| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 7/17/2006 2:12:48 PM | | My girl friends and I have this big debate going on about what date is sex okay on. Is there some timeline that should be followed? | |
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| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 7/17/2006 2:21:24 PM | Why are you trying to pinpoint a specific date to have sex on? I mean, unless you have someone to HAVE sex with, know them well enough to even consider sex a possibility and lastly even have the desire to have sex with them, who cares what date it happens to be? Unless, of course, you're trying to defend an action already taken? In that case, no amount of explanation is going to satisfy everyone.
You and your partner are the only ones who will know IF it's right and WHEN it's right. Might be the first date, might be the tenth date, might not be ever! But to quantify such an intimate thing as having sex with someone to a specific date... is frankly juvenile.
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| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 7/17/2006 2:23:22 PM | my friends and I have the 4 date rule.
and when we mean 4 dates we mean like going out, other then either or's apt/house whatever. | |
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Mayor
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Joined: 1/2/2006
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| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 7/17/2006 2:31:22 PM | we had this discussion in the ask girls forum
Whatever you and your girl decide on is what is appropriate.
if you can't talk to eachother about sex, then you shouldn't be going on a date.
Thats how i feel.
If it ends up being earlier then what you discussed. make sure you ask her before you do it.
She might respect you for it, even if its a buzzkill. | |
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| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 7/17/2006 2:34:39 PM | | How many times do we have to have a thread on this topic? Is there some magic number? | |
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| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 7/17/2006 2:39:16 PM | My guess it's been a topic more than once but I wasn't searching through hundreds of files to find it. If having a repeted topic is soooooooo horrible; DON'T COMMENT ON IT. Just a thought.  | |
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| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 7/17/2006 2:40:05 PM | | Never, ever put a timeline on anything so important - it's an individual choice, when the time is right you will know it - never pressure yourself because of some stupid timeline rule. Make sure it is something you really want to do and that you are in love or at least, care for the person you are intending on being intimate with. Don't ever set limits or guidelines on love, especially if it's a group (pressure) decision. | |
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| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 7/17/2006 2:46:46 PM | First and third times are okay... but the second is usually spent talking and finding out about each other... The fourth is usually best to go "out" someplace... because by then you'll have been seeing each other at least a month..
Fifth through tenth are okay... After that it really doesn't make any difference... except it's better to do it alot... | |
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| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 7/17/2006 2:52:32 PM | I think it is pretty foolish to put a "timeline" on any-thing when you are dating.
When it feels right it should happen, not before, or after. | |
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arri
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Joined: 10/5/2005
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| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 7/17/2006 2:54:50 PM | The issue is getting over the hump .. no pun intended.
That depends .. if he is just hot and you need a booty, anytime is good. But if you are looking for something meaningful, then anytime is good for that too 
Basically, If it feels right and the opportunity is there .. go for it | |
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| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 7/17/2006 3:57:51 PM | | I say you just meet and see what pops up. No need to plan anything. | |
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arri
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Joined: 10/5/2005
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| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 7/17/2006 4:15:42 PM | | Of course special occasions or ANY days that end with the letter "Y" are the best dates to have sex on. | |
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allh2h
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Joined: 3/23/2006
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allh2h
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Joined: 3/23/2006
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| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 7/17/2006 4:18:04 PM | I agree with Dutchman on that  
Edit....sorry my puter.......... | |
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| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 7/17/2006 9:00:55 PM |
My girl friends and I have this big debate going on about what date is sex okay on. Is there some timeline that should be followed?
Timeline? Are you looking for twelve easy steps to having sex? How to find the key that unlocks the next stage in the progress?
I find sex is okay on Tuesdays, but for really great sex go with Monday Afternoon. | |
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| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 7/18/2006 12:08:04 AM | i'm sure the answers are in some glossy womens' magazine
here's some more important questions:
how many stupid threads should one read before losing it?!
how many POF forum people does it take to change a lightbulb?
how long is a piece of string?
and
how many years before people realise they can make their OWN decisions ??
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| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 7/18/2006 12:46:52 AM | This question has been asked over and over again...
Do a Thread Search...
Sex isn't ruled by a Science of how many dates... It's when you and your partner feel comfortable with it... | |
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| What date is sex okay?
Posted: 10/21/2006 7:09:15 PM | | Why do people keep asking this question? It is very easy too answer. Have sex when ever the **** you want to!!! On the second date, 10th date, or 5 min. into the date if thats what the two people want to do. Is the reason people date in the first place not to get to know each other, see if there is a connection, have fun? If sex is a how you want to spend your date, then good for you. Sex is okay as soon as the 2 people agree on it. Regardless of time frame. | |
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