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Posted: 7/11/2006 6:15:47 PM | | Do they bother you? If a woman had a lot of them (and you can't get rid of them) does that gross you out? | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 6:28:13 PM | Hell no.
Why would it matter?
What's important is who she is.
If she's a wonderful woman (as you seem to be) then there is beauty to be found in everything about her. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 6:39:47 PM | I thought they made ointment/medicine that removed stretchmarks. Am I wrong?
But then I fail to understand why guys would have anything against it.
~*Flavia*~ | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 6:57:47 PM | I've never seen them on any girl I have dated in the past...
and I sure hope I never do.
short answer, yeah, its kinda gross to me.
realistic answer...
its really only a matter of time I think before some girl I date will have them.
so no point in getting too obsessed with it. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 7:00:36 PM | They have a nice texture, if my fingertips remember right. They look cool. Don't worry about them at all.  | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 7:31:38 PM | | Stretch marks are normal and not gross. And guys get them too. I went through high school weighing around 155-160 and 6 foot tall. The older I got the more weight and muscle I put on. "more weight than muscle i have to admit" And now I weigh 190 lbs. I have some slight stretch marks on my thighs and ahemmmm my love handles:) At first I thought Jeez what the hell but then some of my weight lifting buddies said they had them from gaining so much mass and when they showed me theirs it made me feel better. But hey no body is perfect and neither is my speling......so chin up kid and wait...did someone say they made OINTMENTS!!! WHERE!!HOWMUCH!! Just kidding | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 7:31:58 PM | | all I'll say is that if guys truly thought they were gross then pretty much every woman that has had a child would be divroced and single....do you think Brad Pitt will leave Angelina now that she has them and a scar from having Shiloh? Be proud of them...its what makes you ....YOU!! (sorry if any of that sounded sarcastic...not my intentions :) ) | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 7:57:13 PM | Yes i have a problem with strech marks, you women worry to much about them, thats my problem. My ex had big time stretch marks, i guess when a 4'7" tiny lady get pregenet she's going to have stretch marks, they never bugged me a bit but she was so insecure about them, and in 6 years of living together and dating and 7 years of marrage I couldn't convince her that they didn't bug me.
So come on it might bug a few guys but f'em it wouldn't bug me a bit. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 8:00:17 PM | Not a big deal at all.
I have them too. 20 pounds in 1 month....I looked at my thighs and wondered what the hell. They faded though. Stupid welbutrin.
I had a girlfriend who had stretch marks on her boobs. She hated it. I actually loved it. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 9:02:28 PM | | I dated a woman for 3 years who was told by her ex that she'd never get anyone because of her stretch marks. The guy was a complete idiot, however, she internalized this fear. Honestly, I've seen women with stretch marks and it did bother me. With her it was completely different. I was deeply in love with her and loved to see her naked, stretch marks or not. It was about what I felt inside of me and not about what was on the outside of her. Sadly, the abuse that she endured in her marriage created a situation that I just couldn't accept. Every time I got 1 wall down I'd find 20 more up there and eventually it ended the relationship. But the bottom line is that if you love someone for who they are inside it makes them beautiful regardless of any physical imperfections. | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 9:12:49 PM | | I have alot of stratch marks because giving birth to my 2 kids it just reminds me the results of them if my 2 kids who I love so much :) | |
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Posted: 7/11/2006 9:17:50 PM | | Yeah, things like that never bother me - I have huge scars from operations that will always be there. I see past things like that and hope that other people will too. Most do. The only ones who dont arent worth your time. | |
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