| Messaging more than one person at a time ....
Posted: 6/26/2006 5:31:03 PM | So what do you think about this? Is it kind of like being a PoF player?
I used to emssage a lot of people at once for the simple idea of the more messages out, the more of a chance of a reply. However, over the past few months I have cut back on a lot of my messaging and now mainly contact people I meet in the forums instead of doing the whole searching through the PoF database of potential matches. (I still do contact non-forum people from time to time, but not anywhere near as much as wehn I first joined so many moons ago).
Anyway, back to the original question, would that make you a PoF Player? | |
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| Messaging more than one person at a time ....
Posted: 6/26/2006 5:36:37 PM | | If you get a response and still send out messages yes it makes you a POF palyer. But if you get a response and stop the sending out messages till you've found out that it won't work no you are not a player. I, myself use to do that as well send out a few messages, but have decided that once I get a "hit" I stop messaging till after I figure out there's nothing on the "line". | |
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| Messaging more than one person at a time ....
Posted: 6/26/2006 5:39:25 PM | | Not sure that would make you a player, afterall it is about fishing is it not? I guess being a player might be saying the same lines to every person you message or something. But I suppose 'dating' more than one person does make you a player, in my eyes anyways. | |
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Posted: 6/26/2006 5:42:30 PM | I knew you were cheating on me. All that waxing poetic about stairwells and diarrhea...a bunch of hooey! You suck, Steve. You really really suck.
As long as you weren't sending every girl the same generic message over and over, I don't see anything wrong with your past behavior (hoochie). Or...cutting and pasting her profile and sending THAT to her (bonehead).
Every time I see your name in my mailbox, I giggle like a little school girl. Ok, not really. It's more like a chorkle, followed by an eyeroll. Then I vomit.
Everyone I keep in regular contact with reached out and touched me first. What does that make me?
I dare you to answer that. | |
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| Messaging more than one person at a time ....
Posted: 6/26/2006 5:44:02 PM | Another beastiality person? 
Dating sites are about finding the one you connect with if that takes a few messages to different women then so be it. Doesn't make you a player at all. | |
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| Messaging more than one person at a time ....
Posted: 6/26/2006 5:53:30 PM |
If you get a response and still send out messages yes it makes you a POF palyer. But if you get a response and stop the sending out messages till you've found out that it won't work no you are not a player. I, myself use to do that as well send out a few messages, but have decided that once I get a "hit" I stop messaging till after I figure out there's nothing on the "line".
WHAT????
Thats like saying if you are out at a bar and someone talks to you, you now cant talk to anyone else the rest of the night | |
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| Messaging more than one person at a time ....
Posted: 6/26/2006 5:56:04 PM | Back to Rooster cogburn's comment ... what if more than 1 person replies to the original bunch of messages sent out? Than what do you do? Cause as you said, if one was to reply to more than one of those people that would make you a "PoF Player"
Please note, I'm not commenting on my own actions, was reading some other threads and saw people making these types of comments (calling other's players for messaging more than one person)
But G_String - ya gotta love the mass generic messages "Show me the twins!" ... "Wanna cam?" | |
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Posted: 6/26/2006 5:57:09 PM | | No it doesn't... if you think it's going well do you go out and try to meet other people? For me my answer is no. And I am talking about a few messages back and forth, not if you get one single message/response..but if it's going well and you continue to send out the "hooks". | |
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Posted: 6/26/2006 5:59:27 PM | "Show me the twins!" ... "Wanna cam?"
Those aren't generic. You're the only pervert who says that to me. But if you send the exact same message to every other woman you contact, then yes...generic.
The answer is still no.
No comment? You don't fool me, gomer. | |
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Posted: 6/26/2006 6:02:33 PM | G-String ... you know you are my favouritest girl west of the Ontario border and east of the Saskatchewan border
... oh and it would make you one of the coolest cats of all of Manitobia! It sure would yeppers! | |
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| Messaging more than one person at a time ....
Posted: 6/26/2006 6:12:07 PM | You don't like my flirting? I mean it's a huge province full of a lot of girls (I'm guessing at that part) ...
So anyway ... sending more than one message doesn't make one a player ... good news 
Now if only I could get the effort to sift through a bunch of profiles and message people
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| Messaging more than one person at a time ....
Posted: 6/26/2006 10:47:03 PM |
"Show me the twins!" ... "Wanna cam?"
Hey Steveo you sent me that message to..LMFAO
I don't think multi-messaging makes you a player....just betters your chances of having someone bite on to your bait. I send a reply to most of the mail I get on here...not all mind you some of it is just nasty. [see quote for ex] If I think the person might be someone I would like to know more about I add em to my msn. As far as I am concerned there is nothin wrong with chattin with different people. You are a "playar" when you are not honest about what you DO and who you do it with!!! | |
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Posted: 6/27/2006 4:10:14 PM | Thats like saying if you are out at a bar and someone talks to you, you now cant talk to anyone else the rest of the night
Agreed, when you start dating someone its different but I see no harm in talking to several people at once to get to know them. I really don't see that as someone being a player. More like just getting to know people. You sent a message, not a wedding proposal.
I do have a few guy friends and I'd hope the person I was seeing would be cool with that. I mean I have nothing against a bf having female friends as long as it wasn't a flirty type of friendship...that might grow old pretty fast.
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Posted: 6/27/2006 4:22:26 PM | ok let me clearify..you can message all the people you want but if one of those respond and you start dating yet continue to message people looking for dates then perhaps your just a "serial dater" not a player..unless of course you hide the fact you are dating other people.
Ok say your at a bar and you hit it off with some woman/or man..do you continue to try and hit it off with other men/woman..or just be content with the one your hitting it off with.. that is what I meant by what I had typed earlier. | |
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| Messaging more than one person at a time ....
Posted: 6/27/2006 4:31:31 PM | | We can all look back and say she should of..but it's the past and can't be changed, thats what we have the present for..to reword that inwhich we misworded yet understood ourself. =)x | |
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| Messaging more than one person at a time ....
Posted: 6/27/2006 9:04:50 PM | | Message away, that is what we're here for...meet new people and get to know them. Meet a few people, see who you have a connection with...be upfront and you won't hurt anyone's feelings. But be careful if you start dating someone. If you want something to go further with someone, then you might want to limit your messaging. I know a few people who have dumped guys because of that. They felt that the guy wasn't interested in them if they were still looking for someone else. So make sure you know when to put a pause on the messaging. | |
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Posted: 6/27/2006 10:34:28 PM | | ^^^ ok I met a guy who I want to get to know more about and maybe even start a relationship with...are you saying that I should stop messaging people? I am not still looking to meet people just chat is there anything wrong with that? | |
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Posted: 6/27/2006 11:15:18 PM | That just means....( trust me i could go on and on and on) but i wont
That just means i had an excellent day in halifax and i capped it off by two good friends poping by unexpectantly and treating me too some good drinks
So basically.......to rock before roll.....just means im having fun
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