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 neverbeenlaid
Joined: 1/31/2005
Msg: 1
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I know most people have been laid by the time they're 23, but i havnt. I've never even had a girlfriend. I think honestly im afraid of women. Are there more guys like that out there? If not, what would you do if you were me?
 Phresh
Joined: 1/31/2005
Msg: 2
Is it abnormal to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 2/23/2005 3:01:53 PM
if you've made it this far, wait til marriage. i was gonna.. but i only made it til i was 18. its like.. as soon as i got my own house BAM!! no boundaries. yeah. so im 21 now and wishin' i was still waiting. sex is like pringles.. once you pop... you just can't stop.
 klakalou
Joined: 9/3/2004
Msg: 3
Is it abnormal to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 2/23/2005 3:06:41 PM
i made it to 20. i dont regret it, but i wish i spent it on the right women.
 Webbum
Joined: 1/18/2005
Msg: 4
Is it abnormal to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 2/23/2005 3:13:12 PM
I lost mine at 19, I wish I would have waited longer so I knew what the frig I was doing!
All my friends pressured me into getting laid as soon as possible.
Don't be in a hurry, I think it's all good!
 Frankenbeans
Joined: 2/22/2005
Msg: 5
Is it abnormal to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 2/23/2005 3:14:35 PM
I am shocked to learn you have neverbeenlaid yet. Shocked and stunned.

What are you waiting for?

I had sex the first time when I was 14 and that was after spending two years thinking I would die if I couldn't have sex. There is nothing wrong with sex. In fact, some people claim it feels good.

Just go slow your first time and make sure there are no bears around.

It is not at all abnormal, but it is incomprehensible. Many people wait until well into their twenties. I knew an English Professor who waited until she was almost 40 before she had intercourse. Until then she did things like oral sex and whatnot. I didn't ask what whatnot is. There is something to be said for waiting but I forget what that is.

You define normal for your own life.
 gg
Joined: 12/21/2004
Msg: 6
Is it abnormal to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 2/23/2005 4:17:28 PM
No, not at all, it's 'perfectly' normal and you'll probably go on to have an excellent relationship with someone, that others only dream of.

Also....... bear in mind that all of you is perfectly normal, for you.

;-)
 peace2u
Joined: 10/19/2004
Msg: 7
Is it abnormal to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 2/23/2005 4:20:36 PM
Hey i think that's cool, respect to you
 gg
Joined: 12/21/2004
Msg: 8
Is it abnormal to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 2/23/2005 4:21:03 PM
oops, I was gonna crack a joke then but it may not be funny (no, not about you youngsta, about an older guy :-)) but I am controlling myself.

 gg
Joined: 12/21/2004
Msg: 9
Is it abnormal to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 2/23/2005 4:21:24 PM
 VictorWill
Joined: 2/22/2005
Msg: 10
Is it abnormal to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 2/23/2005 4:39:02 PM
Man, don't worry about it. I think I was 27 before I got laid. Keep the faith, and just hang in there. There will be plenty of good, and bad things to come along. Take what you can, and walk away when the cards don't look good.
 stubobb
Joined: 1/24/2005
Msg: 11
Is it abnormal to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 2/23/2005 4:43:15 PM
I wouldn't say 'abnormal', I'd venture 'highly unusual'. You're ready when you're ready.
I couldn't imagine it though. I fell prey to a cougar at 17. After an intense schooling period I had to weigh the loss of some idealism against this entire new world of wich I had NO CLUE.
I wouldn't change a thing.
 LEXI_IS_TROUBLE
Joined: 10/27/2004
Msg: 12
Is it abnormal to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 2/23/2005 4:44:32 PM
the bottom line here is...dont do it until you're ready. thats all there is to it, age really has nothing to do with it. you're the only one who can know when you are ready to take the "plunge" lol jmo
 boredatnight
Joined: 11/14/2004
Msg: 13
Is it abnormal to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 2/23/2005 4:46:24 PM
i agree...nothing wrong with being a virgin...infact i think it's kind of nice
 strangerstill
Joined: 12/20/2004
Msg: 14
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Is it abnormal to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 2/23/2005 5:17:02 PM
Just remember you only get one first time and thats the memory you're gonna be stuck with. Theres no rush so why waste a perfectly good memory with a "settle" lay.
 gg
Joined: 12/21/2004
Msg: 15
Is it abnormal to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 2/23/2005 5:30:06 PM
And............. 'neverbeenlaid'.............. it's a bit like smoking........ once you start you can't stop............. so.................. don't start, unless you're sure you have a good supply!!!

lol

 LEXI_IS_TROUBLE
Joined: 10/27/2004
Msg: 16
Is it abnormal to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 2/23/2005 5:31:50 PM
lmao, very good point gg, i didnt even think about that.
 gg
Joined: 12/21/2004
Msg: 17
Is it abnormal to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 2/23/2005 5:47:40 PM
(((((((((((((( well here I am ))))))))))))))))))))


 LEXI_IS_TROUBLE
Joined: 10/27/2004
Msg: 18
Is it abnormal to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 2/23/2005 5:48:40 PM
i have a question, mostly for the ladies....would you have sex with a guy if you knew he was a virgin? i dont think that i would, was just curious what you guys would do...
 gg
Joined: 12/21/2004
Msg: 19
Is it abnormal to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 2/23/2005 5:48:47 PM
Yeah Lexi.......... dreadful addiction. *sigh*

lol

 gg
Joined: 12/21/2004
Msg: 20
Is it abnormal to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 2/23/2005 5:50:10 PM
Why not Lexi?
 LEXI_IS_TROUBLE
Joined: 10/27/2004
Msg: 21
Is it abnormal to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 2/23/2005 5:52:46 PM
i dont know, i guess maybe i would feel like i was corrupting him or something, there was a guy i knew recently that wanted me to be his first, and i just couldnt bring myself to do it. maybe it was his age, he was only 22,,*shrugs* dunno
 LEXI_IS_TROUBLE
Joined: 10/27/2004
Msg: 22
Is it abnormal to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 2/23/2005 5:53:59 PM
lol ok seeker now i am curious, what exactly IS going through your mind right now??? do tell, inquiring minds want to know..
 LEXI_IS_TROUBLE
Joined: 10/27/2004
Msg: 23
Is it abnormal to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 2/23/2005 6:02:42 PM
ok that makes sense, though i havent read his profile, i rarely read anyones unless they write me.
 cassinova1976
Joined: 9/30/2004
Msg: 24
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Is it abnormal to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 2/23/2005 6:08:11 PM
Is it abnormal to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 2/23/2005 3:01:53 PM
if you've made it this far, wait til marriage. i was gonna.. but i only made it til i was 18. its like.. as soon as i got my own house BAM!! no boundaries. yeah. so im 21 now and wishin' i was still waiting. sex is like pringles.. once you pop... you just can't stop.


This guy was close its more like skittles taste the rainbow
 shadowdweller
Joined: 12/20/2004
Msg: 25
Is it abnormal to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 2/23/2005 6:20:59 PM
I'm 29 (d*mn! nearly 30) and haven't been laid.

I'm not completely interested in sex. NOW BEFORE YOU ALL RIOT AND TRY TO LYNCH ME...

I just never understood the concept. I don't understand why anyone would want to get married either. Most things regarding relationships mystify me.
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