't fall asleep after cuming)
2. He cuddles before falling asleep.
3. He makes sure you get off at least once.
4. He does something sexual that he is not that big on, but drives you crazy.
5. He knows your name.
6. He wants to spend time with you outside the bedroom.
7. He stays up late playing video games with your kids instead of coming to bed and having sex. (occasionally, if its like that all the time, its a little creepy) | |
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Joined: 6/13/2006
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| How does a women know when a guy uses sex to show he cares, or just using her for sex??
Posted: 6/19/2006 7:17:44 AM | | This is probably going to come out sounding shallow, but... why all the reflection? I mean, how does lovemaking with this person make you feel? Is it gratifying? Do you feel more connected to this person during the act of love, or just sort of submitting to it wondering if there's something really there or not??? Sex is an expression of many things. It can be passionate, visceral, etc. Ask yourself these questions, then ask him as well. | |
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