| Any tips….first date nerves.
Posted: 6/29/2006 10:47:07 AM | I am meeting up with someone for the first time on Sunday and I feel horribly nervous and I think they do to.
Any tips on how to deal with those nerves? | |
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| Any tips….first date nerves.
Posted: 6/29/2006 10:53:29 AM | Break Wind when you first meet her.
Edit:Or you could focus on the worst possible thing that could happen
Then you`ll still be pleasently surprised when she doesnt even turn up. | |
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| Any tips….first date nerves.
Posted: 6/29/2006 10:53:49 AM | | just go with the flow...if you are both nervous it will be ok, just try and have a laugh if nothing else | |
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| Any tips….first date nerves.
Posted: 6/29/2006 11:01:17 AM | do what i do: pretend you're going to a business meeting. In a way it is, cos you have no guaranteee that romance is on the menu anyway.
I had a great dinner date with a chap from here recently, but I didn't let myself have any preconceived ideas about him to start of with, so whatever I found when I met him was a pleasant surprise. It worked and he's just invited me to a repeat of the evening. | |
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| Any tips….first date nerves.
Posted: 6/29/2006 11:09:46 AM |
do what i do: pretend you're going to a business meeting.
It worked and he's just invited me to a repeat of the evening.
Fernilee what line of buisness are you in exactly ????? | |
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| Any tips….first date nerves.
Posted: 6/29/2006 11:10:54 AM | Dont forget to bash one off before you go, don't want to have a loaded weapon on the date either 
Edit : I've got a first date on Monday..wonder if I should take my own advice! | |
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| Any tips….first date nerves.
Posted: 6/29/2006 11:12:45 AM | | Well the first time I met a girl off the internet she asked me to bring some of my photographs with me as I am quite a keen photographer. I felt this was a good idea because at least you know that you will have something to talk about which helps to break the ice. | |
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| Any tips….first date nerves.
Posted: 6/29/2006 11:14:27 AM | Have a pot noodle and a w@nk mate
So the tube wasn't running late then after all? 
I was nervous to start with, but once you get talking, they'll be no stopping you... | |
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| Any tips….first date nerves.
Posted: 6/29/2006 11:28:19 AM | | Grab something to eat fairly soon after you meet so you dont have to worry to much about uncomfortable silences and conversation has chance to develop naturally...forced conversation sucks.. | |
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| Any tips….first date nerves.
Posted: 6/29/2006 11:31:08 AM | bradni: you'd have to read some of my previous posts to know what line of business I'm in ...................................  | |
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| Any tips….first date nerves.
Posted: 6/29/2006 11:41:50 AM | Make sure you beat one out first.... less likely to get all fidgety and start sweating at first sight of the lovely lady.  | |
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| Any tips….first date nerves.
Posted: 6/29/2006 11:49:13 AM | Take care of the things that you might be worried about. Be all nice and clean and smelling good. Ask her questions about herself. Be genuinely interested. People aslways think great listeners are wonderful conversationalists. Leave your expectations at home and know that at the worst, it's 2 hours out of your life, and that's about 1/2 a football game. Oh ya, inhale and exhale and few good ones before you walk through that door. Smile, smile, smile. Concentrate on making her feel relaxed and comfortable, and it will work on your as well.
Have fun, tell us all the juicy details on Monday!!! I love to live vicariously! | |
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| Any tips….first date nerves.
Posted: 6/29/2006 12:29:05 PM | | To be honest the last date I went on was for a meal but I think I prefer first dates to be a coffee or something because it is difficult to have a conversation over a full meal. | |
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| Any tips….first date nerves.
Posted: 6/29/2006 12:40:23 PM | try not to put the whole date thing in your mind.
Just try and see it as meeting a mate for a night out, and take the pressure off yourself. | |
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| Any tips….first date nerves.
Posted: 6/29/2006 12:51:18 PM | a nervous gaze
as strangers meet
what do i say
how do i say it
will he smile
will i know
oh please...
say something
ahhh there it is
a subtle smile
as eyes meet
we will be fine. | |
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| Any tips….first date nerves.
Posted: 6/29/2006 12:54:08 PM | I had a date tonight,
but due to the Babysitter letting him down.....(he has an 10 yr old son living with him) he had to cancel.... but we have re aranged it .. for tomorrow during the day.....
So we are going for a lovely Stroll in the New Forest as its meant to be a lovely Day.... and then have a drink in one of the local Pubs in the Forest too...
OOOOoh im so excited
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| Any tips….first date nerves.
Posted: 6/29/2006 1:03:54 PM | They do say that if you are nervous during an interview, or giving a presentation, then you should imagine the other people wearing no clothes.
That probably doesn't help does it? | |
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| Any tips….first date nerves.
Posted: 6/29/2006 1:13:24 PM | Ewwww GG that's gross
I can handle seeing my boss with clothes on, but if I'd have imagined him without any at the interview, some one would say i was very sick in the head  
If you get nervous on a first date, just get plastered and pee in her handbag, she'll be dead impressed i'm telling ya | |
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| Any tips….first date nerves.
Posted: 6/29/2006 1:17:14 PM | Sound advice 18 and 19.
And I will do my best to NOT imagine my date with no clothes on…………
What do you think? Is a man on a first date with a levitating sporran a turn on? | |
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