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 casino5222

Joined: 5/2/2006
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Posted: 7/13/2006 10:55:01 PM
I am sure this has been here before, but if someone wants to meet you and they are oversea, surely you would want to see a photo before you make any travel plans. Girls is this the wrong way of thinking???. Or is it rude of me to ask her for a photo??
 singleguy64

Joined: 5/27/2006
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Posted: 7/13/2006 10:58:22 PM
You'd at least need a photo, so you could recognize her at the airport, right?

I don't think its unreasonable to ask. Especially if its *you* travelling to meet them, you're probably forking out a bit of money for it, I don't think its unreasonable to at least see the person you are going to meet.
 jade_1900

Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 3
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Posted: 7/13/2006 10:59:19 PM
lmao...you need a photo and a webcam....are you insane...no hon...unpack your bag till you know what she at least looks like....everyone has a nice phone voice...unless you REALLY dont care what she looks like...think about it
 Joy.

Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 4
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Posted: 7/13/2006 11:09:20 PM
Are you kidding?? Rude to ask for a photo before you travel overseas to meet someone??

I wouldn't meet someone who lives down the street without at least seeing a photo first much less travel any distance to meet them.

I'm constantly amazed at the level of intelligence around here....
 Mopegunz

Joined: 5/6/2004
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Posted: 7/13/2006 11:11:04 PM
You have talked to her on the phone too right???
 underpaidwaitress

Joined: 4/13/2006
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Posted: 7/13/2006 11:17:19 PM
Just ask for the photo. If she says she doesn't have a pic, send her a web cam. They're like 30 bucks. Way cheaper then a plane ticket.
 Scarletttt

Joined: 7/11/2006
Msg: 7
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Posted: 7/13/2006 11:19:03 PM
Rude? Hahahaha....rude would be not supplying 1!!

Get a photo..get a web cam...and do what comes naturally if you need to (was that my inside voice?)

Oops!

 casino5222

Joined: 5/2/2006
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Posted: 7/13/2006 11:28:39 PM
Thanks everyone thats what I thought I have asked for a photo many times and still haven;'t got one, I have not got a plane ticket just wondering why she has not sent the photo. And Joy that last comment of yours, if men could work out womens minds the worlds divorce rate would be a lot lower ( no offence to any females intended here) Just the comment which I thought was a bit mean.
 puppylove

Joined: 9/7/2005
Msg: 9
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Posted: 7/13/2006 11:36:56 PM
Wowsers!! I'd be wanting a number of photos, face and full, and an assurance they are recent ones. The web cam is also a great way to get verification of who you are talking with, too many people have told me they have met people in real life and the pics online were 10 yrs old or not even of them. To me it would be pure craziness to meet someone overseas or local and not know what they look like ahead of time.
 truetruetrue

Joined: 7/11/2006
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Posted: 7/13/2006 11:46:28 PM
Webcam at an absolute minimum!!! errrrrr well I'm not sure what you can do beyond that with the exception of actually meeting LOL Ever heard of Photoshop? Photos don't cut it anymore......
 alaska2004

Joined: 1/16/2006
Msg: 11
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Posted: 7/13/2006 11:55:26 PM
Just a word of advice but if your overseas penpal will not send a photo and advoids any questions about it, who you are writing is not who they are pretending to be I would guess! I hope you have not sent money?
 Adam Taylor

Joined: 5/11/2006
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Posted: 7/14/2006 12:03:14 PM
I saw Mai's pics before meeting her.
But, honestly, I didn't need to.
I knew she was wonderful... I didn't really need comfirmation of her beauty in order to feel safe meeting her.
 Trishnaa

Joined: 5/31/2006
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Posted: 7/14/2006 12:07:12 PM
Is she Russian/Asian/Nigerian?????

READ THE NEWS DAMNIT!


~*Flavia*~
 smiles258

Joined: 10/25/2005
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Posted: 7/14/2006 2:18:47 PM
I usually won't even chat with someone who isn't willing to at least email me a pic. (It doesn't have to be in the profile, but they should be willing to offer to email me one before I even have to ask.) If not, it makes me wonder what they are trying to hide.


I wouldn't meet someone who lives down the street without at least seeing a photo first much less travel any distance to meet them.

I'm constantly amazed at the level of intelligence around here....


You got that straight, joy.!
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