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 apparently_so

Joined: 2/21/2006
Msg: 1
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Posted: 7/6/2006 11:01:25 AM
Maybe a bit of a random question, but something I'm curious about. I've found that, when looking at a guy's profile, if he's on over 25 or 30 people's favourites lists, I think "Oh, they're likely out of my league, then." Probably stupid, yes, but eh, it's what I find happens automatically. So, the question is this:

Do you ever feel intimidated by a person of the opposite sex's favourite count?
 Sweet-Sunshine

Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 2
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Posted: 7/6/2006 11:04:33 AM
I thnk we need separate 'favorites' lists...

1. friends I have made
2. potential matches
3. rejects
4. hotties/eye candy
5. funny profiles
6. those that I am pursuing.

Maybe that will help with decreasing the intimidation........way over half of mine are friends.....both male and females...but only I know that...on the profile it is just a number......who cares...
 FRÊCKLËS~JÕ~®

Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 3
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Posted: 7/6/2006 11:04:39 AM
don't let the number's get you in a tissy..
they are only number's..
chances are he has many friends or has a hot pic up..if he goes to event's then again his number will go up !!!!
just my 2 cent's on the topic..



edit: as sista "sunshine" said.. most are friends.. both men/women too..!!!
 iamcanuck

Joined: 6/17/2004
Msg: 4
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Posted: 7/6/2006 11:19:12 AM
Haha, you're on over 100 favorites list. Does this mean you're too good for everyone else out there? It's just a number. The only thing it might equate to, is a little longer wait for a reply.

To answer your question, no, not intimidated by their favorites count.

Matt
 misseyes

Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 5
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Posted: 7/6/2006 11:24:24 AM
Where's OG when I need his comments on this again. Dang men. So unreliable.

Anyway, no it doesn't bother me. It used to then I realized that really, it meant sweet diddly squat. I use my list for events, keeping in touch, etc. If someone is kind enough to add me,I'll email them to thank them (provided I remember!!). Usually that gets me deleted though, must be the question about ice cream.
 Dr Evil1

Joined: 8/5/2005
Msg: 6
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Posted: 7/6/2006 12:20:24 PM
You can't judge a person by the number on their favorites list.

My favorites reflect the friendly people that I have had interactions with, both male and female.

The person's fav's number may be representative of the comments they post in the forums, their picture, or even the content of their profile.

They may well have never even contacted the people on their lists. It may just be someone's way of saying "Hey, I have noticed you, and I like what I see/read about you."

So in answer to your question. No, I do not get intimidated by the number attached to their favorite's list.

(The Evil Clean One)
 bcboy72

Joined: 3/16/2005
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Posted: 7/6/2006 12:31:48 PM
My number reflects the number of women I have slept with.. Why does it keep going down?
 iamcanuck

Joined: 6/17/2004
Msg: 8
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Posted: 7/6/2006 1:20:34 PM
You lose one for every women that you drive to lesbianism.
 Bella™

Joined: 2/2/2005
Msg: 9
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Posted: 7/6/2006 1:29:20 PM
^^^^^What Dr Evil said..
 FRÊCKLËS~JÕ~®

Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 10
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Posted: 7/6/2006 1:31:52 PM

You can't judge a person by the number on their favorites list.

My favorites reflect the friendly people that I have had interactions with, both male and female.

The person's fav's number may be representative of the comments they post in the forums, their picture, or even the content of their profile.

They may well have never even contacted the people on their lists. It may just be someone's way of saying "Hey, I have noticed you, and I like what I see/read about you."

So in answer to your question. No, I do not get intimidated by the number attached to their favorite's list.



a big HELL YA.. and ditto to the clean Dr Evil..
 nuthafish

Joined: 3/18/2005
Msg: 11
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Posted: 7/6/2006 2:07:38 PM
Ahhh shux "THE LIST" the cursed LIST

Gotta get mine BACK to "69" again
 Clearwater Missy

Joined: 6/12/2006
Msg: 12
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Posted: 7/6/2006 3:36:44 PM
i dont think anything of it , cuz its ppl that put YOU on there favs list , and theres not to much u can do about it , i was at like 80 untill i deleated my pf , now i think its like 9 or so , and now there just all my friends , no guys i think r hot any more , ....i miss the eye candy
 cedarSiS

Joined: 10/8/2005
Msg: 13
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Posted: 7/6/2006 4:27:29 PM
.....the numbers...the numbers....know quite a few gents near 100 that say they are home on their own quite a bit....I believe them....have known some that have less than 10 and are quite the 'movers', if you know what I mean.....then you have some that zing over 100 and they themselves erase it to 0.....no rules...so many different situations....no assumptions K?....then we are all $#@%s
 Internetainment

Joined: 5/14/2006
Msg: 14
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Posted: 7/6/2006 5:47:05 PM
i hate the favourites sytem
anyone can add anyone
and a lot of the girls that i know wiht accounts on here, have people adding them to favourties that are in florida
so its really a pointless number
 bcboy72

Joined: 3/16/2005
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Posted: 7/6/2006 5:53:27 PM

You lose one for every women that you drive to lesbianism


At least I slept with them...
 neverhadaclue

Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 16
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Posted: 7/6/2006 7:52:06 PM
^^^ thats the problem my little friend (and i mean little in the most non insulting way) you "slept" with them... dont ya think you should have done a little more than that to keep them non lesbians??

