| Just wondering a Question For Woman Posted: 2/28/2005 3:38:18 PM | Just about everyday I walk the lonely streets of Hawaii. I have been home now for about a month after being away for some 16 years, yea I know a long time to be away from family & friends but sometimes you gotta do what ya gotta do!. Anyway I've lost contact with all of the people I went to school with (all 3 of them) as well as everyone who ever beat me up, (that’s the good thing) Anyway my question is, I see beautiful woman everyday all shapes and sizes and they are all beautiful everyone one of them! I want to talk to them, you know say hi or something intelligent, but I don’t know what to say and trust me I always say the wrong thing! I don’t know why I just do. So ladies please, help a guy out what do you prefer a man (who in some circles could be a lost cause, but you don’t know that yet, that’s what dating is for). What for the love of god is it that we should Say! Because you look at me I see you looking, but you won’t say anything so help me out what should I say.
I appreciate any help. And yea I know you’re probably saying my god this guy is 40 yrs old and still needs help approaching woman. Yea, I obviously still can’t get this relationship thing right I am on here aren't I! And also I am 40 something that’s 26 in man years.
Thanks for the help, And guy's don't say anything stupid you’re in the same boat Or you wouldn’t be here either.
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| Just wondering a Question For Woman Posted: 2/28/2005 3:50:21 PM | I can't help,
I am 40 something that’s 26 in man years But that's just fukkin funny!
You know what? That's EXACTLY the kinda shyt you gotta say! | |
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| Just wondering a Question For Woman Posted: 2/28/2005 3:55:48 PM | lol that is funny..keep being funny and it will attract women to you..
its one of the first things I notice in a guy when he starts a talkin...
sounds lame, but I am a lamo..just be yourself, you seem like a decent
guy...being shy is ok...as long as you look the women in the eyes and not
the boobies hehe..sorry I am noo help..
good luck...me dog says hi too..he likes you he says | |
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| Just wondering a Question For Woman Posted: 2/28/2005 4:13:05 PM | | Aloha! Ahoy there, let me throw you a rope! First of all, you look like you have a really great smile, keep using it. It lets people know you are open and friendly. The way I look at it, is that using a website like this is just another way to meet people, people who also, want to meet other people. Availability is key. Meeting people in public, happens everyday but, you don't always know if they are available or not. It seems like you are interested in making friends in general. That puts you in a good position. If you have hobbies or interests pursue them, that is a good way to find like-minded people. You mentioned God, you might want to go to church, etc. I am not going to stay your situation is easy. Whatever you do don't isolate yourself. Become an opportunist, in that you look for possible openings with neighbors and family, etc. Before you know it you will be getting some nice invitations and widening your horizons. Take care! | |
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| Just wondering a Question For Woman Posted: 2/28/2005 4:32:07 PM | | Hi, Candlelighter, that was pretty insightful stuff, I will try some of the advice you gave me and post a follow-up. | |
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| Just wondering a Question For Woman Posted: 2/28/2005 4:59:44 PM | Hawaii..........I'm freakin jealous as I'm sitting here waiting for another freakin snow storm.
Ok, listen up! My best friend has lost his hair, he's overweight, and average looking, but lands all kinds of really nice looking women. The girl he's dating now is 'hot'. I alway's say to him, "how the f*ck do you do it?" He always answers the same way. "Self confidence and humour, if the say no, don't take it personal and move on." | |
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| Just wondering a Question For Woman Posted: 2/28/2005 5:17:48 PM | | WOW, you are Beautiful, I am sure there will be a ray of sunshine where evr you walk, should be easy to spot. (How was that!!!!!) | |
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| Just wondering a Question For Woman Posted: 2/28/2005 7:37:17 PM | hmmmm nice smile, sense of humor, sweet talker...........keep doin what you are doin and i would say your single days are numbered! happy fishin! | |
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