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 casino5222

Joined: 5/2/2006
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Candle lit dinners
Posted: 6/28/2006 10:13:09 PM
Are the days of candle lit dinners between two people gone now, never seem to hear of this anymore!
 Mopegunz

Joined: 5/6/2004
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Candle lit dinners
Posted: 6/28/2006 10:16:21 PM
I use to try and have one once a month with my wife... She never apperciated that kind of stuff though...
 Joy.

Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 3
Candle lit dinners
Posted: 6/28/2006 10:37:57 PM
I always have dinner by candlelight whether it be by myself, with family, friends or a date. Just thought it was a normal thing to do.
 nosoup4u

Joined: 9/4/2005
Msg: 4
Candle lit dinners
Posted: 6/28/2006 10:42:13 PM
A wonderfully romantic thing to do. Joy, your security with your self never ceases to amaze me, why do u live so far away, sigh. But yes candle light is nice and in this day of saving energy its practical too.
 ripley65

Joined: 7/29/2005
Msg: 5
Candle lit dinners
Posted: 6/28/2006 10:42:32 PM
Out of my whole dating experience,,ive been with 1 man who enjoyed having nice romantic candle lit dinners. I dont know,,it seems now-a-days that romance has gone *poof*. There is nothing wrong at all in a nice casual dinner but sometimes tho,,,,dining by candlelight would be sooooooooo nice. :)
 Joy.

Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 6
Candle lit dinners
Posted: 6/28/2006 10:47:31 PM
My daughter has been married a couple of years now and they have a new baby. Every night, they have dinner by candlelight....it was the normal thing for her to do. Took a little bit for her husband to become accustomed to it, but now he wouldn't have it any other way. It just makes dinnertime seem like a special part of the day....at least for me, even if I am dining alone. I also make sure the television is turned off and nice music is turned on. Kinda gives me something to look forward to each day.

Nosoup....yeah, too bad we're so far apart. :(
 casino5222

Joined: 5/2/2006
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Candle lit dinners
Posted: 6/28/2006 10:53:58 PM
Thanks Joy I might do that tonight now with the whole family
 4everDreaming

Joined: 1/8/2006
Msg: 8
Candle lit dinners
Posted: 6/28/2006 10:58:16 PM
I dont think those days are dead, I have to say I know my friends and I venture down this path quite often lol I know I love to cook so anytime I can sweeten up for my honey or set a cosy scene for friends and family is nice.
 sweet-and-sexy

Joined: 4/12/2006
Msg: 9
Candle lit dinners
Posted: 6/28/2006 11:32:47 PM
i miss those little perks of being in a relationship ... not the same having a candlelit dinner by yourself ...
 convoy1

Joined: 6/20/2006
Msg: 10
Candle lit dinners
Posted: 6/29/2006 4:16:37 AM
from most people I know you will have too make sure they are even eating at the same time for a dinner together. When I was growing up you ate meals together especially dinner but that is becoming rare a lot of times.
 thecutefactor

Joined: 5/1/2006
Msg: 11
Candle lit dinners
Posted: 6/29/2006 5:28:11 AM
This goes way back for me...Once a week, when I was a teenager and the whole family sat down for a meal, my mom would make sure there were candles burning on the table. No lights, just the 4 of us sitting around the table talking.

Yeah sure, me and my sis always complained about it ("I can't see wtf I'm eating!" or "pass the pepper - no that's salt I think"), but I still think fondly of those days. I'm probably one of a handful of guys that actually does have candles in his place and lights them for various things from dinners to movies.

The last cande lit dinner I had was when I cooked supper on Valentine's Day, and while she may have swooned over everything else, the candles were there during our meal and it did add a very nice touch of class as well as just complete the entire day perfectly.
 fun_sassy

Joined: 5/1/2006
Msg: 12
Candle lit dinners
Posted: 6/29/2006 5:35:08 AM
I try to do it once a month with my kids...they love it!

