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Posted: 6/14/2006 2:47:29 PM | If this comes across as a self pity thread - it's NOT!!!
I seriously would like to know what people think about their vibes and am only giving my situation as an example:
I've been off work on sick leave with a case of sciatica, which has me gimping around with a walking stick - but I must be putting vibes out there cuz I'm not getting any e-mails on this site or any any of the others I'm on . . .
What do you all think about the vibes you put out there? | |
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Posted: 6/14/2006 2:53:37 PM | | i have received few if any messages from the ladies so i don't worry about it anymore.i check out the forums and have a few laughs about the whole thing.sooner or later when the right person checks you out you will get a message or 2.it is a big pond we are in | |
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Posted: 6/14/2006 2:55:48 PM | I dont know about that Lassie.. but I certainly have had more than I can handle in the last 2 weeks.. Id be glad to pass them on LOL... I dont know if it has anything to do with vibes, due to the fact that most of my posts are complete shinanigans.. hehe I think life is what you make it.. so I would say go do yourself up... feel sexy, be sexy, YOU ARE SEXY...see if it works... if it doesnt.. then I guess you have your answer  | |
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Posted: 6/14/2006 3:21:59 PM | Thanks for those thoughts - but I realise I missed a point in my original posting . . .
I should have asked if anyone thought I was putting out negative vibes . . . | |
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Posted: 6/14/2006 3:45:48 PM | Lassie, it's not you...us women can be soo hard on ourselves.
This could also come from expectations of others...and maybe expecting others to make the moves etc? I could be wrong in this case, I have been known to make a mistake or 2.  | |
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Posted: 6/14/2006 3:52:37 PM | Cute...vibes over the web? I have heard of giving vibes by what you write (and we all know what is written can easily be taken the wrong way), but I've not heard of sending vibes out "there" by not doing anything...
I can sense vibes from people i meet IP, but rarely on the net, especially when i haven't even exchanged a written word with them. I wouldn't worry about it Lassie...give yourself the right to smile & be happy...maybe that will change your views or thoughts...good luck! | |
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Posted: 6/14/2006 3:53:34 PM | ScotchLassie... It is a big pond out there as some have said... and I don't think it has so much to do with vibes... remebmer it is the summer time too...and people are much busier doin things & not at home as much... I too am not able to work due to some chronic conditons... however it no longer effects my attitude... or my vibes... Get out there and start sending messages off... you'd be surprised how many guys say...wow...thanks for messaging me...I never get any messages.
Good luck to you... | |
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Posted: 6/14/2006 4:03:09 PM | | Thanks everyone - but really . . . I'm not looking for advice or a sympathy vote . . . Really want to know what y'all think about the vibes out there | |
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Posted: 6/14/2006 5:47:19 PM | | Just to put my 2 cents in. I pick up vibes much more through people's postings than from their profiles. I've read some of your posts Scotchlassie and I've not picked up any negative vibes from you. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2006 7:54:22 PM | | Just fun vibes here Scotchlassie,... only vibes I ever pick up are the written word and what people project through their writings. Easy yeas or naes. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2006 8:04:34 PM | If it makes you feel better, i don't get new mail on here.
but then again, it's not really for me to be concerned about that. | |
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Posted: 6/16/2006 12:12:11 AM | I don't get anything negative from you other then this starting post, as the pic of you limping around in pain is not a nice thought.. I hope your feeling better soon!!!!!
I get HUGE feelings from people instantly. Usually the negative feelings come right away as soon i start corresponding with someone.. Then i just end it :)
I know this may sound corny.. but the universe always gives us what we need in ways we will never fully understand. Your not well pysically at the moment, and maybe the lack of emails is a way for the universe to say.. HEY you need to take it easy dear girl!!!
GET BETTER SOON!!! I've had it ... it is awful!!!
