L1977
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Joined: 4/2/2006
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 6/22/2006 8:34:12 AM | | For me color has never been an issue as to who I have dated or fell in love with, but my children are white. I think I was 15 the first time I dated a black man, and have dated men of various nationalities. It does seem to me that lately or maybe it has been always and I was just unaware, I am more attracted to black men. There is something very smooth and confident about the approach they take with women. But I fall into this category, people that haven't known me my whole life, have no clue who I have dated, they only see my kids. They are beautiful children, but some men I think find it hard to understand, or don't want the unwanted attention of walking around with white children, am I wrong? | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 6/22/2006 9:53:43 AM | | Yes you`re wrong. You`re obviously the wrong kind of mother for those kids. Kids dont have a choice in who their parents are. If you want to spread your legs for every ethnicisity in the world because YOU ARE ATTRACTED to that type of person then go for it but dont make your kids suffer for your lack of better judgment. Kids have enough instability in their lives with things like just moving from one neighborhood to another. Kids look to their parents for reassurance that their world is intact and as it should be. You are getting your perental responsibilities and your sexual urges mixed up. Almost everyone I know, both black and white , do not prefer to raise children that are not their own, especially if the child is of a differing race than theirs. Chances are that the only reason that a black guy would be interested in you to begin with is because you`re sending out all the signals that you want to get laid by him. Black, white or green, a guy would be crazy to turn down a booty call. Just because I laid this little black chick in ohio doesnt mean I want to raise her 5 little mixed kids. Shes a fun gal but shes looking for daddy for those kids too. What she should have did was tell the first kids daddy to wear a rubber before she opened wide. Now that shes got all these kids she is going to be hard pressed to find any dude who is going to want to do anything with her but to do her. Thats where you`re at in life right now. If youre not receiving welfare for the kids then I would sugest that you give those kids back to their white daddy and then go live the life. At least then you wont have any problems. But hey, if the kids stop you from getting the man of your dreams then you could do like that one chick in prison did to her kids. What was it again, drove the car into the lake? | |
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msmeow
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Joined: 11/30/2004
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 6/22/2006 11:35:02 AM | | wow. you are a fount of bitterness. just worry about yourself wearing a rubber . the world doesnt need an more hatred. as for loving mixed kids...kids are kids. beautiful and perfect the way the gods made them. fortunately the gods love all flavours or perhaps we'd all be uptight redneck thoughtless pricks like you. | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 6/22/2006 7:40:17 PM | | First of all, You shouldn't be with a man who is going to be ashamed to walk around with your children anyway, why would you even consider dating a person like that. And correct me if I am wrong but aren't you white?, so if the man doesn't want the attention walking around with your children because of their color, wouldn't he have a problem walking around with you? Again to me this shouldn't be a problem because if someone is going to be that way you shouldn't want them around your children anyway (I hope you don't treat your children differently because of a man's opinion) | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 6/22/2006 10:05:37 PM | | Oh my God. I f-in hate people like you. Just cause you don't understand something you go ahead anyway and pass judgement on it. You don't know shit. Every woman with kids are NOT out trying to find the next daddy. A-hole. Maybe just maybe some of us got tricked into thinking we were going to be in a lasting relationship and it turned out all wrong, cause the "daddy" decided he wants to "live the life". And no, marriage aint for everybody. Yes, I have four kids of my own and every man that I have been with after my baby's daddy has fallin in love with me knowing that I have kids. They also know that I don't need them to play daddy to mines cause I take care of them pretty damn well all by myself. The people you hang with are idiots, they don't know ish. I take that back, sorry, maybe they don't know because there are a lot of women out there that will take advantage of a good guy when they have kids, because they are stuggling and they assume men think the way you do. And yes, I agree that them women should get their lives straight, but that has nothing to do with the issue at hand. What miss thang should do is let it be known that she don't need a baby's daddy cause she already has one and if a brotha don't wanna hang with her and her kids...kick his a-s-s to the curb. | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 6/22/2006 10:23:50 PM |
Yes you`re wrong. You`re obviously the wrong kind of mother for those kids. Kids dont have a choice in who their parents are. If you want to spread your legs for every ethnicisity in the world because YOU ARE ATTRACTED to that type of person then go for it but dont make your kids suffer for your lack of better judgment.
