| Falling in love on the third date.
Posted: 7/13/2006 9:06:43 PM | I don’t know if there is something wrong with me but I met this girl here on POF last year and I fell in love with her on the third date, not because she was good looking, believe me she was not good looking at all and I was not attracted to her looks and I told her that and made it clear to her, so what was it that made me fall in love with this girl so quick? Some people told me it was because I haven’t had a relationship in a long time or an insecurity issue. I look back today and look at her picture and feel so stupied and embaressed at myself for having feelings for her, we had nothing in common. Can anyone explain what the hell was wrong with me and did that ever happen to you?
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| Falling in love on the third date.
Posted: 7/13/2006 9:13:19 PM | I fell in love that way but I don’t know how many days it took but I know it was quick, but she was a babe, this girl was supper good looking and sexy, but I did not like her inner self but fell in love with her looks I guess, but I did not care, to me it was an honor to fall in love with her, but unfortunately she was not in love with me.  | |
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| Falling in love on the third date.
Posted: 7/15/2006 11:41:05 AM | | I just want to know, you fell in love with her, but thought she was ugly. And that is why you feel stupid and embarassed? because she was not pretty?......... if thats the case, you are stupid, and should be embarassed, but not because of how she looks, but because, if you fell in love with her, their must be a reason, you must of fell in love with her inner self. And by you saying all that, you are atupid.......sorry.......dont mean to be a ****.....but..... | |
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| Falling in love on the third date.
Posted: 7/16/2006 10:07:30 PM | | Well thank you very much miss_thang, you don’t have to be sorry for saying that I was stupid, because that was the case for sure, I was stupid, maybe that’s it, I fell in love with her inner self, don’t think so? lol? I think falling in love for me was because I was alone for a long time, 20 years is a long time, and love plays tricks on you, It takes time for it to wash away, but ounce it washes away we realize how stupid we are, I met someone here and see how the eyes of a woman look like when they look at you with love, every divorced person here tells me the same thing, that’s why it’s so hard to find someone here, most of them have experience and won’t just settle for just anyone, I think we are dealing with many broken hearts and untrusting people here, so welcome to the world of dating. To me it’s an experience to learn here, and the more I learn the better I get at this game, I learned that if you play this game with honesty, you will never hate yourself. | |
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| Falling in love on the third date.
Posted: 7/19/2006 5:59:47 AM | Well I understand the falling in love part....even if you were not attracted to her looks....
I can tell you for a fact that I have met some really good looking people in my life, but the more that I got to know them, the less good looking they became....and vice versa...I have met some average looking people like myself....but the more you got to know them, the more beautiful they became, because they were really beautiful on the inside...
I think it's the world we live in, the way things are put out there, on tv, video, etc....you're supposed to be one of the "beautiful" people to have a happy life.
Well here is one average looking person who chooses to not believe that stereotype..
There is someone out there....and if they can't look past the "average' and see the inner beauty...that's there loss...
As to why you fell in love on the 3rd date.....maybe you were just looking to be in love....and it didn't matter by who...the part that I don't get is that you did it with someone that you didn't even have anything in common with....I can understand developing feelings for someone even if you don't think you're attracted to their looks, but you need things in common....
And btw, you can be loved....you don't have to be in love to be loved.... | |
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| Falling in love on the third date.
Posted: 7/19/2006 8:07:37 AM | | Thank you Angel_1959, It is true what you said, I guess after being alone for 20 years, no matter who would come in my life I would fall in love with, no mater how she looked like or even if we had nothing in common, I compromised my innersole to be accepted no matter how bad she treated me. Now that’s it’s over with and don’t see or feel her in my mind anymore, I will never regret that it happened, because it made me realize how much I’m worth, it took away the insecurity in me and made me stronger, I never realized till now how much I am worth. Don’t get me wrong, I am still looking to be loved, but this time I will not settle for what I can get, this time I will settle only for what I am attracted to, I need the whole package now. You can’t buy the lesson I have just learned, I guess you can only pick yourself up when you hit bottom in your life. | |
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| Falling in love on the third date.
Posted: 7/19/2006 8:51:18 AM | Unfortunately we have to go through trials and tribulations to find the end result....
it's not the end but the journey....and look at what you have learned along the way | |
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| Falling in love on the third date.
Posted: 7/20/2006 9:47:35 AM | Hey scatterbrain, don’t mind any comments from Damien, he’s actually a she, that has no life what so ever, it’s okay to hide your identity if your commenting with a positive attitude, but negative attitude people that hide there identity to make stupid comments have a sad life themselves.
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| Falling in love on the third date.
Posted: 7/20/2006 9:51:31 AM | | No problem Olympia, I don’t let it bother me, I have my picture here, I show myself, Do I look look worried on my pic? | |
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