Jenn: | |
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Posted: 6/16/2006 2:02:57 AM | i hear you on the "vibes" thing...but i don't think i can pick up on them over the PC...in real life...oh yeah. i tend to meet new people quite a bit, some i keep, some i weed out.
and i've been told i give off the "don't flirt with me" vibe, i wish i could drop that one! | |
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Posted: 6/16/2006 7:20:09 AM |
i've been told i give off the "don't flirt with me" vibe, i wish i could drop that one.
Ohhhh nasty for you - I don't usually have any probs flirting with fellas at the supermarket checkouts etc . . . If you're coming out this way, let me know and we can do the 'flirt' thingie | |
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Posted: 12/9/2007 8:16:11 AM |
I dont know about that Lassie.. but I certainly have had more than I can handle in the last 2 weeks.. Id be glad to pass them on LOL... I dont know if it has anything to do with vibes, due to the fact that most of my posts are complete shinanigans.. hehe I think life is what you make it.. so I would say go do yourself up... feel sexy, be sexy, YOU ARE SEXY...see if it works... if it doesnt.. then I guess you have your answer
I thnk this makes ,y point about vibes, you've got more than you can handle right now - so your confidnece is up and you're flying high - well done!!! | |
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Tyeee
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Joined: 7/6/2007
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Posted: 12/9/2007 10:17:38 AM | Scotchlassie
I think you might be putting out negative vibes, as least in your profile. While your photos are engaging, the first line in your description "I'm only here for the forums, parties and friends" tells anyone that might be interested in writing there is little point.
The second line in your profile advises you have a new love so again, discourages new contacts.
Tyeee | |
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Posted: 12/9/2007 4:40:36 PM | | ^^ that and the fact that this was originally posted a year and a half ago! LOL | |
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Joined: 7/6/2007
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Posted: 12/9/2007 5:29:38 PM | | Funny then that OP rejuvenated this post now... perhaps it was a computer glitch, not her. | |
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Posted: 12/9/2007 11:32:04 PM | My personal op in this one is that vibes give off more then many people think that they do. I recently watched a video that had much to do about how you act, feel, and think the vibes that you give off from those feelings and I for one truley believe in this theory. So since this D.V.D. I have made a major effort to change those vibes, (how I'm thinking and how I come across,) and in more ways then I can count it has made a major difference in how I'm percieved, looked at, and understood. Suggestion is a powerfull thing. Spoken, and unspoken.  | |
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Posted: 12/10/2007 1:00:15 PM | ^^^^
You are so right.
A quote that I repeat often, "reality is 10% fact and 90% attitude". Our thinking has much to do with how we, and other, see each others.
Doc Sage  | |
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Posted: 12/10/2007 1:08:27 PM | | Just from my experience surfing profiles, I tend not to look to hard at profiles with a lot of don't and must nots on their profile. It makes me feel like there is a controlling relationship there. Been there, done that, ya know... ? | |
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Posted: 12/10/2007 1:56:15 PM | vibes..?? what you want and how you feel about yourself ...is all that matters ,,
..you cant please everyone .don't try and read minds .vibes? body language ?horoscope ?
Christmas is a funny time of the year ,,and it stirs up a lot of emotions,,some old some new ,,some good some bad ,some happy some sad...just try and stick with the merry.. | |
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Posted: 12/11/2007 1:13:25 PM | pretty sure last time i checked this was a dating site. if you want more messages from other people maybe consider checking out other forums that are on other sites of interests... people to chat with about issues etc. instead of this site.
when i didnt have children i got twice as many more messages than when i changed my profile to has children...
so it can also depend how often your online. the more i come online the more IMs i get because some people dont enjoy searching through profiles but instead just more so look at the ones already online
to one person you could be giving positive vibes and to another negitive so its a really difficult question...
people who are not single actually still get messages?
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Xavery
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Joined: 4/22/2007
Msg: 24 | |
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Posted: 12/12/2007 12:12:37 AM | | I don't think people can send off vibe online, but who knows maybe one can. I was in a situation somewhat like yours over a year ago _ OP and I had more dates then than I do now. It doesn't have to be all bad. | |
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