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 fkucuback

Joined: 7/22/2005
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Posted: 7/7/2006 1:21:57 AM
Does anybody think forums should be eliminated since we are not allowed to excersize our freedom of speech on them anyway?

[This is NOT a democracy. It is a privately owned and operated website that you are allowed to be a member of if you follow the rules. Starting protest threads is a sure way to become a non-member./Dog]

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 FullTimeLuv

Joined: 2/18/2005
Msg: 2
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Posted: 7/7/2006 1:30:31 AM
You know, these are websites for grownups...

Forums are formed for people to comment and discuss issues freely, if they're being heavily regulated and monitored then i see no purpose to them. They should all be eliminated.

Some are always chipping away at our freedoms.

Where is Democracy now?

THanks for posting this subject, much love to all the phishies...

;) rudy

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 Mopegunz

Joined: 5/6/2004
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Posted: 7/7/2006 1:39:29 AM
The Forums are here to Organize the Topics... It is people that post way off topic matters in the wrong forums that get deleted... It has nothing to do with Democracy or freedom of Speech...

You are free to talk about whatever you want to talk about when it relates to the Topic at hand...


Much like this Thread should be over in the Off Topic Forum or even down in POF Suggestions Forum...
 allh2h

Joined: 3/23/2006
Msg: 4
PHK Forums,,... should forums be eliminated?
Posted: 7/7/2006 2:31:20 AM
Mope I thought you said you were going to bed?

***Now that would be off topic, as he was stating...

But i must ask, what does PHK stand for? I am rather puzzled on that so I really cannot answer properly.
 LolaShy

Joined: 5/25/2006
Msg: 5
PHK Forums,,... should forums be eliminated?
Posted: 7/7/2006 3:16:57 AM
When you start your own forum let me know, K?
 Spelly

Joined: 6/6/2006
Msg: 6
PHK Forums,,... should forums be eliminated?
Posted: 7/7/2006 3:22:59 AM
Are you kidding me? The forums rock and give you much more info than profiles do. Free speech is allowed as long as it doesn't slander etc et al..... if you have the opinions that aren't tolerated here then perhaps it's not the place for you....
 memory maker

Joined: 1/12/2006
Msg: 7
PHK Forums,,... should forums be eliminated?
Posted: 7/7/2006 3:50:18 AM
Don't like 'em?
Don't read them!
 JWA

Joined: 5/21/2005
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Posted: 7/7/2006 3:51:07 AM
Just what "freedom of speech" are you NOT being allowed to exercise? There's sex, perversion, profanity, near-nudity, stupidity, Jerry Springeresque psycho-dramas, Dr Phil/Oprah "you go gurl" congratulations---what MORE could you want?

What exactly would you discuss here if there was no censorship? And BTW what does your screen name mean or imply? I can only make a few somewhat nasty words from it but that might be just my own way of seeing things.

By all means PLEASE tell us how you'd improve things here............
 allh2h

Joined: 3/23/2006
Msg: 9
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Posted: 7/7/2006 3:56:53 AM
Always so tactfully put by Jwa...way to go man
 Sara Goldfarb

Joined: 10/4/2005
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Posted: 7/7/2006 5:04:26 AM
complain about the mods too much and you may be eliminated....I'm just sayin...sure it's a free country and all, but we have to play by their rules, this is their playground; so like it or leave it, but your sniveling is not going to change much, and NO, I don't think they should be eliminated.....
 Sassy911

Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 11
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Posted: 7/7/2006 5:45:11 AM
Actually I think the mods have been pretty cool lately...........had my doubts too at first.

No I don't think they should be eliminated........I think this is one of the best sites

There are rules everywhere......you just have to learn to play the game
 DesertMagick

Joined: 1/8/2005
Msg: 12
PHK Forums,,... should forums be eliminated?
Posted: 7/7/2006 5:56:16 AM
Ummmmmm...........it is FREE
 Obsidian_Phantasy

Joined: 6/26/2006
Msg: 13
PHK Forums,,... should forums be eliminated?
Posted: 7/7/2006 6:26:45 AM
Freedom of speech is allowed, as long as its not offensive to anyone and stays relevant to the topic being discussed. If we can't use our own judgement for that, then the mods step in.
 Catwm

Joined: 3/1/2006
Msg: 14
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Posted: 7/7/2006 6:41:55 AM
The forums are great.


I think that if someone is not happy with the free arrangement or feel like thier rights have been violated then they are free to leave the site.
 mdew22

Joined: 11/23/2004
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Posted: 7/7/2006 6:51:57 AM
so lets say that you chat a little in a forum. what does that hurt. nothing.
[Wrong, it is the root cause of most other rule violations]

but they deleate the thread because some one was chating a little. thats just not right. this is supposed to be fun. not ruled by god like people that will ban you at any time they feal like it and for no reason.

