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 sexyeyes826
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 1
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I love fantasizing about spanking and would like to get a real one, are there any guys out there who can tell me what it is that would make them want to spank a girl and how I can go about this. or any females who have gone through this with some advice.
 sgberry
Joined: 1/17/2006
Msg: 2
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 1:03:53 PM
If I were your boyfriend all you'd have to do is ask! Especially in the heat of the moment...just tell him: "Spank me please??? ohhh...It would be so hot if you spanked me..."

I can't think of a single guy who'd say "no" to that....
 lonely femme
Joined: 1/31/2006
Msg: 3
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 1:06:24 PM
It never hurts to ask, probably will turn him on if you did ask him.
 GSD
Joined: 4/22/2006
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 1:08:57 PM
yeah this ones easy to fix
just say it
i know if i heard that i would think its very hot
i think itd be hard to find a guy who wouldnt like that
 sexyeyes826
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 5
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 1:12:00 PM
i want him to do it in a sort of out of anger way , like i want to get him annoyed or angry with me.
 bedlog
Joined: 1/25/2006
Msg: 6
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 1:12:44 PM
Ok I have an idea, bear with me, but here it goes. "Hey baby, will you spank me? Spank me hard?". Try that when you see him next. Pretty sure it'll work.
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 1:16:28 PM
you may have to do something....naughty.
 luvsallmen
Joined: 5/11/2006
Msg: 8
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 1:23:30 PM

i want him to do it in a sort of out of anger way , like i want to get him annoyed or angry with me.


Sounds like you don't want a sexual spanking, but a punishment spanking. There is a difference. If you want him to do it out of anger, then sounds like you are harboring some sort of abuse fantasy. That is different than asking someone to give you some taps in the middle of sex.
 LonghairedLenny
Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 9
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 1:52:56 PM
just ask him "Who's my daddy?"...lol
 867love
Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 10
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 1:59:51 PM
easy, -run his car out of oil and destroy the engine.
 blondegreeneyedgal
Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 11
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 2:01:32 PM
oh baby harder, hurt me, spank me, im such a bad girl lol or spank him first lol
 Dan56
Joined: 11/19/2005
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 2:02:21 PM
Lots of people do what you are asking. The key here is still communication. Talk it out with your BF. Just tell him, like you told us, what you would like to try and how you would like to play the game. Make sure you both know a "safe" word to stop the game immediately if you experience too much pain. Party on!
 tinkerbell1983
Joined: 5/14/2006
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 2:05:11 PM
Just ask him...!
 just_Kats
Joined: 12/15/2005
Msg: 14
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 2:12:10 PM

-run his car out of oil and destroy the engine


hehe, yep, or smash down his tv..
 mikerdw
Joined: 5/28/2006
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 2:19:23 PM
just kick him in the balls. lol
 Proteus
Joined: 4/15/2006
Msg: 16
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 2:21:47 PM
I doubt theres anyway for you to get him to spontaneously do what your wanting. It's going to require you to talk to him the first time, then after he knows there is a green light, he will come around.

You might need to let him no on occasion that he has the freedom to experiment with the level of severity.

Otherwise, if he's a smart guy, he will never do it on his own. He might intitiate the standard spanking stuff without your coaxing him, but the hardcore kind your wanting requires some trust and intimate knowledge of your partner, the only way to obtain that is thru communication.
 chancejd
Joined: 6/13/2006
Msg: 17
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 2:36:21 PM
Damn....you mean some women have to ask for that??? Every girlfriend I have ever had got a spanking at some point.
 Dr_Malcolm
Joined: 8/14/2004
Msg: 18
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 2:37:21 PM
Have you tried asking your BF to spank you?
 Halfevl333
Joined: 3/26/2006
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How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 2:44:16 PM
As others have said, just ask him. That is the problem with many relationships, one or the other is afraid to ask for what they want. Now if you ask and he thinks you are sick or twisted then that is a whole different can of worms...

 kittenskisses
Joined: 4/30/2006
Msg: 20
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 2:48:03 PM
i agree with you luvsallmen, there are different types of spankings, sensual, , taps, hard , then there is discipline, to the one who origanlly posted , if you really wish too have him spank you harder than usual , sit him down and talk it over , mention it may be something you wish to experience, and may be also pleasurable to him also, and if its agreed , he may begin soft because he doesnt know how much you can take without him thinking it hurts you, when you pass the pleasure level, figure out a word you can use if it comes to close to that ( red, yellow, peanut, ect) eventualy with practice you will reach your level of comfort and get what you need or fantazie about,, but becareful, doing spanking to often without miosterizing your skin , it will become tough as leather. cant stress enough miosterize alot , hope this has helped.
 kryptosdaddy
Joined: 9/25/2004
Msg: 21
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 2:48:55 PM
put on a thong, wait until he's sitting on the couch and lay across his lap-then tell him you've been REAL bad. If this doesn't work, check his d@mn pulse!
 scrapman128
Joined: 3/4/2006
Msg: 22
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 2:50:12 PM
Start by spanking him first then point at your butt.
 silly woman
Joined: 1/10/2006
Msg: 23
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 2:58:49 PM
Yikes 85032luck, she wants the thrill of spanking, not mass murder, stick with letting the man know that you like the tingle of the spank, LEAVE HI CAR ALONE!!!....just tell him you want to make him very happy, and all he has to do is spank you into submission... then make him wet...
 roxygemini
Joined: 12/1/2005
Msg: 24
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 3:00:53 PM
Tell him you shagged his best friend and father.




Let me know how that works out for you.

 BooFA1010
Joined: 3/9/2006
Msg: 25
How can I get my boyfriend to spank me?
Posted: 6/17/2006 3:01:44 PM
the girl should not have to ask to get spanked. i spank my womans ass every chance i get. i love the sound of the slapping with tight jeans on
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