ta1
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Joined: 7/25/2005
Msg: 1 | |
| 8 month relationship
Posted: 6/29/2006 11:29:43 AM | | met a guy on a dating site, got on well, found out in the first few months, his marriage had split cos he had got addicted to prositutes, then found out he was still meeting women of dating sites, then the lies, then he started borrowing money, from me.................then he went to lativia(near russia)on a stag weekend? and found out a week after his return he had slept with a woman there, he then said she could come to england and stay with him, and he was trying to find her a job here, she is now in england?..................... i dumped him he begged me to have him back, and said he needed help........after a week, he says he needs space doesnt know what he wants? its over for sure with us, but why do u guys feel u can treat us this way? and ladys how much should we put up with, he has three little girls 2,5 and 7 and i feel in love with them and u know it hurts.........but i can take any more! | |
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| 8 month relationship
Posted: 6/29/2006 11:38:22 AM | U stayed in that freakshow for 8 months?
Shame on u. Think better of yourself. | |
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| 8 month relationship
Posted: 6/29/2006 11:38:28 AM | most men have never been with a prostitute
your guy is a special fella !!! | |
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ta1
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Joined: 7/25/2005
Msg: 4 | |
| 8 month relationship
Posted: 6/29/2006 11:41:09 AM | | nothin special about him, just a womaniser, with the gift of the gab! | |
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| 8 month relationship
Posted: 6/29/2006 11:41:15 AM | First of all, some people (not just guys, and not everyone) treat others this way because they can. If you don't let them, they've no power over you. I wouldn't put up with one iota of such treatment! No one should. It's bogus.
I know it has to be hard to let the little girls go, but there's not much you can do for them, and I doubt that "putting up" with their father would be much help to anyone. | |
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| 8 month relationship
Posted: 6/29/2006 11:41:40 AM | All the red flags just aren't enough sometimes when our head and our heart are in a battle. I'm sorry to hear about this, but if you remember nothing else that is said to you, please take this and mull it about! You escaped! You have a guardian angel looking out for you and they have paved the way for you to lose this guy. Too many things are wrong with the picture and it's going to take something really big for him to turn his life around. Let someone else hold his hand through that.
As for the children, God bless them and keep them. They too have angels, I'm sure. But they have a mother and family and I'm sure they will be o.k. It hurts, but that hurt is supposed to be there so you tread much more carefully in the future. I'm so sorry you had this lesson to learn, but learn it you must. And then you can move on to that wonderful man who waiting for you around the corner. You know the one. He's faithful, and loving and devoted. He may not be as charming or good looking, but he also doesn't come with all the drama and heartbreak.
Now go wipe your eyes, count your blessings and get your glasses on so you can clearly see the man of your dreams coming towards you! God bless. | |
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ta1
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Joined: 7/25/2005
Msg: 7 | |
| 8 month relationship
Posted: 6/29/2006 11:45:01 AM | | thank u so very much, id been married for 21yrs and then met him crazy........... | |
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| 8 month relationship
Posted: 6/29/2006 11:46:33 AM | Hey
Thank God you stopped seeing this looser. Don't have anything to do with him. He is a user and an abuser. You stick around him and God only knows what you will end up getting. If I was you and he phone again just hang up on him.
You will find someone one day who treat you the way you are meant to be treated. Please don't let him back in your life again.
I wish you all the best. Hang in there
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| 8 month relationship
Posted: 6/29/2006 2:30:26 PM | OP you sound like you are blaming us men for your being stupid.. and asking the women to agree with you.
try to except your dumb actions and choices as yours and not place blame on the men.
if you never knew what red flags are , you sure do now. so look for them early next time. | |
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| 8 month relationship
Posted: 7/3/2006 9:28:07 AM | Okiedokiet to you I say, thank christ you stopped looking, or you to would be screwing womens heads up first hand, instead of coming into forums and making crass comments.
Ellie, there are people out there that are addicted to sex as others are alcohol, and lie, cheat etc. to the ones who care about them in order to hide their problem. This sounds like your man.
And no I am not a prude, I have had my share of lovers, and OK I am single so looking for one or 2 more , but only one at a time.