[Wrong, search the FAQs]

whats this a bout posting to much on a thread in a days time. thats not right either.

[Wrong, search the FAQs]

i dont post much here any more. i have found a better site. that has free speech. i post there a lot. most peoople that have been banned from here are there now. they love it too. thats jmo.


[buh bye]
 rainskiss

Joined: 3/5/2006
Msg: 16
PHK Forums,,... should forums be eliminated?
Posted: 7/7/2006 7:10:55 AM
I have started many forum topics that was to be deleted as fast as I started them, I did a search nothing on that subject was already in a forum some where. But for some reason mine will get deleted, but 5 minutes later someone else starts a forum on the every same thing. Yes that erks me, there was nothing slanderous or derogatory about the forums I started just curious to see what others inputs was.
I agree with the "if you don't like the topic, don't read it"
just cause you may not like it don't mean you have to go in there and attack someone and cause a bunch of drama.
I agree with free speech, I may not agree with what you say, how you feel, or your beliefs, but I respect the fact you have the right to them, do the same for me.
If you are going to delete a forum I started, at least tell me why
I own 12 groups myself, I have thousands of memebers in them, so I more then know when you have something like this you have to monitor it and you have to eliminate the trouble makers, and there is nothing that I post in here I haven't posted or talked about in one of my groups, or let other members talk about. So yes the forums here are not fair and not handled probably in my opinion...BUT I accept that its the owners right to run this the way they wish to, I choice to stay and accept it cause the friends I have made here both female and male out weight any minor beefs I have with the forums.
 FitnessBunny

Joined: 6/27/2006
Msg: 17
PHK Forums,,... should forums be eliminated?
Posted: 7/7/2006 8:23:30 AM
They are free here and they are great. Sometimes things get delete and you have to go on with life. That is life.

YEAH POF FORUMS!
 FitnessBunny

Joined: 6/27/2006
Msg: 18
PHK Forums,,... should forums be eliminated?
Posted: 7/7/2006 8:36:20 AM
This is a free site. I take what I can get from it.
Freedoms have nothing to do with it.
 danceswithwolves1

Joined: 3/29/2005
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Posted: 7/7/2006 8:43:38 AM
I have been on chat rooms and forums where there are no rules, and the rudeness, name calling, etc., etc., can totally ruin what could be a good thing. I'm not the confrontational type, but I recall being cussed out with great intensity on other sites for some really minor stuff, and having to read horribly prejudiced, hateful stuff that even bordered on threatening violence to others. NO fun!

Therefore, I appreciate the rules that are upheld here, and I think the experience of reading and posting in these forums is top notch!!



YAY FOR THE POF FORUMS!!
 danceswithwolves1

Joined: 3/29/2005
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Posted: 7/7/2006 8:45:28 AM
Now, on that note, has anyone participated in any 12 step programs to help with addiction and dependency to the Forums?


Oops .... double post...
 zentral

Joined: 10/30/2005
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Posted: 7/7/2006 8:51:23 AM
There is arbitrary censorship and arbitrary application of the rules at times (mostly because moderators are human beings and have their own opinions and biases), but this is also a privately-owned site that is made freely available. Overall, we're getting more than we're paying for, so I suggest enjoying it despite the flaws.
 ripley65

Joined: 7/29/2005
Msg: 22
PHK Forums,,... should forums be eliminated?
Posted: 7/7/2006 9:25:09 AM
I too have noticed that the admins have chilled out a bit especially in regards to 'adult' language. I mean c'mon,,,we ARE adults,,,or at least most of us are. We wont faint when someone types a swear word! *gasps* lol

But regarding topic,,,,i think the owner of this site runs a fine ship and in no way shape or form do i think the forums should be eliminated.
 Trishnaa

Joined: 5/31/2006
Msg: 23
PHK Forums,,... should forums be eliminated?
Posted: 7/7/2006 9:46:47 AM
Oh it does not matter. I get suspended every week. But I still love the forums. They are interesting. I'm trying not to break too many rules now.Lol. I hope I don't get suspended anymore.




~*Flavia*~


POF Rocks though!!!
 stoneside

Joined: 9/3/2004
Msg: 24
PHK Forums,,... should forums be eliminated?
Posted: 7/7/2006 10:02:12 AM
Just think if they got rid of the forums you wouldn't have had a place to complain about them. lol
Yeah, the Mods tend to be a little, hummm, errrrr, well you know. Doesn't mean you though the baby out with the bathwater.

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 nipoleon

Joined: 12/27/2005
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Posted: 7/7/2006 10:24:11 AM
Well, what was it you wanted to say that they won't let you say ?
It's OK you can tell me.
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