online dating service

Free Dating Site    

REGISTER | MAIL/PROFILE | HELP | NOW ONLINE | SEARCH | RATING | FORUMS | SUCCESS STORIES
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest 100% free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
     
Show ALL Forums  > Nevada  > Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful m      Mod Threads Home login  
Page 1 of 2 1, 2
 Author Thread: Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful men?
 zvegas

Joined: 7/9/2005
Msg: 1
Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful men?
Posted: 7/25/2006 6:31:24 PM
From my experience, many girls are intimidated or afraid to be with a man that matches the person they dream about being with.

Any women that would like to comment on this?


Z.
 Broom_Hilda

Joined: 6/27/2006
Msg: 2
Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful men?
Posted: 7/25/2006 6:40:23 PM
I'm not intimidated.I just haven't met any good enough for me yet.
 Reinboux

Joined: 6/30/2006
Msg: 3
view profile
History
Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful men?
Posted: 8/1/2006 11:38:48 PM
Wow. What a powerful observation.

It couldn't possibly be that the majority of the men who believe that they are good looking, confident, and successful are also so full of themselves that they aren't aware of how to fulfill the woman's needs? Maybe she is so tired of hearing about how 'wonderful' he is that she finally ups and leaves. Looks, confidence, and success don't mean jack pooky-doo if there isn't a real man behind all of that who knows how to be down-to-earth, caring, and compassionate.

The fact that you call us 'girls' says something to me.
 Neysha61

Joined: 7/31/2006
Msg: 4
view profile
History
Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful men?
Posted: 8/16/2006 12:57:49 PM
Not a great subject. Really not a subject at all. Affirmation in the he has all the right things going on to be a "jerk" direction me thinks. And a lonely one at that. Sheesh.
 Kxthy

Joined: 5/2/2006
Msg: 5
Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful men?
Posted: 8/17/2006 4:16:44 AM
Bring him to me..........
 ~softEDGE~

Joined: 6/12/2005
Msg: 6
view profile
History
Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful men?
Posted: 8/19/2006 12:45:49 AM
perhaps because 'girls" are construed as silly, not confidant and self assured, while true women are usually a bit more serious, confidant and assertive? and OP posts this query for what reason, exactly, please?
 Born~Sly

Joined: 8/4/2006
Msg: 7
view profile
History
Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful men?
Posted: 8/22/2006 11:15:59 AM

Posted By: zvegas on 7/25/2006 624 PM
Subject: Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful men?
Message: From my experience, many girls are intimidated or afraid to be with a man that matches the person they dream about being with.

Any women that would like to comment on this?


Z.



Ummmmm, maybe you should try dating WOMEN instead of girls.

And just maybe you ain't all you think you are.... to them anyway.
Maybe you think they (girls) are turned off by what you have praised yourself about but just maybe they were turned off by your conceited arrogance like I am.

Sly
 Tigermoth

Joined: 9/10/2006
Msg: 8
Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful men?
Posted: 11/1/2006 5:26:21 AM
sounds like you've set the bar too high there for 'girls' what about the real ladies out there who have more than just looks but also substance it may be these ones you are either over looking or because of the 'bunny' euphoria just aiming for one type

some look fantasic in plastic
but they still melt in the sun just the same
 Armando132

Joined: 8/25/2006
Msg: 9
view profile
History
I LOVE YOU ARMANDO
Posted: 11/1/2006 2:54:39 PM
tigermoth, Don't know what to tell you for the original topic but, I like your sunglasses.
 Tigermoth

Joined: 9/10/2006
Msg: 10
I LOVE YOU ARMANDO
Posted: 11/5/2006 11:19:42 AM
they're wraparounds lol
 NickG29

Joined: 12/24/2005
Msg: 11
Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful men?
Posted: 11/11/2006 2:24:48 PM
I believe there are many threads about the reverse situation as well...so what does that say? this question culd also be a sign of someone who THINKS he is good looking, confident and succesful, but women see thru him...or he's just very shy and those three attributes alone get him jack.
 ddesertflower49

Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 12
view profile
History
Why are girls intimidated by good looks, condiments and successful men.
Posted: 1/14/2007 1:00:25 AM
I don’t think that it is that we are intimidated by looks, condiments, and success We just don’t care. We are tired of men bragging about what they have. We are looking for a equal, and when you brag about what you have to a women that don’t have the same she is going to walk away because your not treating her like an equals. Besides most women looking for a long term relationship are looking for a man with a heart and souls. Not a fancy home a fast car or a million dolor income. Good looks, confident and successful is not love and you can't buy love at no price, it just don’t happen that way.
 Reck Less Abandon

Joined: 2/4/2006
Msg: 13
Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful men?
Posted: 3/15/2007 5:02:33 PM
Can I get a ride out of this place in your lear jet Sr.
 mystymorn

Joined: 2/12/2007
Msg: 14
Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful men?
Posted: 3/16/2007 11:39:40 AM
ermmm, was gonna comment to you "abandon", but from what I have seen from your posts, I think that you think you are way above all of us, so my comment would go in one ear and out the other....good luck in your endeavors, ya right hahahahaha..thank god im more down to earth
 sugarbandit

