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| How can you tell if your potential partner has freak potential?
Posted: 7/5/2006 11:25:06 AM | watch for those little red-flags that you tend to ignore at first.
example, when i was getting to know my last boyfriend, i should have known not to go any further after the first month even:
when we met for coffee, he didn't give me eye contact once when i spoke to him - he looked everywhere but at me (i thought it was nerves and could have been...)
a few weeks later during a conversation he said to me that he thought psychologists/psychiatrists were full of crap and couldn't help people (ding ding ding)
he then later said that he didn't believe people could actually change (ding ding ding ding)
he then said another time that he didn't believe that relationships should have conflict and he doesn't deal with conflict (DING DING DING DING DING!!)
but oooooh nooooo....did i pay attention? nope!
so after this and many other incidents i eventually saw the 'real' him and got scared and broke up with him. he's a walking timebomb...
anyways, my point is to pay attention to those little things.. cuz they alllll add up!!
oh - and if they use humour an AWFUL LOT - especially self-degredation....that can denote someone who is unhealthy. | |
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| How can you tell if your potential partner has freak potential?
Posted: 7/5/2006 11:34:14 AM | | My thoughts would be taking the time to get to know them, not just a first date. See how open minded they are, what their views are about some sexual topics, etc. Everyone is different and everyone has their kink. Just takes time to find it. | |
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| Freak potential has different meanings
Posted: 7/5/2006 11:36:28 AM | And cleary the first two replies are the truth behind that.
HIP version of Freak - sexually explorative, creative in bed, has the potential to take one's partner to new and uncharted sexually territory.
Common definition of Freak - abnormal and or uncommon characteristics that either cause fear or disturb and distort one's view of another person.
My guess is that you are asking this under the 2nd definition...but I could be wrong
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| Freak potential has different meanings
Posted: 7/5/2006 11:53:20 AM | I have always followed my gut. If they set any alarm bells ringing, I generally stay away.
As for freaky tendancies, the more freaky the better!!!!! | |
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| Freak potential has different meanings
Posted: 7/5/2006 12:04:45 PM | I took it as she wants to know if she can tell if someone is going to have the GOOD freak potential in them...not the bad! lol Like...she does not want to find someone that has so many hang ups in the bedroom!
I think a good conversation starter...when you are comfy enough with broaching it, of course...is, "What is TOO kinky/freaky for you?" or "What is the kinkiest/freakiest thing you have done?" | |
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| Freak potential has different meanings
Posted: 7/5/2006 12:10:33 PM | how can u tell if they have freak potential?
Hmmm...when you go in for that 1st kiss....and she sticks a finger up your azz........ | |
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| How can you tell if your potential partner has freak potential?
Posted: 7/5/2006 12:30:21 PM | The question isn't How do you know if the person is crazy? Answer is they give you a clue by making a joke such as....."I don't care about color. So many different color penises going into different color bottoms it just doesn't matter anymore"
....Yeah...you know that person is a Glorified FREAK-A-LEAK | |
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| How can you tell if your potential partner has freak potential?
Posted: 7/5/2006 1:26:49 PM |
oh - and if they use humour an AWFUL LOT - especially self-degredation....that can denote someone who is unhealthy.
Define "use humour an awful lot" - I use humour a lot, but I have a serious side too. I don't spend too much time on self-degredation - I don't see a purpose in that, it just seems like you're looking for pity or whatever. I like seeing people laugh and having fun whether someone else is cracking the jokes or me it doesn't matter - but in the absence of anyone else being funny, I usually step up. | |
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| How can you tell if your potential partner has freak potential?
Posted: 7/5/2006 1:43:29 PM | Just my take on this thread, but I think the OP is meaning freaky ~ sexually. Not circus type freak. I may be wrong, but her question seems to indicate freaky as in "woo hoo ~ he's so freakkkkky!!!  "
~OT~ I ask. Not the first date, not even after a few dates. But, I want to know where they are in relation to where I am. I don't want to know details per se, mainly if they are just a little out of the ordinary. (Or a LOT  ) | |
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| How can you tell if your potential partner has freak potential?
Posted: 7/5/2006 2:05:03 PM | >>Define "use humour an awful lot"
I guess I mean if everything is a joke. I love lots of humour, but when it's used all the time for all situations, it makes you wonder if they can have a serious conversation. i guess it's a gut thing as to when it's tooooo much - especially the whole self-degradation thing - sometimes it's used to cover up true feelings so humour is used to mask what they really feel (at times when it shouldn't) | |
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| Freak potential has different meanings
Posted: 7/6/2006 8:27:57 AM |
Hmmm...when you go in for that 1st kiss....and she sticks a finger up your azz........
Ummm....THAT's Freaky, these days?! Oops...my apologies to my date last night!! LOL
(Kidding folks!) | |
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| How can you tell if your potential partner has freak potential?
Posted: 7/6/2006 8:50:21 PM | Freaks KNOW Freaks LOL
Somehow theres an attraction or quality that a freak displays that another freak can just naturally pick up..the way they move...that sparkle of mischeif in their eyes, the abundance of energy does a freak make
And Please..Freaks are people too | |
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| How can you tell if your potential partner has freak potential?
Posted: 7/7/2006 3:55:01 AM | Define FREAK?
answer: A thing or occurrence that is markedly unusual or irregular
Are they someone who is simply sexually open minded or someone who runs at you with a coke bottle, rope and no lube??
OK OK lube in one hand...
GULP
Have a nice day 
I stalked on this one ---> K <--- | |
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| Freak potential has different meanings
Posted: 7/7/2006 5:57:08 AM | I'd have to agree with Felanie! The more freaky, the better. I can detect the freak in a woman just by the way she responds to me during a conversation. And the way she looks at me. If when talking to a woman you suddenly feel like "you" are being challenged, then not only is she a freak, but she also noticed you are too. If you don't hear any sexual feeling in her voice, that does not always mean she's not a freak, it could mean she's just not interested. But i'm a freak and always have been. And i attract them constantly. It takes no more than one conversation to see the freak in a woman. But some guy's have to realise. Not every man can see or bring the freak out of a woman. It naturally takes a true freak to accomplish this. If you can't see or bring the freak out of a woman, you can't say she's not a freak. "YOU" are not the reak! So my analysis is "It Takes One To Know One"! All you sexy freaks out there holla if you hear me!
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