| | do men want LT relationships with Bi-women?Page 1 of 9 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9) | | I'm just wondering if men look at bi-women as Long Term relationship potentials, or if they view them as more of a sexual conquest? My bi friend seems to meet men who only want her for potential threesomes... im just wondering if its her bad luck or what mens views are on this. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 4:55:14 AM | | She's obviously meeting the wrong dudes. My experience lately is that every other woman is flat-out bi or bi-curious (read: there's a serious bi chic going on!). I appreciate honesty, but maybe she shouldn't be telling the guys she's bi, especially since pretty much every straight guy has the fantasy of being with two girls at once. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 5:50:45 AM | I am going to paint you a black and white picture of my opinion on this. If I meet a woman who is bi and things become serious between us where she/we both want to become 100% commited to one another in a long term relationship......
then there's no longer an issue of whether or not she is bi or not. If she is going to be in a relationship with me she is NOT going to cheat on me with another man OR another woman. Just because she is bi that does not give her 'carte-blanche' or exemption from cheating on her man with another woman and then claim that wasn't considered cheating.
Know what I mean? Going off to lick some woman's carpet would still fall under the definition of cheating. I know that if the woman I was seeing/with did that me.... it would be an eye for eye situation and I would go out licking some carpet too. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 6:43:21 AM | | well ti whould;t worrie me one bit so what she bi too me i know she be coming home too me i whould care if she go have sex with a girl i care if she had sex with a guy | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 8:52:03 AM | ^^^someone pass that man a dictionary!
I am a bi. girl in a LTR. It doesn't seem to bother my boyfriend but he's set boundaries and as stated above cheating is cheating...even if it's with another woman. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 9:14:59 AM | Sure they do.
As long as the boundries are set, there is communication...well whats the big deal?
I think people get hung up on it. They think...wow! If she is bi then she could cheat with the men and women. If your insecure about something like that, well you probably should'nt be in a LT relationship. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 9:28:44 AM | | he need a thesaurus too, girl! but i am bi and was married for 7 yrs without touching a woman! so its possible,.and if a man cannot deal with it, and believe that you can still be faithful to him, then screw him! | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 10:51:14 AM | Yes, always.
But, bi women have an increased chance of being extra crazy. And therefore will do something stupid, or not understand the meaning of "loyalty".
I like women, they like women. There, now we have a shared interest. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 10:57:41 AM | | I have a friend in California who has a beautiful wife (who is bi). They have 3 children and they have been married for a while now. She does share her girlfriends with her husband and they do have 3-somes etc.. It often doesn't work out, but it seems to work for them.. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 11:05:44 AM | | You could be more right bikebowman. I was in a LTR and we set our boundaries and stuck to them. It all depends on the couple. Some guys are secure with it, others can't handle it. I think it's better to be up front about it. If they don't know, it freaks them out when they catch you in thier porno stash. The key to any LTR, is not to have sex(including 3somes or him watching) until you get to know the person. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 11:46:41 AM | | Er, I've been in relationships with 2 bi-girls and honestly - they were very open about the fact that they saw other women as attractive and that they liked to sleep with them. It just made me constantly wonder if I was everything they wanted. It didn't help when they would ogle at the guys and the girls...suddenly everyone is potential competition. I've gotta admit, I'll think carefully about having a relationship with another girl who claims she's bi. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 12:41:28 PM | Lots of girls dont even realise they are bi until they are in a LTR with a guy lol
In my opinion it is possible to be totally honest and open with a long term partner and enjoy sexual activity that is not exclusive. It is a matter of boundaries and real commitment, emotional fidelity and trust. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 12:56:10 PM | My ex-wife, who I spent ten years of my life with, was bisexual. I'll admit that the things she did has me thinking that I don't want to be with a bisexual woman again, but I know that I won't let that alone be a determining factor.
The most important things are trust and loyalty. With communication, those things shouldn't be a problem. Granted, I'll likely be skeptical about any extracirricular activities, but just like anything else, it takes time to find out whether or not your partner can be trusted or not.
I was involved in everything my ex did. That was what we communicated. It was always a mutual agreement. I know that won't change. I couldn't imagine doing something with someone other than my partner unless they were there, so I expect the same in return.
I guess the bottom line is, who knows what my perfect match will be. If she's bisexual, then she'll understand my opinions and honor my wishes where that's concerned.
It's a tricky situation to balance in a relationship that is traditionally supposed to be monogomous, but it can be done amongst respectable individuals. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 2:43:22 PM | | I thik I may only be happy if I was with a bi woman. No its not because I think I will get to be at the bottom of pile of hot women all the time. In fact it would be fine with me if we never had a threesome (but admmitiedly I wouldn't say no and I would love to watch my significant other be with another woman). I simply have a strong attraction to the idea of a woman who likes to be with other woman and feel like I might drive a straight woman crazy with my neverending fantasies of her being with another woman. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 3:31:28 PM | It doesn't seem to bother my boyfriend but he's set boundaries
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well it must have bothered him or there'd be no boundaries now would there??
and to the OP's question. no i would'nt get involved. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 3:52:24 PM | | Maybe I am ignorant on the subject of "bi-", but in my opinion, you're straight or gay, bi to me seems that still trying to see what fits better, again it maybe igonorance on my part. But to answer the OP question, I wouldn't want a LT with a bi gal, the woman I want to be with has to be 100% sure of her sexuality for me, she has to like my junk and my body. I actually ended a casual date for this reason, she never admitted of being a "bi", but, she wasn't sure of what she wanted, so I parted in a friendly way. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 3:56:44 PM | | being bi doesn't mean u are promiscuous ...I am bi and am faithful yes u tend to get more offers from men looking for 3sumxs but that's men thinking with their od boi than their head or heart lol xjx | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 4:00:29 PM | From Pablo..."Know what I mean? Going off to lick some woman's carpet would still fall under the definition of cheating. I know that if the woman I was seeing/with did that me.... it would be an eye for eye situation and I would go out licking some carpet too."
Not that I disagree with you on what you have said about the entire cheating part...though I do think if it was an eye for eye thing...you would have to go out and suck some dyck...lol. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 4:14:43 PM | ^^^^LOL at pyeinburnaby's post
to answer the post. I was in a relationship with a bi girl for 4 years . The downfall was her being jealous of other women wanting me at times, instead of her. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 6:14:17 PM | | i'm bi as well and in a LT relationship with a female. and yes, she freaks about it. but i was married for 10 years and it wasnt an issue. i think regardless of your sexual preferances if you're gonna cheat, you'll do it. but i do kinda see the other persons point of view, rather than just having to worry about one gender or the other, they have to worry about both. trust is what its all about, if you dont have that the relationship wont last anyhow. | |
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