| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 7/24/2006 8:20:36 PM | So ladies... who has read this book? What did you think?
Guys... how do you feel/think about it? | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 7/24/2006 8:22:39 PM | Uh? I must admit, I take offense to the title alone, but I'll reserve judgement until someone explains what this book is about...Or maybe I'll just go do some research.
Hope it's not about what I think it is. :-\
Edit: It's a guide for WOMEN?! Hmm. Um...Hmm. So is this the same notion that women like "bad boys"? | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 7/24/2006 8:24:57 PM | I never read the book. Did'nt need to I suppose
I was married to a b*tch.
I'm no longer married to a b*tch.
I guess I don't fit in with the authors thesis cause this is one man who does'nt love b*tches
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Posted: 7/24/2006 8:25:36 PM | B.I.T.C.H. Babe In Total Control Of Herself... Great book....about being in control of your life and yourself. The name gives it a negative connotation. I loved it!
It's not about being nasty, hateful or controlling...it's about taking care of and valueing yourself. It's got a humorous edge to it...an easy read! | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 7/24/2006 8:27:06 PM | im a man and i dont like biitches... i havent even meet a chick that was a biitch in a long time.
maybe they keep their distance from the get go, im glad i dont attract them.
or maybe they can't be a biitch around me, because im such an as$. | |
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Posted: 7/24/2006 8:31:50 PM | "B.I.T.C.H. Babe In Total Control Of Herself... Great book....about being in control of your life and yourself. The name gives it a negative connotation. I loved it! It's not about being nasty, hateful or controlling...it's about taking care of and valueing yourself"
I can see where the title can be misleading.
Theres a b*tch and then theres a B*TCH
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 7/24/2006 8:32:56 PM | Apparently there's also a "Why Men Marry ****es".
“An anti-whining manifesto that encourages women who feel like doormats to develop a sense of independence.”
If that's what this whole bi*** thing's about, then great! Read away, women! | |
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Posted: 7/24/2006 8:33:06 PM | Why Men love ****es?
****es give a man a challenge and usually a **** knows what she wants and knows how to go after it. | |
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Posted: 7/24/2006 8:37:24 PM | | I read it. Happened to find it used, and the title caught my eye. Some valuable stuff for women, but some stuff that will ruin a relationship in my opinion. It's really quite funny, because a lot of the advice is EXACTLY the same as for similar Men's advice books. So if both men and women took the advice of these books, there would be a stale mate! | |
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Posted: 7/24/2006 8:45:05 PM | I read it last year...
was a "GREAT BOOK"
its about how a woman can protect herself emotionally....
and pretty funny too. | |
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Posted: 7/24/2006 9:06:10 PM | So thats why I woke up one morning with a rattlesnake at the end of the bed.
It was that time of the month.
But after the flying steak knives and the Bud Can full of Liquid-Plumr, the rattler looked like a p*ssy cat. | |
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Posted: 7/24/2006 9:09:29 PM | Apparently... people dont know what this book is about
:)
gee, too bad...
Its one of the best books about self care I have ever read.
It teaches women how to respect themselves. | |
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Posted: 7/24/2006 9:25:42 PM | I'm sure I'll catch some flak for it cause I'm not a woman and maybe I just don't know or maybe i'm just talking out of my a$$ , but it seems to me that if a person needs to read a book to learn how to respect themselves, then they'll really never know how.
Seems to me that a person whether it be a man or women can learn more about respecting themselves simply by learning the lessons and the ways of hard knock school then by reading a book.
But then again, I could be wrong! | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 7/24/2006 9:28:31 PM | msg 14
your wrong
get the book and you will see why its a great book
and what they have to say about the HOW TO part
:)
its the best part...
lol
dipping sauces....... LOL
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Posted: 7/24/2006 9:34:10 PM | Perhaps some wouldn't have to go through the school of hard knocks if they read a book here and there. Hmm... books taught me how to give the best damned massages in the world and have a woman go tantric! School of hard knocks taught me that Virgos and Aries are bad matches. Had I read about it beforehand, perhaps I might have circumvented 10 years of a less-than-stellar relationship.
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Posted: 7/24/2006 9:37:07 PM | Kinda silly if You ask Me...
A real true B!tch does not have to resort to a self help book to become a B!tch
some are just plain good at it.