I don't think those days are gone, I just think it's because everyone is in such a hurry these days that they don't want to take the time...JMO
 bozza2k6

Joined: 6/17/2006
Msg: 13
Candle lit dinners
Posted: 6/29/2006 6:00:21 AM
I myself have never really experienced candle lit dinners, my ex never really fancied stuff like that the boring git!
 mc71

Joined: 6/26/2006
Msg: 14
Candle lit dinners
Posted: 6/29/2006 6:07:06 AM
I think it has something to do with the strict fire codes these days! Lol!!!!!
 SingleMaleInHamilton

Joined: 10/26/2005
Msg: 15
Candle lite dinners
Posted: 6/29/2006 6:08:49 AM
I like Candle lit dinners have about 50 or more lit candle round the whole room as your having dinner Or even having a lot of candles lit every where
 Scotchlassie

Joined: 4/24/2006
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Candle lite dinners
Posted: 6/29/2006 6:37:15 AM
Romance is never gone, but it has to be cultured . . . Too many many folks eat dinner on their knee while watching TV.
I would much prefer to sit at a candlelit table with my Sweetie and eat while we enjoyed each other's company.
 mom of 2

Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 17
Candle lite dinners
Posted: 6/29/2006 6:49:00 AM
When the days are shorter and it's actually dark outside in the evening, my kids and I always dine by candlelight. We all love it - so simple, but so special at the same time!
 Leeanne

Joined: 10/14/2005
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Candle lite dinners
Posted: 6/29/2006 9:22:38 AM
I Love it! Romantic and sweet!
 Cheeky Matt

Joined: 1/1/2006
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Candle lit dinners
Posted: 6/29/2006 9:58:31 AM
nope there still alive here.....i love cooking for my dates an showing off my Italian talent (i mean my cooking so get ure mind out the gutter lol )and surrond the place with nice candle light and a lil music.....tiz nice.
 YX32

Joined: 7/10/2005
Msg: 20
Candle lit dinners
Posted: 6/29/2006 10:00:52 AM
Candle lit dinners rock! Tell us Cheeky...with that picture...how do you expect us women to get our minds up and out!?
 Sassy__Brat

Joined: 3/27/2006
Msg: 21
Candle lit dinners
Posted: 6/29/2006 10:08:51 AM
I always have dinner by candlelight whether it be by myself, with family, friends or a date. Just thought it was a normal thing to do.


Joy, you are one smart cookie!


It just makes dinnertime seem like a special part of the day....at least for me, even if I am dining alone. I also make sure the television is turned off and nice music is turned on. Kinda gives me something to look forward to each day.


Not something that I do, but maybe I should start. I can think of one sexy blue eyed man that I would like to have a candle lit dinner with. Hmmmm I think I just might have to make that happen.

Only ever had one man cook a dinner for me with candles, roses and rose pedals all over the table. It was a great evening. But when reality kicked in, it was just for show. He turned out to be a d!ck.
 allh2h

Joined: 3/23/2006
Msg: 22
Candle lit dinners
Posted: 6/29/2006 11:17:09 AM
I am hoping I can find a man that truly is into candle lit dinners and appreciates them...would be sooooo nice
 sweetpea99

Joined: 3/27/2006
Msg: 23
Candle lit dinners
Posted: 6/29/2006 11:36:10 AM
To me a candlelight dinner is very intimate...I consider it a form of fourplay. I am baffled by those who eat by candlelight with their children or themselves. To me its a romantic act to be enjoyed by adults only JMO.
 YX32

Joined: 7/10/2005
Msg: 24
Candle lit dinners
Posted: 6/29/2006 12:08:07 PM
I must say again, I think it's wonderful when a man and woman eat by candle light...I just want to go on record as saying I personally only use dripless candles...would want to scar a man down there, while I'm eating...:)
 fakeblondehair

Joined: 6/12/2006
Msg: 25
Candle lit dinners
Posted: 6/29/2006 12:40:33 PM
ehrmmm sometimes- like some special occasion

but everydaylife usually TV lit dinners

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