Joined: 11/10/2006
Msg: 15
Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful men?
Posted: 4/2/2007 7:56:57 PM
most of them are scammers...
 Neysha61

Joined: 7/31/2006
Msg: 16
view profile
History
Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful men?
Posted: 4/10/2007 6:27:46 AM
I perused his profile once again ....sigh. Glimmers of a good person are there .... just over the horizon ....surely they are not mirages. Those are quite common in the desert.
Perhaps someday he will grow into his money, instead of it just giving him an over inflated ego.
 ameriproud

Joined: 3/13/2007
Msg: 17
Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful men?
Posted: 4/15/2007 9:34:42 PM
I don't really think it is intimidation that a woman may feel unless she is insecure with herself. Some are a bit shyer than others same as with a man. Some women may feel they are not worthy of being with someone too good looking. Some may fear getting with a good looking guy is one way trip to doomsville. Some think that good looking guys are the ones that do the most cheating. There are many many reasons for this, but don't feel it is all rolled up into a woman being intimidated. There has to be an underlying reason. I feel if you take the time to know somebody, male or female, good looking or not, and go by the person and not just what they look like, it could be different. Maybe a guy looks a certain way or gives off a certain vibe that could make a woman kinda stand off. May not be the woman at all who is intimidated.
 Rick R

Joined: 1/29/2007
Msg: 18
view profile
History
Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful men?
Posted: 4/28/2007 5:50:57 PM
I too find this to be a problem. My obvious charm, good looks and intelligence scares off most women. I especially have a difficult time with my super model girlfriend who constantly is telling me that she is just not good enough. Of course I agree but would not want to crush delicate self esteem. I know I am not alone here. Just the other day I was having lunch in a Rome café with a friend who was expressing the same dilemma. If anyone is interested I am thinking about forming a support group. I’m sure I can get my county club to sponsor the event.
 lioness777

Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 19
view profile
History
Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful men?
Posted: 5/2/2007 10:26:49 AM
Hmmmm, bring on the really intimidating, good looking, successful, stud muffins and just let me have a coupla minutes, and we'll see who's eating out of my hands!!!!
 WALLSTGENIUS

Joined: 4/29/2007
Msg: 20
Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful men?
Posted: 5/6/2007 8:11:55 PM
This is a great thread! Notice not even one single good lookin babe showed up to comment? lol...it's always the...well, nevermind. You know where I'm going. The OP hit the nail on the head! Nice work man...


Ricky
 ~softEDGE~

Joined: 6/12/2005
Msg: 21
view profile
History
Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful men?
Posted: 5/6/2007 8:33:42 PM
ironically, the above from someone with NO picture...
must be not too intelligent, or too much
any gender can vilify 'cause likely people without pictures aren't good looking, confident OR successful...NOT.
to assume isn't always such the smartest thing now, is it?
 WALLSTGENIUS

Joined: 4/29/2007
Msg: 22
Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful men?
Posted: 5/7/2007 12:23:48 PM
"ironically, the above from someone with NO picture...
must be not too intelligent, or too much
any gender can vilify 'cause likely people without pictures aren't good looking, confident OR successful...NOT.
to assume isn't always such the smartest thing now, is it?"
____________________

Oops...I should have been more clear...I didn't mean "babes" from 1983! Or women that grew up in Vegas strip clubs like clubs like...."The Can-Can room", or..."Little Darlings" and then got the boot! Sorry "softedge", I'll be a little more clearer next time....lol


Ricky
 ~softEDGE~

Joined: 6/12/2005
Msg: 23
view profile
History
Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful men?
Posted: 5/7/2007 6:16:36 PM
amazing how some people generalize and are quick to show weak attempts to slam, eh?
perhaps the "genius" will be a learn to become a little more clear rather than "more clearer" is what i think he meant to type; being a genius and all...
 WALLSTGENIUS

Joined: 4/29/2007
Msg: 24
Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful men?
Posted: 5/7/2007 6:26:16 PM
"amazing how some people generalize and are quick to show weak attempts to slam, eh?
perhaps the "genius" will be a learn to become a little more clear rather than "more clearer" is what i think he meant to type; being a genius and all..."
__________________

ROFLMAO!!! omigod, you'll notice my little former stripper....that I already said "more clear" in the first line of my post, but after summarizing you, I desided to write "more clearer" so even YOU would understand what I ORIGINALLY said! Didn't you see the "lol?" That means...laughing out loud. As in..."a joke?"

Can someone get this woman a popsicle for gawd sake?.....


Ricky
 ~softEDGE~

Joined: 6/12/2005
Msg: 25
view profile
History
Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful men?
Posted: 5/7/2007 6:59:44 PM
i daresay i am not yours, nor anyone's stripper, former OR otherwise.
but yes, i will admit to smiling right this very moment.
so very pleased to know my post caused you to profess the same, and heartily so.
Page 1 of 2 1, 2
 
Show ALL Forums  > Nevada  > Why are girls intimidated by good looking, confident and successful men?