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 AlishaSweet
Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 1
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A lot of my girlfriends don't want their boyfriends looking or jacking off to porn. I'm ok with it, I even like the thought and love to watch. Does this make me strange? What do you ladies (and guys) think?
 lookingineastcanton
Joined: 8/7/2005
Msg: 2
boyfriends jerking off to porn.
Posted: 6/14/2006 4:17:22 PM
that it's a normal thing to do..or want
 jr52052
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 3
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boyfriends jerking off to porn.
Posted: 6/14/2006 4:38:35 PM
So what?? - He can't catch anything on the web....it can be cool to watch a guy do that too.

Is he trying to hide it? Is he cool with it? Does he do it every free moment??? Does he make a mess and not clean it up?

A lot to take into spec. Because then....it matters.
 eternalsunshinexxx
Joined: 4/5/2006
Msg: 4
boyfriends jerking off to porn.
Posted: 6/14/2006 4:40:10 PM
Completely normal to do this, it wouldn't bother me in the slightest, it certainly wouldn't make think I wasn't enough for him either, I am flesh and blood, porn isn't, the only thing that would bother me is if he wouldn't share
 AnnudderVoice
Joined: 2/26/2006
Msg: 5
boyfriends jerking off to porn.
Posted: 6/14/2006 4:53:26 PM
I suspect it depends on the content and quality of the porn.

Not that I would ever watch such. Sheesh, hope they buy that one.

Annudder
 twoshadows
Joined: 4/4/2006
Msg: 6
boyfriends jerking off to porn.
Posted: 6/14/2006 5:31:00 PM
As long as he doesn't wear himself out and still has something left for you. My wife never minded if I did so,so long as I was able to get it up for her later on.
 webwanderer
Joined: 7/9/2004
Msg: 7
boyfriends jerking off to porn.
Posted: 6/14/2006 5:32:37 PM
Women should encourage it because usually if a guy jerks off a little whlie before sex he will last longer!
 Ldygmr
Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 8
boyfriends jerking off to porn.
Posted: 6/14/2006 5:36:10 PM
Do what you like. If it doesn't hurt someone else, who cares?


I think that as long as the porn doesn't replace YOU, why quibble? I like to watch a guy do that too. It's sexy. And when he's got himself all worked up, you can hop on and reap the benefits of HIS work.

How cool is that?
 webwanderer
Joined: 7/9/2004
Msg: 9
boyfriends jerking off to porn.
Posted: 6/14/2006 5:37:36 PM
Finding mutually exciting porn is the best way to go.
 Ldygmr
Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 10
boyfriends jerking off to porn.
Posted: 6/14/2006 5:40:08 PM
Are you offering to cam, web?

*winks*

I agree that something both like is good.
 X Shadow X
Joined: 5/23/2006
Msg: 11
boyfriends jerking off to porn.
Posted: 6/14/2006 6:10:58 PM
All the boyfriend's you will ever have will have masturbated to porn... Most will be while in the relationship with you... Porn masturbation precedes you, I think you should at least accpet it... whether you wanna watch it or participate in it is YOUR choice... Masturbation with porn is HIS choice... And if I might add, no girl has ever come close to my masturbation skills... It's a physical pleasure that is hard to replicate, for me anyways...

So masturbation is more than ok, especially with porn... It's a whole sexual activity in itself, it's the only moment I can feel pleasure without feeling guilty for not giving any...

Masturbation is a PERSONAL choice, not a couple one...
 anotheraviator
Joined: 10/26/2004
Msg: 12
boyfriends jerking off to porn.
Posted: 6/14/2006 6:46:14 PM
Im still waiting for the day I walk in and find her goin' at 'er to some 1st class smut!
 prettyprincesst
Joined: 2/15/2006
Msg: 13
boyfriends jerking off to porn.
Posted: 6/14/2006 6:54:34 PM
porn is hot! watch it alone, watch it together, make one... it's all good!
 goodguybadboy
Joined: 11/19/2005
Msg: 14
boyfriends jerking off to porn.
Posted: 6/14/2006 7:02:20 PM
was in a porn once.. jack off to it often..lol.. wanna see?... lol.. the porn i mean..lol... if ya watch it you'll see me jacking off..lmao
 Always Smiling35
Joined: 7/1/2005
Msg: 15
boyfriends jerking off to porn.
Posted: 6/14/2006 7:18:59 PM
I would not date some-one who was that possesive, controlling, and childish.

