| How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 7/19/2006 5:15:24 PM | I came out onto plenty of fish hoping that the people on here would have a more positive attitude... and open minded attitude (everyone says they are) but you send them a message and you get nothing back.... I really do not think that there are open minded men out there.  | |
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| How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 7/19/2006 5:32:23 PM | Theres some words and statements that get used so much they have no meaning at all anymore.
1- Open minded. this really means they have their opinions and if you share them then you are open minded as well.
2- nice guy. ready to vomit yet? I think they mean "Im a pushover, abuse me so I can whine later on about how nice guys get abused"
3- Average body type- everyone from a scrawny stick-girl who think she needs to puke a few more times to be slim.. all the way up to the fat girl that break chairs when she sits... both types are prone to call themselves average. There is no average.
4- Like to laugh/have fun. Show me someone who dosnt.
But take heart, theres no open minded women out there either.
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| How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 7/19/2006 5:36:30 PM | hmmm my real name is ken and I also get over looked [oh well]
OP you need more and better pics try that first! the one you have posted is way to blurry to see and also include some pics of you doing different activites etc. it will help!
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| How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 7/19/2006 5:41:16 PM | CountryJo, you are choosing the wrong men. Keep fishing! 
You are just getting the same response that most guys get. I'm lucky to get one response out of 20. If you are doing better than that, STOP COMPLAINING. | |
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| How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 7/19/2006 5:47:40 PM | | countrygirljo - come on now, do you really want the kind of guy who goes for these Barbie types??? consider yourself lucky if you never hear back from these guys...there are those out there who fall far from the norm...maybe you need to reconsider what types of people you're sending your messages to? | |
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| How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 7/19/2006 6:03:24 PM | In all fairness the men that do not seek "barbies" get overlooked as well, I rarely get replies back to meaningful thought out messages that I sent, these are messages that are several paragraphs in length reflecting what I have seen in their profiles that interest me.
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| How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 7/19/2006 6:10:09 PM | | I know I have to get better pictures but it not just the picture thing... it also has to with the fact that men I guess should put in their profile what they are actually looking for so then you know before sending them a message. | |
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| How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 7/19/2006 6:16:07 PM | I think I would be rather off put by the over 6ft thing your looking, for I guess i wouldn't "waste" your time on a chat as I'm only 5'6" [you think you have problems!!!..]
I'm not a good catch! I'm too wittle | |
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| How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 7/19/2006 6:25:39 PM | | In all fairness I also said that was negotiable. But if someone 5ft 8in sent me a message I would not just ignore them because they are not six feet tall. That is what I am trying to say is that Men need to add that information on their profiles. | |
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| How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 7/19/2006 6:31:01 PM |
How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Sorry that it is not what you had hoped for. It is so cruel. That is the main event, 'being liked or not liked for who you are and what you look like'. | |
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| How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 7/19/2006 6:41:08 PM | ken can be over looked i am good looking average build , not muscular but can lift a short block into the back of my pick up with a bit of a grunt.all women dont need to be barbies , to be atractive to a man ,I my self are drawn to odd things big eyes big teeth lots of hair and there is the fact of life all people change shape in life do to stress, or what have you if a women or a man but all there eye catching things of another human together we might have are selfs a pet like a big foot or two....i my self have taken the time to meet and talk to all women and i have met some and some call me at home all the time we have built up a friendship with out even a hand shake... kind of funny you saying that SOME men are very limited in what they mean and what you want women are quite the same so many of then want to meet you and are never there when the two people come to a arange ment to meet , it kind of like a relation ship just as paying for dinner i believe should be a 50 50 deal you could get married to that guy or gal and life is like that..
hey me just like the next guy love to pay and surprise women. BUT not on hear your wallet can be drained quite quickly.60 bucks a night some fellows cant keep up so i dont blame a guy or a gal that were born with no patients, to sum up in a few words if your a good catch or not, hey even me on a bad day can say very little and never hear from that women again , the wrong move or the right one you think could mean the death of you on here. so too all of you beyour selfs and you will meet some one that fits your bill sort of speek..... Mr. Raymond | |
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| How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 7/19/2006 6:45:19 PM | | just a thought.....if you took out all of the "must not be looking for" criteria in your profile you might get some more responses. your profile says youre looking for someone with an open mind but it seems like you have a closed one. my observation | |
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| How come if you are not A BARBIE you are overlooked....
Posted: 7/19/2006 6:54:50 PM | | Well, I am not even close to a Barbie......I also have yet to be "overlooked". When I first joined I couldn't keep up with the messages I got. I have never had a problem finding wonderful, very attractive men. I honestly think it is based on perception of warmth and a terrific personality. I would warm up the profile and I think things will change. | |
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