| Are women ALL INSANE nowadays????
Posted: 7/6/2006 7:01:54 PM | | Yeah...I'm a single woman with a daughter. I'm looking for someone in my life not hers. WTF?? Does this look familiar?? Did women all get together & decide to just become insane together?? I am a 33 year old man in Pittsburgh. I am open to dating a woman with children. Well, preferrably 1 child. Women have become completely oblivious to the fact that if a woman & I become serious, then her daughter is OBVIOUSLY going to be a part of my life, whether she likes it or not. See, I was with a real useless broad a couple years ago. She really screwed me. I was head over heels in love with her. I would have done anything, including die for her. She was my life. She had an issue with her kids & me disciplining them. She didn't want me to have ANYTHING to do with that. Which for the most part I was COMPLETELY fine with, except for the fact that her youngest son was, to put it mildly......SATAN'S SEED! This kid was only 6 years old & was unmanageable, uncontrollable, & too far gone. He was already a lost cause at 6, that's how bad he was. So, my girlfriend moved in with me ( & her kids too obviously ) & this kid (let's call him Lucifer to protect the names of the not-so-innocent) would draw on my walls with permanent marker, break things of mine, & anything else evil & destructive you could think of. All of which would happen while I was at work, & she would be right there in the next room either watching him do it OR not making him STOP doing it. So, needless to say, when I came home, I was PISSED! When I would raise my voice in anger to Lucifer, she would yell at ME, "Don't you talk like that to him!" Well, she ended up screwing my best friend on my couch & we broke up anyway, so no biggie. ANYWAY....sorry for my ranting here....I just see it alot on a womans ad. I understand that a woman might not be looking for a father for her kids, but she has to be more realistic, with a man being INVOLVED. Maybe having an opinion, & having a right to voice that opinion. | |
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| Are women ALL INSANE nowadays????
Posted: 7/6/2006 7:06:28 PM | NOT ALL WOMEN ARE INSANE,,,,,THERE ISALOT MEN OUT THERE ARE INSANE TOO, IT WORKS BOTH WAYS, THERE IS MEN OUT THERE THAT DO NOT WANT WOMEN WITH KIDS, AND THERE ARE WOMEN OUT THERE THAT DO NOT WANT GUYS WITH KIDS TOO SO.. IT JUST DEPENDS I GUESS WHO YA ARE.... SO... MUAH DIANNA | |
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| Are women ALL INSANE nowadays????
Posted: 7/6/2006 7:48:49 PM | I think the profiles you are reading...the women are trying to say that they don't want the child to get attached to you until there is something serious. (therefore being in the woman's life & not the child's -initially) I don't think there is anything INSANE about that. I think it's good sense.
I refuse to meet guy's children until we are serious. I think if too many people come into a child's life at an early age...it confuses them.
I'm sorry your ex took things to the extreme, but not all women are like that & you shouldn't generalize based on your experience with one. | |
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ruth26
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| Are women ALL INSANE nowadays????
Posted: 7/8/2006 8:46:15 AM | No women aren't all insane. There is an equal amount of men who are insane too. I have a child and I don't mind men who show love to him to correcting him as long as they don't get violent. Most child pschologist will tell you that it's best to have the real parent correct the child so as not to place undo dislike and hate onto the step-parent. Both parties should discuss the situation and agree on what should be done. I would never let my child disrespect another adult. I would definitely correct him for that. It's hard finding a mate when you have a child because there has to be an acceptance of two people not just one. Sad to say, it sounds like the woman you loved had absolutely no true motherly instincts or love for her child or she would never let them draw on your wall. That is just so wrong and that child should have been disciplined for doing that or made to clean it up. I wouldn't tolerate that either and don't blame you for feeling that way. But, I also agree with the first lady who responded that men in there 50's and 60's seem to want younger women. Grow up men, what do you think they want you for? They are gold diggers and looking to take you over. Why can't you be happy with women your own age. We're more experienced and also learned enough in life that we have more patience and share some of the same interests that you have at this age. I know that sometimes you (men in general) suffer from the syndrome of getting old and want to stay useful. All you need to do is fix your eyes on Jesus and see what you can do to help others in life. You will have lots of satisfaction and fulfillment in life.
