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 debstar
Joined: 10/8/2005
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I am from London and I have a big chest, I have just meet this guy as a mate and when he is talking to me he is constantly staring at my chest, which I find very rude plus I work in a very male dominated enviorment and my manager does it, and all the other men in the office do it. I just wanna shout out at them

YOU THINK I DON'T KNOW WOT UR DOING U MUGS

PLS LET ME KNOW WHY U THINK IT'S OK TO TALK 2 TITS INSTEAD OF SOMEONES FACE?? TITS DON'T TALK BACK
 Adam Taylor
Joined: 5/11/2006
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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/4/2006 3:04:38 PM
It's not okay.

Unfortunately, some men suffer from this common disease called "being an ass".
It causes them to do things like stare at a woman's breasts instead of respecting her and making eye contact.
Of acting like jerks. Lying. Cheating.
All that stuff.

No cure has been found as of yet.
Though a temporary solution has been found... it's called "a kick to the groin". ;)
 write guy
Joined: 4/7/2006
Msg: 3
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don''t notice ???
Posted: 7/4/2006 3:08:46 PM
we cant help it, they stare at us , its a contest to see who blinks first

and adam what can i say ,,, good luck
 pansatyros
Joined: 3/24/2006
Msg: 4
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/4/2006 3:16:47 PM
Oh come on now, do you really not know the answer to this? Of course it's not OK for men to stare at your boobs but this is almost instinctual and it depends on what you wear to accentuate them as well.

Of course by all means you can wear anything you feel like wearing but be prepared for some biological/instinctual reaction from men. You can't turn that off no matter how much PC kool-aid you try to consume...

Same thing if I wore spandex at work distinctively carving out my genitals...

Unfair to be a woman with large boobs... I know...
 carpaccio
Joined: 4/20/2006
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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don''t notice ???
Posted: 7/4/2006 3:40:23 PM
When a guy starts looking at my chest instead of my face, I just say, "You must be really tired, your eyes are sliding down." I consider it a mark of a gentleman if he can maintain eye contact throughout an entire conversation, and yes, I have known a few!
 psssst
Joined: 2/8/2006
Msg: 6
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/4/2006 3:42:23 PM
Gee... and you guys all tell me you are looking at the logo on my shirts!!! Who'd a thunk?
 okiedokietxxx
Joined: 5/29/2006
Msg: 7
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/4/2006 3:48:22 PM
the last time i looked at a womans logo i got slapped.


hey, if it bothers women then why wear the low cut t-shirts if not wanting to show them off.

( i just have to show my shallowness just once )
 Silky3511
Joined: 6/2/2006
Msg: 8
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Posted: 7/4/2006 3:50:52 PM
Men have two brains!! and which one is used the most!
 Adam Taylor
Joined: 5/11/2006
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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/4/2006 4:22:35 PM
I can easily carry on a conversation without my eyes wandering.

There is a time and place to "admire" a woman.

When you're talking with her... your attention should be on HER, not her "assets".
 movedon
Joined: 5/27/2006
Msg: 10
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don''t notice ???
Posted: 7/4/2006 4:36:16 PM
^^^^^^^^^^Same thing if I wore spandex at work distinctively carving out my genitals^^
(post previous did not work)


oh if only..........:)
 KrazyKanuck
Joined: 6/11/2006
Msg: 11
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/4/2006 4:37:45 PM
Its not that we dont THINK you notice...
We know you do and we dont care.
If your wearing something thats showing them off, we're gonna look. Sometimes we will just look for the hell of it! They're there. we look.. Goes the same for butts... Same thing, different area of the body.
 casino5222
Joined: 5/2/2006
Msg: 12
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/4/2006 4:38:18 PM
Cmon, most women love it thats why they show off their clevage.
 movedon
Joined: 5/27/2006
Msg: 13
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Posted: 7/4/2006 4:46:10 PM
Most? I don't know....depends on what else they Think they have to offer
 pansatyros
Joined: 3/24/2006
Msg: 14
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don''t notice ???
Posted: 7/4/2006 4:48:24 PM

oh if only..........:)


