| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/27/2006 3:49:51 PM | I have heard that its now trendy for women to be bisexual.
After discussing this with a few close female friends, I was a little surprised when many (but not all) admitted that they either had slept with another woman in the past, or would do so in the right situation.
All the women I spoke to insisted they were not lesbians...or really bisexual, for that matter. They weren't interested in dating other women, or having any kind of serious relationship with them. They considered themselves to be straight (many have boyfriends) who sometimes found other females sexually attractive.
As a straight guy, I would never think of being with another man. I don't think there is anything wrong with that...I'm just not attracted to guys sexually. I'm pretty sure most of my male friends feel the same way.
Do you think many normally heterosexual women are open to being with another female? Think its the same for men? | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/27/2006 3:53:20 PM | I've never fantasized about being with a woman..............
I've only fantasized about men.... and being with them...........
A lot of younger girls seem to experiment.... | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/27/2006 3:53:55 PM | | Agreed...most of my female friends concur with that statement. As a straight guy, I can appreciate another good looking guy, but I'm not sexually attracted to them in the slightest. I have a lot of gay friends though and they have the best dress sense and always look imaculate...a lot of straight guys could learn a lot from them, I do - girls are always all over them, I just wish it rubbed off on me :P | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/27/2006 4:09:07 PM | | are you sure coastergal? Cos I was just thinking how sexy your toes look. hehehehe | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/27/2006 4:14:31 PM | | LMAO............um... er.... I dunno if I could close my eyes & let a lil squirrly nibble on my toes! LMAO!!! | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/27/2006 4:27:40 PM | | Women have been sexualized sooooo much in the last years (I know always) but more so now with TV and Magazines... Not only men have been affected by all that sexualization... A whole generation of women have learned to be sexually attracted by women, the same way as men... Thre's no new genetical need for bisexuality, it's plain in simple what society has done with the oversexualization of women... My opinion... | |
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ab_qt
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Joined: 5/7/2006
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/27/2006 4:46:48 PM | When I think of bisexuality, I think of one who will date either the same sex or the opposite. I've been with women but don't classify myself to be bisexual, as I don't date em' just f.ck em! 
Either way, why should society force people to put a label on their sexuality? | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/27/2006 4:59:03 PM | | I don't think it has become trendy for women...I just think that it's now become socially acceptable. Women who experimented in previous decades did not openly publicize it, however now society not only tells you it's permissible, they tell you it will make you even more sexually desireable. | |
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| Trendy?
Posted: 6/27/2006 5:41:21 PM | In all seriousness, turn your TV off. It is officially rotting your brain.
The rate of homosexuality has remained largely unchanged over the years.
Homesexuality is seen as trendy because television is stupid. Because these are the same people that show Ann Coulter, people eating****oaches, dead Palestinian children, erectile dysfunction commercials, Emo kids playing so-called music, beached whales and Alex Trebek.
I mean, for Christ's sake ... CSI is trendy too. I'm still never going to watch CBS until my aunt quits watching it!
Turn your TV off, now. | |
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| Trendy?
Posted: 6/27/2006 5:43:57 PM | | It's the TV thats rotting my brains? sheesh and I thought it was the wine. | |
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| Trendy?
Posted: 6/27/2006 5:44:22 PM |
I mean, for Christ's sake ... CSI is trendy too. I'm still never going to watch CBS until my aunt quits watching it!
Yeah, but I bet you'd watch it if they promised to show Sarah Sidal and Kathryn Willows going at it... | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/27/2006 6:02:51 PM | I'm with ab_qt on this one: f@ck labels, just be.
As for trying to understand why people are such and such a way rather than another...meh, just give it up already and try to understand yourself instead. You'll never truly understand others through your own individual lens anyway. All is perspective and subjective when it comes to human beings.
And all that gibberish about being TV's fault (for making bisexuality a trend), society, or whatever is BS. Yes, these may be influential factors, but at the end of the day, one responds to what one is drawn to, and is drawn to what can be found within oneself to begin with ~ a priori. What TV, society and whatever can help with is telling one that what they feel deep down inside is ok, or not from the "majority"'s perspective (or the powers at be).
Now, as for the original question:
Do you think many normally heterosexual women are open to being with another female? Think its the same for men?
