| What is it with ex's????????????
Posted: 7/3/2006 8:22:30 PM | Ok spent all day in a field doing suare bales of hay and fun for me but its my ex boyfriend and his brother that cuts and bales our hay. I go to the barn and oh look theres the ex with the new gf (its been almost a year but it kinda burnt a little)
Anyway he spent all freking day flirting with me, bringing up things from the past (we were steady for 3 years)...first off what is the point and why do it while having the current gf there?
I spent over 12 hours with him today and I was tired and I suppose "bitter". I think I have a reason to be..do you?
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| What is it with ex's????????????
Posted: 7/3/2006 8:36:08 PM | | I believe you have reason to be frustrated by this. Don't know why ex's do this but I can relate. I only have 2 ex's both who I still talk to, both who r in new relationships and both who try to hook up with me still. Perhaps its a case of wanting what they can't have? | |
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| What is it with ex''s????????????
Posted: 7/4/2006 12:13:21 AM | I feel sorry for the current girlfriend..........sucks feeling 2nd best
when he starts talking about the past with you, just change the subject or try and bring his gf into the convo, ask her questions and such | |
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| What is it with ex''s????????????
Posted: 7/4/2006 5:33:10 PM | | Did I mention he broke up with me? After we spent the night togeather the sunday two days before he dumped me...see frustrated and yet again I don't care how she feels I hope it was awkward because I didnt do anything wrong I didnt steal her boyfriend! | |
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| What is it with ex's????????????
Posted: 7/4/2006 8:58:22 PM | | You always remember first loves... theyre haunting in a way that doesn't happen as you grow older... Maybe because they contain yr first definitions of love as you know it... go figure | |
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| What is it with ex''s????????????
Posted: 1/10/2008 2:00:49 PM |
I don't care how she feels I hope it was awkward because I didnt do anything wrong.
Neither did she. Perhaps feeling bitter is just karma repaying you for your inability to be kind to the only person that was truly innocent in the whole situation - the woman that started dating him later, after he'd broken it off with you. | |
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| What is it with ex's????????????
Posted: 1/10/2008 2:44:45 PM | 1) He's an ass, and it's a good thing you're no longer with him.
2) He probably thinks that he has a chance to get some action with you on the side.
3) Or he decided that he might have a little "danger" by flirting with you when his new girlfriend is around.
4) He's a liar, a player and a cheat. You pick the order. :p
5) You should have let his girl know what he was up to, because if she's clueless, she's going to get burned by him eventually. And just like you, she doesn't deserve to be with an ass like him.
6) Next time... a good kick in his cajones would probably relieve that frustration you feel. :p | |
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| What is it with ex's????????????
Posted: 1/10/2008 3:04:02 PM | sounds like you have not let him go yet....
time to let go don't you think, a simple hello would have done without engaging him in conversation all day.
try to learn from an ex and move on don't live there, it will only hurt for longer | |
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| What is it with ex's????????????
Posted: 1/10/2008 4:34:07 PM | He saw as plain as day that it bothered you that he had a new gf. He took the opportunity to pull your chain because of it. He saw it as a win win for him in the fact he got to mess with your head and it could also work in his favor with the new girl to create competition that isn't there which some women love.
Do I condone or thing these behaviors are good? Hell no! Do I think your ex is a f*cking moron? Yep! Do I think you played right into his hands? Yep! Do I think his new gf will get tired of his crap eventually? Yep, but then again it has been a year and you still are not over him irregardless. Bottom line is get beyond your past and either don't see him or resolve whatever you haven't resolved that caused your reaction or you will continually give him the power to mess with you again and again until he can't or gets tired of playing with your head.
Good Luck!
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| What is it with ex's????????????
Posted: 1/10/2008 5:17:23 PM |
why do girls hang on to this stuff?guys get over the emotional stuff quick.
We do? Maybe I should ask... what's your secret? | |
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| What is it with ex's????????????
Posted: 1/10/2008 6:23:15 PM | | WELL GIRL BOYZ WILL BE BOYZ, ALL MEN DO THAT SHIT AT SOME POINT IN THEIR LIVES JUST AS WELL AS WE WOMEN!!!! WE FLIRT WITH OUR EXS TOO HEY JUST BEIN HONEST........ | |
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