I think this book would serve no useful purpose to a man because believe Me I don't need some book to spot one.... | |
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Posted: 7/24/2006 9:37:29 PM | | My neighbor woman is a b.i.t.c.h. has 3-4 kids running around all day. yelling at them all of the time. welfare. some guys like it. i guess that is what it takes. | |
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Posted: 7/24/2006 9:45:21 PM | I think you are missing the point. Reading a book to lean to give a massage or rebuild a transmission for a 69 Camaro is a bit different then reading a book to learn how to respect yourself.
At least thats my opinion.
Some things cannot be learned from a book.
They simply have to be experienced and lived through for better or worse. | |
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Posted: 7/24/2006 9:55:04 PM | | LMFAO.... oh that is too funny, but sooo true on my part..BUT i am in control of my life and know what i want, but i do treat my man well, but its like i really am a sweet girl, and i cant seem to find an honest man and the more guys i talk to on here, the more of a **** i might seem like... but everyone usually likes me in person, guessi have a bit of a vibe goin on | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 7/24/2006 10:11:39 PM | Just so everyone knows...
in this book... B!tch does not refer to a mean or out of control screaming
person...
it means:
B.abe
i.n
t.otal
c.ontrol of
h.erself
and shows women what to do to convey to a man
she isnt going to lose herself or let him control her... in
many very small ways.
dipping sauces !
LOL
its a very funny book.
It gave me some insight about things.... and I found
it all to be very true. | |
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 7/24/2006 10:17:15 PM | Never seen the book
Men love ****es????
I'm a man, & I don't. | |
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Posted: 7/24/2006 10:43:10 PM | Hey, I love ****'es!!
I was married to my NOW ex wife and she's one! lol
It's appealing for a man (at least this man) to want a woman that is in control of her life, has some goals, knows what she wants, where she's going in life, doesn't take crap from people (especially men) is DIRECT, straight forward, honest, doesn't play games (goes after what she wants) meaning (she sees someone/thing and goes for it and takes a chance) unlike so many that play the shy, waiting game or I don't know what I want, or I'm looking/waiting for the "perfect man for me game" etc. etc. etc.
****'es go after what they want (in all aspects of life)
they see a piece of "eye candy" (at least in their eye/s) and they "go for it" - confront/engage him, send an email, initiate contact, suggest a date, and move quick knowing time is of the essence, and if she likes what she not only sees, but also finds some chemistry, and she feels he's a decent guy, she makes a move (or accepts his advances), and secures the deal without any further need/desire to waste time looking for anyone else. She makes it CLEARLY known that she's interested, and wants a relationship, and doesn't waste any time making it known OR moving the relationship along rgt from the start.
She also operates this way in other aspects of her life. She's not a time waster, game player, a maybe we could, or let's wait till we talk 50 million times before we meet for the 1st time (if ever) type. And she takes "chances" to get what she wants in life because she's not afraid to. She also understands "life is TOO short" to waste time waiting for "Mr. rgt", knows there's NO such thing as a perfect man, picks one that is close to her standard/match, and loves being in a relationship for ALL the benefits it offers/provides. She also understands that IF a relationship doesn't work out for whatever reason/s, it's not the end of the world, pain only hurts for a minute, she doesn't cry for months (or even yrs) over spilled milk like some of these women I' see on here, and understands that you move on to find someone new to have/start another relationship with & see if it will be the one that last forever. She also respects herself, treats people with respect, is loyal in each relationship, and doesn't tolerate BS from anyone (sets limits/boundries) or care what anyone thinks in re: to how she IS.
Too many on these dating sites don't operate this way though (hence) game players, time wasters, waiting for Mr. perfect for me to come along, not open & accepting, too afraid, untrusting, bitter from the evil ex's sins, unwilling to take a chance, he's not everything I'm looking for according to my list, I don't know, maybe, etc. etc. etc. types.
Once a woman (if ever) begins to operate on these principles, now you're talking about an intelligent, honest, straight forward, direct, knows what she wants and knows how to get it type woman, and to ME, there's nothing more sexy or nothing more of a turn on than that (well, mix in a bit of class, style, and sex appeal and now you're talkin)!
Straight forward & tell it like it IS!
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| Why Men Love Bitches
Posted: 7/24/2006 11:29:04 PM | | that other comment was about greeneyezz' post......lol | |
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