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 rubberduckette

Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 1
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Posted: 7/2/2006 7:56:00 AM
Well in the past year or so I have found that I am more instantly attracted to guys that tend to be nerdy ya know glasses or just may not dress like most people would or men that are above normal intelligence.I find that Clark Kent glasses are soooo sexy!I thought it was just me but some of my girl friends say the same thing.So tell me do you think nerds are back in style?Or is it just me!
 Leeanne

Joined: 10/14/2005
Msg: 2
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Posted: 7/2/2006 8:04:47 AM
I dated a nerd once - when he was naked he was no nerd!!!!! Awesome body and OMG really sexy and experienced - yummy!!!!!
 rubberduckette

Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 3
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Posted: 7/2/2006 8:11:39 AM
Well I have been there too and I can't help but think that the attraction I had at first was thinking that he might be a freak in private!
 turquoizeyez

Joined: 2/5/2006
Msg: 4
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Posted: 7/2/2006 8:12:08 AM
I like geeky guys.

I have to agree with you about the Clark Kent glasses; very sexy! I'm not sure if it's a trend. Maybe brains and conversation are coming back into style?!
 Rook_Cook

Joined: 3/20/2006
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Posted: 7/2/2006 9:01:04 AM
If glasses are back in style then someone's out to get me because I just got rid of mine for contacts because they weren't doin' me any good haha
 Lotso

Joined: 6/4/2006
Msg: 6
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Posted: 7/2/2006 9:52:42 AM
Attractive Woman + Nerd Glasses = Smoking Hot !

Call me crazy, Rubberduckette, but I'm right there with you on this issue!

Happy Fishing!

:)
Mel

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 KelloggsFrootLoops

Joined: 6/10/2006
Msg: 7
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Posted: 7/2/2006 10:02:51 AM
Am I nerdy enough for you ladies?
 Doouglass

Joined: 2/26/2006
Msg: 8
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Posted: 7/2/2006 10:08:56 AM
I found the nerdy glass look attractive on females too, and long before it was fashionable again. I love those teen movies too, with the super nerdy girl with the glasses, but she happens to be ****ing gorgeous, lol. I think in an age where contact lenses are readily available and wearing glasses is indeed a fashion statement now.
 blue_star

Joined: 8/4/2005
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Posted: 7/2/2006 10:08:57 AM
It's not just you!
My friends used to look shocked when I'd tell them that intelligence is a big turn on for me, I'd rather have a heated debate then... well, talk about taps or hockey.

Plus, from my experience, nerdy guys have lots of imagination, love to experiement, and they learn very fast; great qualities in the the bedroom
21st century = the Revenge of the Nerds!
 rubberduckette

Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 10
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Posted: 7/2/2006 10:14:20 AM
I also think it says alot for a man's self esteem if he can wear the nerdy glasses and know that he still looks good!
 JustJohn561

Joined: 3/21/2006
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Posted: 7/2/2006 10:23:07 AM
hehe... you guys seem to be talking about hot guys in nerdy glasses... not the same thing as a "nerd"...
 rubberduckette

Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 12
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Posted: 7/2/2006 10:32:24 AM
I am talking about a nerd
Nerds don't even have to wear glasses,its just their personality.A friend of mine is married to one of the biggest nerds I have ever seen and he is so sexy its not even funny!
 just_Kats

Joined: 12/15/2005
Msg: 13
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Posted: 7/2/2006 10:47:11 AM
I hope your friend does get to know the fact... and keeps her nerd away from you..
 Thorb

Joined: 7/15/2005
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Posted: 7/2/2006 11:03:05 AM
its easy...

in the modern world ... well since technology

nerd=power... potential money ... support ... social influence etc.

and then there is the mystery of what is inside those baggy pants.

now why would you be attracted to that ?