Now, now, now, don't give me ideas, they will chase me away with a stick if I ever appear at work with a spandex...
 baldfisher
Joined: 6/7/2006
Msg: 15
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Posted: 7/4/2006 5:10:24 PM
let's get this straight...some woman, not saying you debstar

a funny thing is, you get caught peekin at the cleavage and they shame you for it...yet each time they look in a mirror, they bend forward seeing how much they are showing...if they can see it, what makes them think we can't? ....hmmmmmm
 write guy
Joined: 4/7/2006
Msg: 16
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don''t notice ???
Posted: 7/4/2006 6:01:30 PM
yeah what krazy kunuck said,
 Nickjbor
Joined: 6/23/2006
Msg: 17
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/4/2006 6:57:05 PM
is he looking at your breasts or your clevage?
if it's the latter its a problem you can fix by wearing a shirt.

of its the former, then dont hang out with him anymore, he's shallow.
 coug4
Joined: 3/10/2006
Msg: 18
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/4/2006 7:38:08 PM
Adam;

You're every mothers' dream.
 ubkobalt
Joined: 5/7/2006
Msg: 19
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/4/2006 7:48:55 PM
It's not that we don't think you notice. We know you know.

What you don't know is that you only catch us 20% of the time.

But really, there's a "That's amazing!" thing going on. And it just never gets old.
 TearsAreCool
Joined: 6/16/2006
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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/4/2006 8:50:51 PM
There's a time and a place for everything. Staring at a female employee's chest should definitely be done after quitting time or via a hidden camera.
 2nd thoughts
Joined: 7/4/2006
Msg: 21
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/4/2006 9:14:12 PM
I think gazing is a more accurate term than staring, as in gazing at a sunset or star-gazing. They are your breasts in a strict sense, but they are also here for all of us to enjoy looking at.
 kicnbac
Joined: 6/10/2006
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Posted: 7/4/2006 9:16:25 PM
I can say the same thing for women...and some men
 BigWings
Joined: 5/24/2006
Msg: 23
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/4/2006 10:48:45 PM
Men stare at womens boobs because they like to. Women wear revealing clothes because they like to be watched because it makes them feel sexy.

Some women even like to **** about men looking at them or complaining about being hit on all the time. Deep inside though they still love all the attention because it gives them sexual power.

If you have a problem with men staring at your boobs then the answer is simple: cover up. If you don't want to cover up then stop your whining and start enjoying the attention.
 Sunday
Joined: 4/15/2006
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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/4/2006 11:16:59 PM
starring is definatly a rude thing, admiring on the other hand is a compliment of sorts as in admiring artwork/sculpture

No I dont think it's ok to talk to breasts - my opinion

Glances happen

what goes through a gilrs mind if a guy never looks at them, does she worry?

I think men are diff about that tho, if a girl wants to stare at any part of me, then go ahead, if we're talking and they stare at a part of me other than my face - well I just find it funny and start saying stupid silly stuff for shite's n giggles, but I can see that getting to be annoying if its an "all the time" thing


debstar - how would you feel if a guy stared at yer face while talking to you not cuz hes being a gentleman or respectfull but because he thought you have a pretty/cute/goregeous face?

maybe when a guy stares at yer chest you should make faces at them, or freak them out a little - when their heads are looking down say "oh, when did that happen, I think you might be loosing some hair there", this may give them a lil trauma around you and they'll think before looking downwards at you again - exposing thier scalps, lol - sorry guy's
 anivar
Joined: 5/3/2006
Msg: 25
Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ???
Posted: 7/5/2006 6:42:48 AM
Ive talked to a few tits on here recently and they are all blokes, No it's not ok to talk to a gals chest, alas some lads think it is their god given right to do so, sort of like checking out the booty, they think you don't know or don't care, they think a large breasted woman is open staring territory, I can honestly say I find conversation with a woman face to face is far more stimulating than chatting to her bust, there are times and places for things like that, providing you have hit it off and you are consenting to his altered gaze.

Love London and miss it so so much.
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