| First Date Sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 7:40:13 AM | | Now guys....honestly, what is your opinion on girls who sleep with you on the first date? | |
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arri
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Joined: 10/5/2005
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| First Date Sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 7:49:02 AM | Okay, I have a daughter nearly as old as you, so I say: NO.
But, realistically, my attitudes have changed as I've gotten older. I think it forces intimacy in a potential relationship too soon. Sex should come out of intimacy and trust; this forces it before it's there naturally. | |
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| First Date Sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 7:54:41 AM |
Now guys....honestly, what is your opinion on girls who sleep with you on the first date?
I don't know. Let's go out and I'll let you know... 
Seriously though, I think each guy will have their own opinion on this. I personally don't think badly about someone who does. Afterall, I have before and I don't think less of myself. | |
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| First Date Sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 8:16:29 AM | | Well, its a toss up for me, it really depends on the flow of the date, if you know your not really compatible, but you seem to be highly attracted to each other, then I say go for it, though if you want to start a relationship from this first date, then its probably better off not to. | |
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| First Date Sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 8:18:40 AM | | i agree, it forces intimacy, that might not be there if you didn't do the deed. i would wait until you both know what you want out of the relationship and that way there are no hurt feelings later on. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2006 8:20:16 AM | 99% of me says yes, go for it. What happens, happens. "Carp'e Diem!"
1% of me says no, just wait it out. Good things happen later, perhaps marriage as well. What is Carp'e Diem?
I always listen to that 1% voice. Respect comes first. | |
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| First Date Sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 8:29:25 AM | I prefer to wait. I like to get to know a woman before things get intimate.
Btw west49gurl your fiance must be crazy to have left you. You are drop dead gorgeous. | |
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| First Date Sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 8:34:06 AM | Arri...........you are wrong......the best does not cum easy..........and I would prove you wrong......but only if you can wait | |
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| First Date Sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 8:47:49 AM | | It really depends on the individual. I have before and had a long realtionship with the guy. (still friends to this day) and I haven't before. I say it just depends on the individuals. Shouldn't think bad about it. | |
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| First Date Sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 8:53:21 AM | | It's not critical, and most times even better if you wait a bit. I'd rather sleep with a person, and not just a body. On a first date you are still just starting out to discover one another. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2006 9:54:21 AM | | Says you are easy and lack self-control...BORING!!! Great for a FB, Disastrous for any kind of lasting relationship.. | |
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| First Date Sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 10:45:26 AM | | No opinion needed, I would KNOW if she has potential to be good in bed or not. Nothing else needs to be thought about. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2006 11:01:37 AM | | I dont think thats the kind of woman I would date. I wouldnt feel comfortable around a woman like that, but hey thats just me I'm sure there are plenty of guys out there that are looking for that kind of thing. | |
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| First Date Sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 12:17:05 PM |
what is your opinion on girls who sleep with you on the first date?
if a girl offered to sleep with me on the first date, I'd say no, and never talk to her again.
but I speak for myself - most guys I know would date her another 20 times. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2006 12:50:23 PM | | If it's not the first date, I can wait for the second if I have to. | |
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| First Date Sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 1:02:02 PM | | if a girl is ready to give it up on the first date then i move on i don't want a girl like that. i know if she did that with me on the first date then how many times has she done that previously. | |
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| First Date Sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 1:12:03 PM | | Honestly.....I dont think they are trashy.....I just wonder how many other people were before me. | |
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Posted: 7/3/2006 1:12:43 PM | | I'd have no problem with it. I'd just convince myself that she'd never done it before and only slept with me on the first date because I'm so special. Guys can be pretty delusional when necessary. | |
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| First Date Sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 1:14:53 PM | | My best and most lasting monogamous relationship started with first-date sex. Lived together for three years and I grew a lot from the relationship. So I think that sex on a first date is acceptable but not a requirement. | |
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| First Date Sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 1:15:27 PM | | lord almighty, am I the only guy who'd say no? | |
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Posted: 7/3/2006 1:38:15 PM | | honestly? shes to easy. if you out for a relationship, it should wait a while. i say after 3rd date. but thats me | |
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| First Date Sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 1:45:06 PM | | I like it. I mean, I like sex. I enjoy it, and I don't have a lot of hang-ups about it. Meeting a girl who feels the same way is cool. Sex on the first date, presuming it's good, greatly enhances the odds of me wanting a second date. | |
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| First Date Sex
Posted: 7/3/2006 2:21:36 PM | | I agree with crackedjar.... Third date or a few after. Otherwise it's like opening your gifts at midnight. Takes the joy away from Christmas day | |
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