I love all ages of men but would not want to marry someone who is that much younger than me. I could still have a friendship with them and respect them.. Ruth | |
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| Are women ALL INSANE nowadays????
Posted: 7/10/2006 8:53:55 PM | | Well.... The other day my grandmother said "They don't build women like they did in MY generation." She's right. 'Nuff said? | |
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| Are women ALL INSANE nowadays????
Posted: 7/13/2006 8:46:38 PM | yeah....I just don't get all these dingy broads nowadays. I use broads to describe my affection. It's a term of endearment.   | |
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| Are women ALL INSANE nowadays????
Posted: 7/13/2006 8:49:44 PM |
maybe thinking the 6 yr old was a lost cause or calling her a broad
I'm lost.....not really understanding your sentance fragment | |
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| Are women ALL INSANE nowadays????
Posted: 6/30/2007 9:58:11 PM | | I too was also madly in love with a lovely lady for 7 years. When I first met her she had 3 kids, boy 4, girl 7, boy 10, they all didn't have any table manners at all. The youngest ate like a baby, food all over the table in front of him and all over his face. All three of them would make more chewing noise than pen full of pigs. They would also leave any door they opened, open when they walked away from it, including the fridge. They would also take knives, forks, spoons, and pots and pans out in the back yard to play with in the dirt or sand box, and then they would leave them when they were done. I questioned why they were allowed to do this, got a shrug of the shoulders. I tried to change this by trying to show them what good table manners were. That didn't work, so I corrected them when they did something wrong, that went over real good, not. I tried to be subtle about correcting them because I didn't want to step on their parents chance to correct them. The love of my life told me when she was still with her husband they never spanked or yelled at their kids because they felt that wasn't the right way to discipline them. Oh! and I forgot to mention, the oldest one had ADD, yeah right, ADD what a joke. Yep he was on all the drugs. Actually his only problem was parents that gave him his own way when he put on the yelling and throwing stuff performance. Yep, ADD, and he could play video games for 6 hours straight with out a peep from him. Well, now that we haven't been together for about 2 years she tells me the kids hated me because I was hard on them, but, they do have half way decent table manners now. I never raised a hand or my voice to them. When I see the TV show, Honey We're Killing Our Kids, I always think of her kids and how they ruled the house, until I showed up. Now they are in charge again. | |
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| Are women ALL INSANE nowadays????
Posted: 7/2/2007 9:40:25 AM | | Woah...that girl screwed you over, horribly...shame on her! I think the thing is when women have kids, their kids become their number one priortory, and everyone else is secondary to them...women with kids can be dangerous because they need to be supported usually if they don't have a great job, so they'll be willing to pretend to like someone so that he can support them for their kid. Of course not all women with kids are like this, and some of them can support themselves and don't need to pretend to be in love with someone just to get their support. There's alot of strong independent women out there, and those are the ones that aren't crazy...but really what do i know, im 18... | |
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| Are women ALL INSANE nowadays????
Posted: 7/2/2007 10:59:41 AM | Well Nose..seems to me like ur wiser than u think....this coming from a strong (DETERMINED) independent women  | |
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| Are women ALL INSANE nowadays????
Posted: 7/2/2007 11:46:05 AM | | Maybe we are all insane but then again so are the guys. You guys will do just about anything to get into bed with a woman for the first time and then after all that effort you just up and disappear. Or you will buy her affection in the hopes of having a real relationship and then cry and whine about it when things don't go your way. Thank the Lord that I found a good one who doesn't do either - he just cares about me and treats me the way I deserve to be treated. Enough said..... | |
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| Are women ALL INSANE nowadays????
Posted: 7/2/2007 1:35:53 PM | Can you say? Insane in the membrane...
Yes men drive women nuts and vice versa..........I am a prime example of a nutty buddy. I have been driven over the edge, the fall was a short trip. Healed well, I think. You tell me am I healed or still broken from a short trip of a high cliff? | |
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