 RandyRockit

Joined: 6/3/2005
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Posted: 7/6/2006 10:39:22 PM
I got a Love crush on one peep on me fav. list.
She is a hot canadian lady!
Its sorta my secrecy,,if i ever got a date with her not sure what we would do?
Drive threw a ATM?
Go to Merrit mountain fest?
Victoria?
Go watch them bury a Giraffe?
If we ever made love it would be a fitness fantasy.
Your prolly wondering where i am going with this,,its all LOL,,LMAO.
I am not that Kinky ,,but if she called me "Slow Ride" i would dance shirtless.
There is no pics on my profile with a pimple but i gotta learn to like myself.
No tales of deception,,just livin bi the moment :).
Play safe!
 fairyeyez

Joined: 9/8/2005
Msg: 18
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Posted: 7/6/2006 10:49:24 PM
The person's fav's number may be representative of the comments they post in the forums, their picture, or even the content of their profile.


Totally agree. I find it so interesting that the chics that post slutty pics of themselves and list sex as one of their main interests receive like over 350 favs in oh lets say less than a month. Shows how meaningful these lists really are to some people.

For me those on my fav list and those who I am on are friends (male and female) that I have already met and wish to maintain contact with. Other then that I don't add and delete myself from theirs. Eww who wants to be on someones fav list just so that they can look at yer pics and spy on ya with no other contact.

^^^ Hmm I sense that someone is feeling purdy opiniated t'nite lol pfft I am just jelous lol, just want to maintain a solid 69 haha.
 Islandsugar

Joined: 1/1/2006
Msg: 19
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Posted: 7/7/2006 7:56:54 AM

....i miss the eye candy




Are you freakin kidding me.... THERE are a TON of freakin clearwater cuties!!!

HEAD OUT OF @SS missy lol ur mans cute when hes not b!tchy hehe


ehem... like the one that uh.....I brought to um.... the uh uh hometown boy... er eh...
maybe we should just continue this on msn..


If you are concerned about a favorites number or whatever... you probably aren't
confident enough for this chica!!!!!!!!

So hes on 211 faves lists... thats 211 women/men that havent been sucessfull......
My turn for a try of that kind... the odds are on my side... wouldnt you think? lol
 Irishgirl74*2

Joined: 6/30/2006
Msg: 20
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Posted: 7/7/2006 8:04:30 AM
I have to stop deleting my profile...I keep losing all of my fav's dammit!
 SPAZTIC

Joined: 6/27/2006
Msg: 21
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Posted: 7/7/2006 8:07:22 AM
Favorites are funny. I was on 60 at one point. and I knew maybe 6 of them. Its a numbers game. As long as you have ONE and it is a real person....All good.
Missy, we can truck in some coastal cuties for ya if you've culled the herd up there?
IS.... too funny...hometown... msn.... you go girl
 bcboy72

Joined: 3/16/2005
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Posted: 7/7/2006 8:28:53 AM

Are you freakin kidding me.... THERE are a TON of freakin clearwater cuties!!!


Yes we are, thanks for noticing...

Neverhadaclue....does it matter? I had fun.
 iamcanuck

Joined: 6/17/2004
Msg: 23
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Posted: 7/7/2006 9:27:12 AM

Neverhadaclue....does it matter? I had fun.

How can you tell when a woman cums?

Who cares.



Why do men fall asleep immediately after sex?

So women can masturbate and finish the job off properly!


Yeah, nothing to do with favorites (other than my subsequent removal from some people's, lol).
 who_the_fox

Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 24
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Posted: 7/7/2006 1:33:22 PM
I almost never "bookmark" a guy for further consideration....and today I did...figured I would email him at some point.

I got an email from him

"Who the fvck are you?"

Guess what? I deleted him as I had obviously bookmarked in error.

and people wonder why I don't do the "dating" thing!!
 Irishgirl74*2

Joined: 6/30/2006
Msg: 25
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Posted: 7/7/2006 3:50:47 PM
Wow...I hope that I don't add that 'error' to my fav's cause he sounds like a real piece of work...
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