Porn is awsome, and used properly, it can be an awsome way to enhance your sex life.
I dont mind throwing one off now and again for my lover, when I find one.
 pie eater
Joined: 6/9/2006
Msg: 16
boyfriends jerking off to porn.
Posted: 6/14/2006 7:27:43 PM
It keeps us on the straight and narrow.

More porn = less cheating
More porn = more hetero sex drive
More porn = more knowledge of how to please you
 mell861
Joined: 6/11/2006
Msg: 17
boyfriends jerking off to porn.
Posted: 6/14/2006 7:48:19 PM
I love porn myself and get off on it...so why would I have a problem with my guy watching it
 LovelyLadiLumpz
Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 18
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boyfriends jerking off to porn.
Posted: 6/14/2006 8:00:05 PM
Just as long as he put my dvd back in the right place, ofcourse he can watch porn!
 Your Enigma
Joined: 4/30/2006
Msg: 19
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boyfriends jerking off to porn.
Posted: 6/14/2006 8:08:04 PM
what would they prefer their boyfriends do?

 digitalsanity
Joined: 5/1/2006
Msg: 20
boyfriends jerking off to porn.
Posted: 6/14/2006 8:17:22 PM
It used to bother me, when I was young and immature.
Now I am secure with myself, and I understand that it is JUST PORN!!
Its not like he is out there cheating on you...he just needs a release from time to time, and men happen to be more visual than most women.
 scrum26
Joined: 2/4/2006
Msg: 21
boyfriends jerking off to porn.
Posted: 6/14/2006 8:26:02 PM
i've never understood women who refuse to let their men watch or own porn. Get over yourself. No matter how much you hope and pray... you're more than likely NOT the sexual woman of his dreams. Unless you happen to be jenna jameson then please except my apology and phone number. wait....
anyway! just because he wants to watch someone else do it, it doesn't mean he doesn't want YOU. Get over it. It's just porn. And while you're at it,...bring me some.
shit, i would buy my man porn for christmas.
 Gambit
Joined: 5/27/2006
Msg: 22
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Posted: 6/14/2006 8:35:52 PM
Some guy somewhere stalked a porn star, or a group of guys get labeled addicted to porn and it ruins it for the rest of us. I would assume these girls (women don't care) are self-conscious that their men are coming to bed with them still thinking about the porn-star, or that the guy thinks what the pornstars do should be alright with her. Yet do they talk to their men about it (I assume some do) but we always hear about those who b!tch to their friends and then break up with the guy, and then start the process all over again...until *gasp* they finally find someone who doesn't look at porn, deal with their feelings, or talk to the guy about it.

This goes also for those things women do that guys don't like, and get all bent out of shape for.
 digitalsanity
Joined: 5/1/2006
Msg: 23
boyfriends jerking off to porn.
Posted: 6/14/2006 8:42:54 PM
I found that watching my BFs porn for myself helped me get over my issues with it. lol still can not get myself to watch porn with a man, but hey making progress!!
 scrum26
Joined: 2/4/2006
Msg: 24
boyfriends jerking off to porn.
Posted: 6/14/2006 9:09:47 PM
digital digital digital..... honey.... you have GOT to watch porn with a man. PLEASE i beg you to do it... once you do it, you'll LOVE it. You have to trust me on this one. If i'm hanging with a dude and he's like, "hey porn sounds like a good idea" im like.. "fvck yeah!!" (this is assuming IM not the one who requested it first)
 Butterscotchlicker
Joined: 6/2/2006
Msg: 25
boyfriends jerking off to porn.
Posted: 6/14/2006 9:22:26 PM
i love watching men jack off...i don't care if they're watching porn or not...it turns me on so much that i cum when he does...i don't even have to touch myself and i cum!!!
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