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Posted: 2/28/2005 12:18:54 AM | Sometimes self-pity is sickening.
It really bugs me when people say in their profiles stuff like:
I've been hurt lots in the past.
Don't want to be alone.
Tired of playing games.
I just want someone to love.
I haven't had any luck on any other sites so far but here goes.
Are there any real men/women left????????
Screams: I am a desperate doormat. Please walk on me.
People, don't you realize how unattractive and desperate this makes you sound?
Please stop treating future dates as life savers and or counsellors. Save the drama for your mama and slowly get to know people. Don't dump on them. Save stuff for an as needed basis.
It also BUGS ME when you act like because your last date/relationship sucked you'll never ever ever ever find true love and or happiness.
Some of you people are talking about dreams being shattered, lives being destroyed etc....You people are depressing. Stop wallowing.
It may be really sad but it is SO NOT the end of the world and you make it sound like it is.
Sure life is hard.
Sure people will make you cry.
But live and learn and cut your losses.
On to the next!
Chin up! | |
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Posted: 2/28/2005 12:22:00 AM | In the memorable words of Denis Leary: "Life sucks, get a helmet"
 great thread chicky | |
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Posted: 2/28/2005 12:26:26 AM | i do agree with you
but sinse were being honest....
I hate ****y attitudes and ****ing instead of just saying something
I also dislike like seeing slutty pictures in profiles | |
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Posted: 2/28/2005 12:31:37 AM | | You should be happy you have the option of seeing 'slutty' pictures in profiles in this country instead of living in a country where women are beaten for showing their ankles. | |
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Posted: 2/28/2005 12:35:24 AM | right on , I agree with you so much on this....... I am a martyr come help me lick my wounds kinda guys!
exactly on freedom of expression also! | |
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Posted: 2/28/2005 12:38:25 AM | the people who are on the forums fishing for compliments constantly annoy me as well.
Oh look at my slutty pics and rate me, judge me, love me, I am oh so good! Look at me! I'm an attention whore!
Bah!
Now if you'll excuse me, I must go take pics of my boobs so I can fit and and be accepted for what I look like instead of who I am. | |
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Posted: 2/28/2005 12:47:08 AM | | .....I can't suffer fools gladly, ....but a boobie or two never bothered me. | |
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Posted: 2/28/2005 1:00:50 AM | I had a boobie bother me once. Wouldn't stop banging on my door early sunday mornings.
oh wait, that was something else entirely. | |
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Posted: 2/28/2005 1:37:39 AM | | She must get alot of attention with that boob tatoo. Luckily you can get them lazer removed off when she grows old and doesn't want everyone to think she's a ****. | |
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Posted: 2/28/2005 1:49:17 AM | | You are supposed to tell them to dial 1/800/cry/baby | |
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Posted: 2/28/2005 2:03:04 AM | I agree with you 100%!
To a certain degree, we must all wallow in self-pity... for a bit. Life is full of disappointments, and sad occurences. As such, it's quite normal to feel upset about failed relationships. HOWEVER.... as previously said, " [...] live and learn and cut your losses [...]." The healing process takes time, yes... but don't wallow in self-pity for the rest of your life. What does that say about your level of self-esteem?
Respectfully submitted. | |
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Posted: 2/28/2005 2:07:30 AM | Oh so true. If you don't like your life, don't bother complaining. No one likes to hear complaints. Make a point of changing your lifestyle.
Here's a good tip. Go read Dale Carnegie's book How to Win Friends and Influence People. After reading that book, it made my life change. Perhaps yours will change too. | |
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Posted: 2/28/2005 2:19:28 AM | I think this is a great thread,but if I concentrate so much on the things about people that I dislike,I risk missing out on a chance to meet somebody who may just enrich my life.We all got sh*tthat other people cant stand about us....oh well.Also,sometimes it takes a few broken hearts before a person can become stronger and stop whining about the pain.After all,it really is incredible pain.
I joined this site with an open mind.Some people will like me ...others wont!! In the end,one's self-love must prevail!!
~Billy | |
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Posted: 2/28/2005 2:40:33 AM | | moral of the thread - be a narcissist | |
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Posted: 2/28/2005 2:44:21 AM | Magincia
Yes. It's a great conversation starter. I don't mind people coming up and talking to me. I'm not a stuck up princess who is too cool to talk to people.
If someone thinks I'm a **** because of one tattoo they are welcome to their lame opinions.
Anyone who is worth my time would also pay attention to my words and actions.
I agree with blunthonestjack...that book has been life changing for at least one person I know. | |
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Posted: 2/28/2005 3:07:47 AM | I agree 110%......that which does not kill u makes u stronger
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Posted: 2/28/2005 3:15:02 AM | | if a person is so dependant on another person to make them happy, they should get a real life, .........or at least a self fullfilling hobby like .....underwater waterpainting | |
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Posted: 2/28/2005 4:42:16 AM | Totally and utterly agree with the original post, great thread!!!!  | |
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Posted: 2/28/2005 5:14:43 AM | | I am unhappy because women are always putting me down for feeling sorry for myself. Aren't there any good women out there who understand a man's heartfelt complaint of pain and suffering anymore? Has the world grown cold and uncaring? I work hard, do my best to provide as accurate and emotive a depiction of my misery as any man can, yet it goes unappreciated. "Get over it!", is all I get for my trouble. I wish there was a woman out there for me who knew the value of a man who is able to be in touch with feelings, to so skillfully magnify every flaw and doubt into evidence of unsuitability for love. But all they seem to want is some insensitive clod who sees the good in every situation! It is so unfair! I am doomed to live and die alone misunderstood and unwanted, my sad song going unheard in the wilderness of passion, alas. Woe, I say, woe is me. But does anyone care? No! | |
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Posted: 2/28/2005 5:30:24 AM | But, but, but dancin,
If it weren't for whiney, needy, self pittying individuals with such low self esteem some people would never get laid.............................. and of course perpetuate the problem. | |
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Posted: 2/28/2005 6:16:07 AM | If you are whining about a broken heart or are looking for a "good woman who understands a mans heartfelt complaint of pain and suffering" it is clear that you are not ready to persuit a new realationship as you are still hung on you're last one! and all its negitivity! Ya need to get over it!! To a person that is ready and has no hang ups on past experiance doesn't want to re-live them they are ready to move on and have likely gotten over it! As you should! People that are confident in themselves look for confident partners and are not interested in cry babys and insecure people.
So get over it and when you are finished drowning in your own self pitty and have your stuff together,, hey guess what You will not be looking for a woman or a man to have pitty on you nor are you going to look for one that is unstable. Why?? You know it's not going to work,, at this time you will be the one saying "get over it" So if you are looking for someone to care about your hurt it should be your friends, siblings, hey even your mama (mama's boy) but NEVER someone you don't know and or someone you are interested in. So does anyone care?sure they do but NOT here, as the saying goes looking for love in all the wrong places, and this is the wrong place !!!!!
So stop, think about it, and get over it !! | |
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