 KrissiNJ72

Joined: 5/19/2006
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Posted: 7/2/2006 11:13:39 AM
you got me thinking of that Revenge Of The Nerds movie
 JustJohn561

Joined: 3/21/2006
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Posted: 7/2/2006 11:49:49 AM
I think you have a very romanticized view of what a nerd is.
 cheeky!

Joined: 6/2/2006
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Posted: 7/2/2006 11:54:04 AM
well i dont think nerds r attractive at all, but each 2 there own i say! lol xx
 Jamaica83

Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 18
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Posted: 7/2/2006 12:02:41 PM
Hmmm... I think the problem here is that most people seemt o have a very hollywood view of us geeks/nerds. We don't come wearing a uniform, ya know! Most of us have bad eyes.. (probably caused by staring at computer screens for at least 65% of our lives), but we don't always wear glasses. I don't wear mine often because they annoy me.. oh, and I got talked into those damn transitions lenses, so if I wear them outside, once I get indoors, i'm blind for a good 30 minutes wile I wait for the damn things to transition back to "normal mode" again. Buuut, i digress. Nerd-dom... born of an undying thirst for knowledge, if you ask me. We're curious folk, kinda like cats. But we can talk. Uh.. yeah. ;)

how is there no winking smiley? Or am I just blind?
 Your Enigma

Joined: 4/30/2006
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Posted: 7/2/2006 12:19:09 PM
An athletic guy who happened to be a geography nerd would go a serious long way towards being a lot of things I'd like!!
 JustJohn561

Joined: 3/21/2006
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Posted: 7/2/2006 12:24:06 PM
I think the problem here is that most people seem to have a very hollywood view of us geeks/nerds.


I agree. If you look in the forums under, "what do women want" type threads...

hygiene, style, confidence and humor, are probably the top 4 things a woman looks for in a guy.. I would venture a guess that most nerds do not have any of those things..

Most of the "nerds" I know never venture outside at all, usually have very poor eating habits, don't shower as often as they should, could give a darn about a stylish haircut, and have absolutely no confidence outside of their computer programs.

Don't get me wrong, I hope like crazy that women become attracted to nerds... its just been my experience that women are looking more for intellectual hunks than for your run of the mill nerd.
 Gambit

Joined: 5/27/2006
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Posted: 7/2/2006 12:24:23 PM
I never knew my pension for comic books and sci-fi would one day come in handy.

To paraphrase Revenge of the Nerds:

"Jocks only think about sports, nerds only think about sex."
 Your Enigma

Joined: 4/30/2006
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Posted: 7/2/2006 12:29:37 PM
I never knew my pension for comic books and sci-fi would one day come in handy.


It's penchant...if you're gonna be a nerd, do it right!!
 OceanWanderer

Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 23
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Posted: 7/2/2006 1:02:43 PM
So at last it's a good thing to be a nerd? I've spent so long covering up my nerdy ways to be accepted in society, I think I've forgotten how to be one.

I'll admit though, I can be a little geeky - if something fascinates me, I'm buried in books about it, going places to see it, learning about it.

Sex is something I'm particularly geeky about, it fascinates me - can't learn enough fast enough
 OceanWanderer

Joined: 6/21/2006
Msg: 24
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Posted: 7/2/2006 1:04:07 PM
I never knew my pension for comic books and sci-fi would one day come in handy.

It's penchant...if you're gonna be a nerd, do it right!!


Snowbunny: No, I think he meant pension - he got a pension to pay for his comic books and sci-fi
 cricket926

Joined: 5/27/2006
Msg: 25
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Posted: 7/2/2006 1:18:02 PM
I've always had a thing for nerds! Unfortunately a lot of times they are intimidated by my social habits of dancing, having parties, working out and being outgoing and flirty. :) But the connection is when I sit down to a game of D&D, suggest a syntax change in the struggling VB program, or discuss Faulkner's stream of consciousness. ;)

You're right, hollywood has glammed up nerds. But girls who *really* have the attraction know that behinds the glasses, greasy hair and out of style threads lies an intelligent and often sensual man who goes unappreciated by most.
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