Kids only care about what color a person is if some ignorant adult (like you) tells them they should care.
Kids have enough instability in their lives with things like just moving from one neighborhood to another. Kids look to their parents for reassurance that their world is intact and as it should be. You are getting your perental responsibilities and your sexual urges mixed up. Almost everyone I know, both black and white , do not prefer to raise children that are not their own, especially if the child is of a differing race than theirs.
Who cares? Most people also like "the milkshake song," and think the apostles wrote the new testement. Most people are morons.
Chances are that the only reason that a black guy would be interested in you to begin with is because you`re sending out all the signals that you want to get laid by him. Black, white or green, a guy would be crazy to turn down a booty call. Just because I laid this little black chick in ohio doesnt mean I want to raise her 5 little mixed kids. Shes a fun gal but shes looking for daddy for those kids too. What she should have did was tell the first kids daddy to wear a rubber before she opened wide.
Did it ever occure to you that some single parents don't consider their children a mistake? I'm a single parent and I haven't considered a moment of it a burden. In many ways, it's easier to raise a child in a "split family."
Now that shes got all these kids she is going to be hard pressed to find any dude who is going to want to do anything with her but to do her. Thats where you`re at in life right now. If youre not receiving welfare for the kids then I would sugest that you give those kids back to their white daddy and then go live the life. At least then you wont have any problems. But hey, if the kids stop you from getting the man of your dreams then you could do like that one chick in prison did to her kids. What was it again, drove the car into the lake?
Is it that time of the month Wizard? | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 6/26/2006 8:26:23 PM | I guess you are at odds there Wizzard. It would be a sad world if everyone was as ignorant and bigoted as you seem to be.
Yes you`re wrong. You`re obviously the wrong kind of mother for those kids. Kids dont have a choice in who their parents are. If you want to spread your legs for every ethnicisity in the world because YOU ARE ATTRACTED to that type of person then go for it but dont make your kids suffer for your lack of better judgment. Kids have enough instability in their lives with things like just moving from one neighborhood to another. Kids look to their parents for reassurance that their world is intact and as it should be.
Odds: You obviously are a bit twisted if you think that being a parent has anything at ALL to do with who you fall in love with. Maybe your  will be a shark or a stingray? 
I've always thought that having happy children stemmed from having happy parents, i.e., if there is love in their lives, your children will grow up to be happy and well adjusted even if they are purple and orange polka-dotted!!! Stay in your cave, the world doesn't need people like you around. I personally prefer men of my own race for myself, but don't feel that it's wrong for any two people who fall in love to let man-assumed bounderies keep them apart. | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 6/26/2006 11:18:55 PM | yes i would date a woman with white kids i like kid's any color if i love the woman i will love her kid's ,ignore bitter people like the wizard of oddball ...just be choosey about who you date because you want someone who respects you and the kid's.
much love from this black man....peace. | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 6/27/2006 12:19:09 AM | | The whole question has me confused.. You're white but you evidently like your meat a little darker than most.. Which is your choice.. As for smooth and confident I won't even go there.. I could give a rat's ass about how smooth or confident they are.. The main issue here are the children.. Sounds to me like you'd rather your children be black but fortunately for the world it's not your choice... I think this is probably one of the stupidest questions I've heard in a long time.. Damn straight you're wrong does it take a Rocket Scientist to point that out to you??? | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 6/27/2006 6:07:43 AM | Reading your note confused me at some level. Why would you even be going out with men, where the color of your children's skin would matter. Your first step is not to expose your children to that kind of stupidity. Remember, if color is more than just another genetic trait, like eye color, hair color, etc.,to the men you meet, you need to send them packing. You'll be doing yourself, and most especially your children a favor.
There's nothing wrong with being attracted to black men, any more than a guy being attracted to a women with red, blonde, or brunette hair; but do you think it really makes a difference as to how "smooth " they are. Different cultures, different fads, different ways of speaking. More than likely its not the guy that is being smooth, but some undefined response on your part that tends to push your buttons. Nothing wrong with that, just be aware that being smooth for some guys, is the same as being manipulative.
