| Need your advice...
Posted: 3/2/2005 8:34:21 PM | I was seeing this guy for about 8 months. He left for Europe for 1 month and told me that he would call when he got back but he never did. Although, I know I should forget him and just move on..i can't seem to get him off my mind and I am thinking about giving him a call...
Here's my question to you...should i swallow my pride and call him or just forget him? | |
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Posted: 3/2/2005 8:50:16 PM | | were you in contact with him while he was overseas. If yes many times then give him a shout. If not then better move on. It would be obvious he used the trip to break free. Better still if he's back then it's his resposibility to get in contact with you........It's to bad he doesn't have the cahonies to tell his feelings to you............. | |
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Posted: 3/2/2005 9:27:22 PM | thanks for your advice...here's the thing...i think he did try getting in touch with me..my sister told me some guy tried calling for me (at my place in Montreal) ...he wouldn't give his name....my sis gave him my email...but he never emailed ....
i think he lost my number in TO and had only my Montreal number..... | |
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Posted: 3/2/2005 9:55:29 PM | You both should be mature enough to hand a phone call. You will know when you speak to him which direction he's going. Keep it light. Ask to go for coffee. If he gives you a ton of reasons why he can't say ok latter and bye bye. Lots of great guys on pof to choose from.
My case I have a scheduale that sucks. | |
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Posted: 3/3/2005 6:21:51 PM | | Sorry to b the one to tell you this.....But you have been cut loose.You went out with him for 8 months and you think he lost your phone # T O. Now stop being nieve. Your # would be in his head and heart. He talks to your sister but doesn't say who he is??? I think your sister talked to maybe another secret admirer that didn't want to reveal themselves to anyone but yourself. Then theres the e-mail thing????????? move on girl and let's party. | |
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Posted: 3/3/2005 6:34:58 PM | | You are right..and life will go on. | |
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Posted: 3/4/2005 6:24:16 AM | | Call him what you have to loose. its the digital age. He might have had your number in his cell phone and lost the phone. I put numbers in mine and just speed dial. Ive lost more cell phones that anyone else in Canada. I even have one buried in a concrete wall of a large dam we built a couple years ago. I don't even want to think about all the wallets Ive lost with phone numbers in them. So call him. He might just be looking for you. | |
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Posted: 3/6/2005 6:18:16 AM | | did you call him? | |
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Posted: 3/6/2005 11:43:48 AM | | No not yet but I will keep you posted! | |
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Rencen
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Joined: 1/14/2005
Msg: 11 | |
| did he call
Posted: 3/6/2005 1:08:24 PM | | Don't call. Simply put, he did not do what he said he would do - call you. Unless you live on mars, he could have located you easily. Look for someone who will take the time and make the effort to make you feel wanted. | |
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Posted: 3/6/2005 9:41:12 PM | | Grab the bull by the horns and call,,,He might think your a hell of a girl for going to the effort to track him down. If he ment so much to you and still does. You might save a good friendship and the least. And Woooooooo Hooooooooo for you if its more. | |
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Enig
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Joined: 12/18/2004
Msg: 13 | |
| did he call
Posted: 3/16/2005 4:01:14 PM | Yes I agree with calling...I give a person the benefit of the doubt, because you never know what coulda came up. I've had people from the past call, someone just today as a matter of fact dropped in, and I've called old ppl from the past also. It's hard to forget great people even if it's just to chat, it's nice to rehash old times. I'd call even tho rejection is a hard pill to swallow....your no worse off then now right and I myself couldn't live with the "what if" possibility for the rest of my life. Sometimes we just assume too much. Good luck and keep us posted  and if not...Keycee's right there's "plenty of more fish out there"  | |
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Posted: 3/17/2005 10:43:34 AM | I think you should call him, I know from past experience that it’s easy to lose a number especially if it was stored in a cell phone. I was dating this girl this last summer and her number was in my cell phone, my cell phone died and I had to get a new one, guess what I lost her number and never talked to her again, at first I thought that she would call me and if she did I never got it I had to wait for a couple of days for the activation to go through. YA NEVER KNOW ! And if for some stupid reason he brushes you off, hey there are lot’s to choose from on POF.
Cheer’s and good luck !!!! | |
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| Need your advice...
Posted: 3/18/2005 3:23:30 PM | | Call him. He may just not know how to get a hold of you. It happens. A male friend of mine went away to school in Australia for a year. Tried to get a hold of me for 6 months as he had lost my number. Fortunately for us, we accidentally ran into each other and interesting part was - it was online in a site. Strange but true! | |
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Posted: 3/23/2005 5:45:43 AM | | Well if you call and he rejeacts you, at least you will get that closerer you are looking for. If he did lose your # at least you could start over. Eather way you look at it you will have that closer you need. | |
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north9
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Joined: 2/19/2005
Msg: 18 | |
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Posted: 4/5/2005 1:43:33 PM | Kevienboater , I think you misunderstood something. The individual did call in Montreal. It is likly he lost the number or something else. However to get back to the point, let us not conclude is at the end of the relationship. She should try to get hold of him and find out what is going on.
Then decide from his words and action if you have to cut loose the relationship.
Do not rush to conclusion.
Good luck
I am terrible with number. I can only remember # in the form of geometrical figures, or alphabetically figures. | |
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Posted: 4/23/2005 4:26:39 PM | | So tell me...what happens if you invite a really nice guy to your place a couple of times, and by the second encounter you think to yourself that you just might like this guy more than you originally thought, yet it is next to impossible to reach him by phone...Do you wait patiently for this person to call you back after several attempts to contact him?...or do you keep fishing? | |
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guyrob
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Joined: 12/11/2004
Msg: 20 | |
| did he call
Posted: 4/23/2005 5:34:43 PM | | As the famous book says hon, "He's just not that into you". Kick the f*ckers to the curb and move on, move on, u can do it! | |
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Posted: 4/23/2005 5:46:17 PM | | Call once, get a feeling of the situation and talk to him about it if hes man enough or send him away with shame and guilt for not being able to act his age and say 'im not interested anymore'. Gosh, why is it hard to tell the truth? I admit its awkward but thats a whole lot of unnecessary stress to go through to avoid someone. Why bother?! | |
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ticky
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Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 22 | |
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Posted: 4/27/2005 8:42:17 AM | | shortypants sounds to me that you need close the chapter on this situation.. call it cant hurt and it will give you the resolve your needing to forget or move on... | |
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Enig
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Joined: 12/18/2004
Msg: 23 | |
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Posted: 4/27/2005 12:38:40 PM | | @ Browneyedgirlxoxo How long has it been? If you've been trying for awhile and different methods and still no response I'd keep fishing. GL and all the best. | |
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| Need your advice...
Posted: 4/29/2005 1:44:56 AM | | Well theres nothing worse in life than not trying, unless of course you can live with never knowing for sure! i would call for my own peace of mind, you never know he could of had tonsell litous. bad comparason but i think youll get the point. and maybe just maybe fire works will fly in paris again. | |
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