I say yes to the first question, and no to the second from personal experience only. That said, there was a time in ancient Greece (and throughout history) where most men partook in "bisexual" (if one must but a label) behavior...why has that changed? hmmm...I wonder... | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/27/2006 6:10:40 PM | | i think people are just more open with their sexuality because it's more accepted by society today. I know in my case I've had a few girlfriends and an ex wife that were admittingly bisexual, in the sense that they liked having sex with other women that they found attractive. I must admit though, I could never share the woman I love...sexually...with someone else, male or female, so it was agreed that they would would be exclusive with me with regards to either sex. Some guys might find the threesome thing a fantasy, but it's not up there on my list of things to do. I'm happy being one on one with my loved one. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/27/2006 6:11:49 PM | Yes I think a lot of women fantasize about other women. I don't think the same rule applies with Men (at least I hope not)
And good choice LUV to laff Being with 2 women isn't always a good thing. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/27/2006 6:16:41 PM |
Yes I think a lot of women fantasize about other women. I don't think the same rule applies with Men (at least I hope not)
Aww come on BK, you know you want me :P | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/27/2006 6:18:37 PM | The obviousness that the masses will deny to keep an apparent independant will simply never cesses to surprise me...
I will not discuss the issue anymore... I'll leave you all to your beliefs that NOTHING affects the human brain in an unconscious way, that everything that is should be and to the non-sensical and illogical things you can come up with to deny what is SO obvious...
This is a really tricky issue... No one likes to hear that their sexuality isnt natural but only a behavior that has been taught unconsciously to them through extremely powerful medias...
Ignoring reality only hinders your ability to deal with it... | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/27/2006 7:01:48 PM | the most important factor missing here
To each their Own | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/27/2006 7:08:19 PM | | I think that most women are into it these days and I had been there and done that way before it was trendy and it didn't do alot for me to be honest, aint nothin like the real thing baby! I also think that it's become trendy because so many men don't know what they are doing, or how to treat a woman...so they just go the easier route, pleasing each other in bed when a good male is not readily available. Plus the popularity of "girls gone wild" and such other rubbish has made it very socially acceptable. I think most of the younger girls who hang all over each other in clubs or places like that are doing it to turn on the males and get their attention, needless to say it always works...I find it pretty stimulating to watch, but I'd never act like that myself, have some class!!!!! | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/27/2006 7:22:25 PM | | I'm just so jealous of women!! Not only can they sleep with virtually any guy they want, they have a galaxy of hot women to frolic with!! | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/27/2006 7:33:40 PM | | With this right hand and this imagination............. I can have sex with any woman I want to! LOL | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 6:44:11 AM | | I agree that is definitely becoming more prevelent or at the very least more acceptable by society, I am one of those guys who has to admit it is a fabulous turn on to watch even if it is being done for the specific purpose of turning a man on .. Never has the expression "you go girl" had more meaning ...I feel fortunate that I am secure enough to not be threatened by it and simply capable of enjoying the fantasy | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 7:00:10 AM | I for one dont find it attractive to see women having sex with each other. But whats funny is I asked a girl who sometimes find another woman sexually attractive and just f*cks her, how come when a man finds another woman attractive and just f*cks her he's a dog or a player? There are labels on sexuality because there's labels for everything else. Why shouldnt there be a label for sexuality??? If a guy sometimes has sex with other men and still liked women a lot of women will call him gay-hands down. The reason female homosexuality or bisexuality or whatever is accepted is because the majority of men enjoy it. I dont find it at all appealing. I dont know why, it just seems strange or off to me. While I was in the service I was attacked by a group of gay/bi females. I said it was a pointless union sexually/reproductively. Not emotionally. If a person loves someone of the same sex more power to you. But I eluded to the analogy of rubbing two petals together and expecting a flower to grow. I was called insecure. Hmmmm...noooo.....I am definetely not insecure about a woman sleeping with another woman-I just dont get a charge out of it. Besides, I can do anything a woman can do (in the bed) but I can do it better. Oh and one more thing guys, the myth (yes myth) that a woman knows another womans body is false. I've dated bisexual women and a woman can be just as inept at sex as any guy can be. It's all about the person. If a man is experienced at pleasing a woman he will please women. If a woman is experienced at pleasing a woman she will.
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 7:14:24 AM | | It's been said already in this thread. But I would have sex with another woman but I wouldn't look for a relationship out of it. Would that make me bi? Maybe. Depends on your definition. But really don't care about definitions. | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 7:44:04 AM | i have dated and f**ked other women ..... ill never date em again lol but the sex is great and **** tastes yummy haha i am bisexual i love the P***y but i need a man!!! | |
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| Female Bisexuality
Posted: 6/28/2006 7:50:57 AM | I kinda see it as something of a marketing plow in society... or something that seems to be the in thing, and therefore (like everything and anything else), tv, movies, and the media abuse it and rapes the hell out of it to profit as much as they can.
Related example.... look at when the first reality show came one. It didn't take all that much time for a bunch of them to be tv. Same kind of thing with showing a lot of bisexual women kissing, and licking, and.... ahhhh ohhh wait I am drifting off tract here.
I wonder if sales of "double dongs" have increased since this trend has started? | |
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