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Posted: 6/21/2006 1:54:38 PM | In every intimate relationship it is so important to be aware of your partners body and how it reacts to stimulation. If you do not know each others body how will you ever find complete sexual satisfaction together? In my opinion I think it is important to take some time just to explore and not indulge in intercourse at least a few times together.
Lay naked - talk as you explore (communicate and direct your partner) - try different types of touch (gentle to spanking if you wish) - use fingers/hands/mouth/tounge - use lots of body to body contact - use toys/oils etc. - give each other a dirty dance show or dance dirty together - watch porno if that's your thing - Imagination is a good thing!!! I'm sure you can all think of many things to do together.
Anyway I think it is really important to be able to bring each other to orgasm without intercourse - then when you do, you can bring each other to the brink with foreplay, then during intercourse you will find it easier to achive orgasm and simultaneously as well.
Sexual fulfillment 'without intercourse' is a benefit to any relationship.
What is your experience with this / & or do you think this is beneficial? | |
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Posted: 6/21/2006 1:57:32 PM | I agree... I love EVERY part of sex... Cunnilingus, fellation, intercourse, handjobs, toy playing, prostate stimulation, anal and Im getting old so Im sure I forgot some...
Intercourse is often less of a pure pleasure than the others... Yes I agree, making each other cum without penetration is a MUST, and often... | |
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Posted: 6/21/2006 1:58:09 PM | Nothing like a bottle of wine and bottle of strawberry kiwi massage oil
We are not only sexual, but also sensual beings.... our entire bodies can be an erogenous zones.... taking the time to get to know your partner's body... and what they enjoy is 
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Posted: 6/21/2006 1:58:09 PM | | I completely agree with you! I have a partner that I am not sure about sexually I am a bit shy bringing things up to him and he works out of town a month at a time however I plan on doing this sort of thing with him when he gets back bring us together on a more hmmmmm well a different level I suppose | |
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Posted: 6/21/2006 2:03:54 PM | | I have had plenty of fun trying to do it without intercourse but it has always ended up finishing with it LOL. It was super intense though to get each other to the point of no return. It kind of created the situation of "I gotta have you now!!!" and man when it happened it was some of the best sex ever! I think it is very important to get to know each others bodies intimately, makes it very fun and gives you knowledge about what buttons are good to push and which ones aren't. I think the biggest thing created through this type of touch is a bond of trust. | |
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Posted: 6/21/2006 2:13:14 PM | definitely something worth the while and time to do with some one extremely special to you. I could easily see this actually being a VERY close binding intimate act that would bring couples closer.
Then again... kinda of a little tough. It's difficult to lie next to wonderfully beautifully sexy woman without jumping her bones 
"darlin I just can't lie here without touching you a bit....... honk honk" | |
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Posted: 6/21/2006 2:19:31 PM | Then again... kinda of a little tough. It's difficult to lie next to wonderfully beautifully sexy woman without jumping her bones
Resisting the intercourse is the good part because it allows you to really get in touch with your bodies reaction to what is happening.
Believe me, women want intercourse just as badly, but this is an experience everyone should have at least once. | |
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Posted: 6/21/2006 2:40:22 PM | haha.. I love the *laying in bed, talking, touching each other's bodies, gentle kisses*, but all of those caresses, kisses and being able to look at my man's beautiful naked body is going to make me want to fuk his brains out...
So no... no *sexual* fullfillment without having sex | |
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Posted: 6/21/2006 3:05:36 PM |  was just reading the thread and saw this message.
"what is a prostrate massage"
and was just waiting to read this message from dknickerbocker.
male g-spot is getting a finger "up the butt"... best while getting a BJ
 man dk, you know... uummm never mind. that was f*ckin hilarious.
I will agree with leeanne good to be able to get your partner off without the act of intercourse being involved. but what do you do when one partner has a hard time and cant get off?? | |
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Posted: 6/21/2006 3:18:47 PM | | Thank you Dr Ruth. Can we expect the live web cast any time soon? I have to tell you that I don't give my credit card details to these types of sites, no mater how educationally beneficial they are. Can I ask if you're a naturist? Sorry, it's late and I'm in one of my arcastic moods, AGAIN!!! I just can't help it. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2006 1:34:06 AM | good topic by Leeanne, I agree, it is something one needs to experience with a partner, at least once, hmmm, maybe more
oh, boo, sorry, but the old teacher in me sez I have to correct the spelling of the 'stimulation' idea you were asking about.. Prostate..stimulation can be good, I think, however, I've lost mine to cancer, but previous forays into that area were from my doctor and those trips I'd rather put in my past...[oops but I'm rambling..:-( ]
One can be..in a prostRate position to engage in Prostate stimulation..or as someone else referred to enjoying it while having a BJ....[many positions for that...;-) ]
anyway, hope you got through my blabbering and now, armed with your new knowledge, may get right out there and "stimulate" some lucky young man!
PS.. an NO, you are not dumb, just curious I'll bet?
This seems to one forum where folks are non-judgemental and try to speak their minds ..OR.. ask perfectly good questions.. and get straight answers/comments, in return.
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Posted: 6/22/2006 9:36:32 AM | This is something I've sought most of my life. Sadly, the men I had relationships with woud never even try. It was always about sex. Not that I minded the sex, mind you!
But, I've always been one to explore and touch, even with them (giving to them) and would never get the same.
I'm at a place in my life where I won't settle. I want that someone who likes these things and will enjoy them as much as I do. Life is too short to not enjoy the little things (all those tiny hot spots our bodies have, all the little touches, feelings, etc... they build to something much bigger!).
This was a great thread to post! | |
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Posted: 6/22/2006 10:09:23 AM |
I'm at a place in my life where I won't settle. I want that someone who likes these things and will enjoy them as much as I do. Life is too short to not enjoy the little things (all those tiny hot spots our bodies have, all the little touches, feelings, etc... they build to something much bigger!).
This is precisely why we have to talk about such things, because it is extremely important to have a fulfilling sex life with our partner before time passes us by. There may very well come a day when this is not so important to us, or our health may be at a point where we cannot or do not want to experience this pleasure. It's a part of our human need to have pleasure in a sexual manner, to experience our bodies as they were ment to be enjoyed. Why resist or hold back what we all know we really want to experience.
Intercourse is an act of sexual pleasure, but sex without intercourse is a sensual act of love and loving both your own body and that of your partners. In my opinion a deeper act of love and pleasure. Any one can have intercourse and it can certainly be done without pleasure - if you explore the body, pleasure is certainly going to be a part of it. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2006 10:42:58 AM | At first I was going to say definitely not, because it is my belief the your sexuality is something you are genetically born with, but you do have a valid point.
If a woman were never to be satisfied by a male in a relationship - never achieved orgasm or was never pleasured to a point of fulfillment, she may very well consider experimenting. I do not however believe this to be true bisexuality, but a person who is open sexually to finding new pleasures. There is a huge difference. | |
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Posted: 6/22/2006 11:17:41 AM | I think the true definition of bisexual is open to sexual pleasures from both sexes. If you weren't open to sex, then you would either bias yourself to hetro or homo sexualities.
I know from reading profiles at other sites that women have voiced their displeasure in a man's one and done mentality - hence they only are seeking a "woman at this time" mentality. | |
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| ~Sexual fulfillment without intercourse~
Posted: 6/22/2006 11:41:17 AM | All of what Leeanne mentioned IS intercourse, just not penetration.
When the soldier stops saluting you need to perfect other ways to satisfy a woman. It's still intercourse by definition, just not penetration.
PS It's "prostate", not "prostrate". | |
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