| | users I've not contacted?Page 1 of 1 | why do people appear in my matches that I remember contacting? They dont appear in my "contacts", but I do remember crafting a short message to them. do they appear there if they dont read it and delete it?? or did my message not go though because they have a minimum number of words requirement? I dont want to send two nearly identical messages to the same girl days apart, they'd think I'm weirder then they already think I am  | |
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| users I've not contacted? Posted: 7/3/2006 12:25:34 PM |
why do people appear in my matches that I remember contacting? The two have nothing in common. Your matches are simply people that match your criteria for dating within your radius. They will show up if you have contacted them or not.
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| users I've not contacted? Posted: 7/3/2006 1:08:16 PM | click on "my matches" you can set an age, distance, and the contact option | |
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| users I've not contacted? Posted: 7/3/2006 1:12:26 PM | Ah....I don't have the "contact option" setting. Admin must not have linked it to mods. Noone tells me anything. | |
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| users I've not contacted? Posted: 7/3/2006 8:01:53 PM | I have the "users I've not contacted" option picked I get the same Phenomenon testing that feature.
Something for the Admin to look into. | |
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| users I've not contacted? Posted: 7/3/2006 8:08:12 PM | Users I've not contacted = Users who I did not make first contact with.
If they contacted you first then it doesn't count. | |
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| users I've not contacted? Posted: 7/3/2006 8:33:36 PM | why do people appear in my matches that I remember contacting? They dont appear in my "contacts", but I do remember crafting a short message to them. Refresh the Page several times if need be by hitting "F5". | |
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| users I've not contacted? Posted: 7/4/2006 2:53:25 AM | | I started to realize the problem is that I'll send a message, it will say "message sent" but then the message wont appear in my sent folder! nor will the user appear in my contacts etc | |
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| users I've not contacted? Posted: 5/18/2007 11:42:54 AM | | Incorrect - I just proved that by sending several emails and refreshing the view filter each time to show matches of USERS I HAVE NOT CONTACTED… it worked for a few but even logging out / logging in for fact -as I wrote down a name- a user I sent to twice still came up. So do not be thinking some one is stalking if they write you twice in a month. They probably forgot they wrote, you changed a pic and they don’t recognize you. | |
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| users I've not contacted? Posted: 2/24/2009 7:47:45 PM | I'm not sure if this is related, however, one of my difficulties is with the "users I've not contacted" setting on the http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewmatches.aspx page.
It is pretty obvious that many of the users listed are those that I have sent messages to and received messages from. This is particularly difficult when they have no pic and a somewhat generic name like blond678.
Does it have anything to do with which server processes your search? This feature still doesn't work for me as of Feb 24, 2009. | |
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| users I've not contacted? Posted: 2/24/2009 7:52:33 PM | It is pretty obvious that many of the users listed are those that I have sent messages to and received messages from. This is particularly difficult when they have no pic and a somewhat generic name like blond678. A lot of users dump their old profiles, and recreate a new one, with obviously the same pictures. The system will not be able to know this as all such features are based upon a member's User ID. New profile, new UserID, hence they will appear as a profile never having been contacted.

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| users I've not contacted? Posted: 6/17/2009 7:35:04 PM |
I'm not sure if this is related, however, one of my difficulties is with the "users I've not contacted" setting on the http://www.plentyoffish.com/viewmatches.aspx page.
I've just discovered the same problem albeit only with one example.
And it's not someone deleting and recreating the profile as the id number is the same.
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| users I've not contacted? Posted: 7/16/2009 7:50:00 PM | "users I've not contacted." Seems broken. A few users I remember contacting who only read and not replied my mail, still come up regardless of how often I refresh the page. There are also times a user who I contacted weeks ago will appear in my list again.
None of the people changed there names.
Makes it confusing.
I should also mention that these automated matches are very seldom reliable. I still get those that don't fit what I'm looking for ... ie kids...weight..
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| users I've not contacted? Posted: 1/20/2010 4:43:59 PM | Yup, happens to me too. Sometimes I look at a profile and don't contact them. So, when I see a familiar face a few days later and I message them thinking that tonight I think I'll say hi, I'm a bit embarrassed when they tell me that they've already rejected me. But I have the "Users I've Not Contacted" option selected :-(
Please fix this. | |
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| users I've not contacted? Posted: 8/12/2011 12:08:12 PM | At this moment No. It is showing someone who contacted me first and who I emailed back but perhaps that doesn't count.
The list seems to change though, yesterday it was showing some I definitely had messaged. I can check again later. | |
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