Ellie run for cover with this one, believe me the kids will be OK, with mum around they will most likely decide not to be like dad when they grow up. | |
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darr3n
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Joined: 9/28/2006
Msg: 11 | |
| 8 month relationship
Posted: 11/7/2006 11:55:31 PM | guitarman,
are you an idiot or what?
why is a guy special because he went with a whore.
in book he is a loser which makes you a loser too for supporting his beliefs.
girls like 'ellie' are the special ones who do not deserve to be treated like sh1t.
if you want women to have a low opinion about you, you're going the right way about it. | |
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| 8 month relationship
Posted: 11/8/2006 1:47:14 AM | darr3n
yes I am an idiot............lol
I was being sarcastic, if you weren't so' numb from the herb' you would have caught that
but, now that I have told you | |
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| 8 month relationship
Posted: 11/8/2006 2:52:19 AM | He is looking for a harem and a babysitter.................don't fall for it..... | |
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darr3n
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Joined: 9/28/2006
Msg: 14 | |
| 8 month relationship
Posted: 11/8/2006 4:17:25 AM | guitarman,
didnt realise you were being sarcastic, appologies for the abusive comment.
and as for 'arealangel' - you know nothing about me so please dont 'assume' typical response to a guy supporting a female assuming there are othe motives involved.
I have known this lady for quite a while and know shes worth more than the abuse she has got.
right soap box away now, carry on boys and girls | |
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| 8 month relationship
Posted: 11/8/2006 4:27:01 AM | | How in the he11 could you possibly feel "love" for a freak like that??? And for 8 months??? You need to stop and consider what the true definition of love is...and run like crazy away from that jerk! | |
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| 8 month relationship
Posted: 11/8/2006 4:54:55 AM | guitarman,
didnt realise you were being sarcastic, appologies for the abusive comment.
and as for 'arealangel' - you know nothing about me so please dont 'assume' typical response to a guy supporting a female assuming there are othe motives involved.
I have known this lady for quite a while and know shes worth more than the abuse she has got.
Darr, wouldn't you think that Areal was responding to the OP with that remark? I mean, you obviously missed the sarcastic flavour of Guitar's response (yes, a lot of us may have been guilty of that one at one point or another), think maybe you may have missed the mark on Areal's... | |
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darr3n
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Joined: 9/28/2006
Msg: 17 | |
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| 8 month relationship
Posted: 11/9/2006 6:10:32 AM | im affraid you got the wrong to go out with and you need to get rid of him asap (i know you may love him but you will get over it in time) if you don't get rid he will mess your life up and you will become depressed and stressed if your not already in that state.theres plenty of more guys out there that you can get on with and that are much beter than him.but do be carefully with who you pick on here stay friends with them first for a while before you go to the next step. you will get over him in time and just take it as an experience as that what life is about experiencing different emotions from yourself and others,experiencing different relationships some broken hearts and some good and some bad. And when people have been heart broken theres only so many times you can pick yourself up. but think of it as an experience and learn from the mistakes you do,and try change a few things see if they work in a new relationship and stick with who you are, as there's no point pretending to be something your not as it gets you down eventually. also you get found out.
there's a guy out there who likes you for who you are and waiting for you to find him, everyone usually finds the right man in time.
so take care and hope you find that right person. | |
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| 8 month relationship
Posted: 8/13/2008 3:44:13 AM | i got rid of all of them i dont have anything more to do with any of them, they just wasn't worth the hassle and was wasting my time. i dont bother with them any more they dont contact me and i dont contact them, i also changed my number so they cant get in touch. im with my new fella which i ve been with for nearly 2yrs now. so thank you to everyone and i hope you all are a success in getting that special person and getting what you want.
twentyonegal | |
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| 8 month relationship
Posted: 8/13/2008 3:50:16 AM | | good you got rid of him you don't need that in your life you deserve better in life, as it goes for his kids he doesnt deserve them.most men can be pigs but other are nice and kind but then turn out to be over persessive and controlling. so choose wisely and be careful and tread carefully,try to find out about a person and how they react to things because thats the only way you will find out there true colours.x | |
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| 8 month relationship
Posted: 8/20/2008 1:02:21 PM | so...you already know there is something wrong...yet, you insist that you can't control but still love him.
point blank: either you learn to let go, or stay loving him and getting hurt. | |
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| 8 month relationship
Posted: 8/20/2008 1:06:19 PM | Well hunni unless the camera is lying you look like you could call the shots with any man you wanted.
THIS GUY IS A USER AND A NUT JOB - RED FLAGS FLYING
and oh yes why they hell did you hang round for eight months ??? | |
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