Unlike some of your more hateful responses, my intent is just to remind you that men, like women come in many forms. Celebrate the differences, and please remember..being smooth dosen't mean moral. Dosen't mean ethical, and certainly dosen't men child friendly.
I wish you luck in your search for happiness..
have a nice day
lewis | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 6/27/2006 6:31:25 AM | I read what you posted, and of course my first instinct, like many others was to condemn you as just another budding sociopath. But I took the time to read your profile. Talk about night and day. You either have a very poor sense of humor (on the dark side) or you lied on your profile. Laid back? Just want to talk? Who's the real you? Do you know? or Do you care?
Are we talking about a schism in your personality, or do you really believe the sickness that you posted. I must admit, from a clinical point of view, I'm curious. But historically It has been a life's lession, that by the time someone like you, reaches your age, and your level of ignorance, that it's usually a lost cause. Not impossible; but definitely improbable that you will see the mirror image of the person you've become. I'm sorry that you seem so full of hate, that life excapes you.
The best that the rest of us can hope for, is to limit the damage you do to our children, by being exposed to someone like you.
But be aware, I'm not condemning you, just a recognition of in part, what is wrong with the world.
I wish you the strength of will, as well as the bravery it will take, to change your life.
Good luck
lewis | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 6/27/2006 6:35:58 AM | Read that Wizard of Odd profile, your right, he's someone that's way gone. Hope he limits his destruction to himself. Just sending you a note of admiration. Nice to know there's others willing to confront the sick and mean spirited.
have a nice day
lewis | |
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jaymz
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Joined: 4/19/2004
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 6/27/2006 12:19:54 PM | | well the ? is would you date a white woman with mixed kids? thats the problem i run into guys dont want too date me cuz i have bi racial children its not there fault god blessed the world with them and there mine no matter what skin color they are they are gods children and people are just stupid for judging kids on there race nationality and creed people are just straight iggnorant.......love everyone | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 6/27/2006 12:37:15 PM | | You are so right kids cant choice there parents and yes some women do make mastakes but when you the baby comes along it dont matter what coloer it is the mother will always love that baby with all her heart | |
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| would you ever date a women with kids??
Posted: 6/27/2006 12:41:35 PM | Im a single mother of 1 baby and it is hard to.But if your a good mother you'll do any thing for your kid,or kids and no not every women out here is looking for the next daddy.Me myself i really dont need a father for my baby girl shes doing just fine with me being both of her parents..  | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 6/27/2006 1:16:01 PM | you are about retarded you think that way, not all women are like that and if you think that you could be missin' out on some of the greatest women in the world. I think you need to realize that your opinon is ****ed up and that NO person should EVER think like that, LIKE WE NEED MORE HATE IN THIS WORLD!! | |
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 6/27/2006 9:10:52 PM |
Are we talking about a schism in your personality, or do you really believe the sickness that you posted. I must admit, from a clinical point of view, I'm curious.
Xirtam: Loved your answer to ODDS. I tend to agree with you wholeheartedly. He obviously has some socio issues, obvious pre-profile [no pic posted], he's 'laid back' and wants to carry on some nice conversation? His mama didn't teach him that nice conversation does not begin with attacking someone? Hmmmmm. LOL Perhaps we could refer him to a Doc?
Thanks for the input!
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 6/27/2006 9:44:27 PM | ABSOLUTELY NOT! All white people are good for is oppressing foreign lands and forcing their peoples to believe in Christianity. You might as well plant a full size Confederate flag on your baby's stroller. At least then you'd be honest about your intentions.
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| Would you date a woman with white kids?
Posted: 6/28/2006 9:54:21 AM |
ABSOLUTELY NOT! All white people are good for is oppressing foreign lands and forcing their peoples to believe in Christianity.
So.............why are YOU on this site? If you feel that way, go home and stay there. | |
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| what is up
Posted: 6/28/2006 3:05:52 PM | | well so much how much you just talk about youself.just email me back as soon as u can | |
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