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 sniper 2007
Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 1
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We'll I know this revelation is usually hard to talk about these days.lol
We'll I think that some guys are still virgins in their mid 20"s because they are usually shy around women and they hung out more with the guys than the girls during their high school years just generaly speaking here. And some girls say sometimes that virgins are unexperienced at sex.lol that is not always the case. Cause some guys read about it, they also watch shows on tv about sex for ex: Sex Files or Sexual Secrets. So guys still know what sex is and they still know what to do in bed.lol.

It's just the fact that I'm stating here is shy guys have a more hard time communicating with women than guys with full confidence. So girls give us your input on this topic ok.
 EternallySingle
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 2
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 7/31/2006 11:27:24 AM
They think we are pathetic and wont give us dates :(
 miss_alone
Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 3
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 7/31/2006 11:27:55 AM
virgin boys are sooooooooo much fun
a little on the inexperienced side, but its usually worth it.

Are u one of these shy guys?
 907daydreamer
Joined: 7/17/2006
Msg: 4
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 7/31/2006 11:35:19 AM
Personally, I prefer a man to lead and that is what makes me steer away from a guy in his 20s that is still a virgin. I do, however, have a very good male friend that was a virgin until he was 25. Not for religious reasons, he just hadn't met the right girl yet. I'm happy to report that he has been in a loving relationship for over a year now and they have a healthy sex life.
I don't think it is pathetic as eternallysingle stated, it's just a little too much pressure. My best advise is to not make a big issue of it in the beginning. Get to know a girl you like before well before you mention it. We won't let it define you if you don't.
 EternallySingle
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 5
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 7/31/2006 11:41:55 AM
ok 907daydreamer lets get to know each other, I will lead you well, I have seen lots of porn movies ;)
 EternallySingle
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 6
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 7/31/2006 11:42:24 AM
yes miss_alone I am one of them :(
 miss_alone
Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 7
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 7/31/2006 11:43:54 AM
dont worry
even i was once a virgin
 EternallySingle
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 8
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 7/31/2006 11:49:43 AM

dont worry
even i was once a virgin


Poor thing :(

And lucky jerk. It pisses me off that women always go for the wrong guy.
 miss_alone
Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 9
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 7/31/2006 12:01:13 PM
i was in high school when i first had sex
i was going through adolescence
 EternallySingle
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 10
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 7/31/2006 12:03:38 PM
So, what is your point?
 cheekychica
Joined: 11/12/2005
Msg: 11
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 7/31/2006 12:10:52 PM
I would never be with a virgin.
why?
cause I think they deserve someone better for that experience. I think that they deserve someone that will put as much of themselves into the experience as they do.
jmo.
 TaintedxLove
Joined: 4/10/2006
Msg: 12
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 7/31/2006 5:24:07 PM
I would prefer a virgin guy. I'm one myself and lately I've been thinking about how I'm always jealous thinking about my boyfriends and who they've had sex with and if they're thinking about it. I don't want to think, if we eventually do have sex, about if he's done this exact thing with someone else.
 Mr. Ivan
Joined: 3/13/2006
Msg: 13
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 7/31/2006 6:36:44 PM
Everyone was once a virgin.

 1LadyTrucker
Joined: 5/1/2006
Msg: 14
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 7/31/2006 6:40:46 PM
I think its cute LOL, the frustration of wanting it and the fear of getting it. My ex was a virgin, and I like to think that I taught him alot of what I liked and how I liked it, eventually he left for another women though LOL
 down2earthchick
Joined: 7/9/2006
Msg: 15
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 7/31/2006 6:47:55 PM

I will lead you well, I have seen lots of porn movies ;)

Ykes!!!....spoken by a true virgin....heehee.

Just a tip hun, porn isn't real sex and if you say your a virgin and then try to use any moves you seen on porn.....you may be in for a bit of an unexpected negative surprise, and could end up really imbarressing yourself or offending her. (remember these people are professionals and most of it is very unrealistic)

It's ok to be a virgin but books and movies will not make you experienced.....practice makes perfect!!!....

Personally if I loved the guy it would not bother me, but he would have to not be shy also because I don't mind teaching someone with an open mind and who isn't awkwardly shy about his sexuality, but if he is it's just far to much work for me at this stage of my life.

Good Luck!!
 Onlylovematters
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 16
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 8/1/2006 6:58:17 AM
I spoke my mind about the matter. Some people will think i'm weird, oh well, i'm just different and i like it this way.
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/3856364datingPostpage5.aspx
 cricket926
Joined: 5/27/2006
Msg: 17
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 8/1/2006 11:07:25 AM
would I date a virgin? I wouldn't exclude a man simply for that fact, but I'll admit it would be a bit of pressure when/if the time came to sexually further the relationship.

my first serious relationship we were both virgins (I was 18, he was 19). we were together 7 years. worked out wonderfully because we learned together and didn't feel the "inexperience" stigma.
 Chevygurl82
Joined: 6/19/2006
Msg: 18
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 8/1/2006 1:45:29 PM
Virgins are way to clingy thats all i have to say hahahaha
 thebigslim
Joined: 9/27/2005
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Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 8/1/2006 9:04:21 PM
ok im aware that this is for women to respond to.... but had to say something regarding the subject.

sniper 2006
We'll I think that some guys are still virgins in their mid 20"s because they are usually shy around women and they hung out more with the guys than the girls during their high school years just generaly speaking here.



It's just the fact that I'm stating here is shy guys have a more hard time communicating with women than guys with full confidence.


i for one am a virgin in my mid 20's, i am far from being shy around women and hung out with women alot more than men in high school. although i will agree that yes, most guys who are in that current state most likely did just those things. in my case..... it is choice. any guy that is shy isnt just having a hard time communicating with women, its everybody. i used to be shy myself, but then just realized that the worst that i can do by talking to people is make an ass out of myself if i say something dumb...... now i have next to no shame lol.

the only question is, can this hurt someone's chances if they are still a virgin hitting near 30 mark? well i just might be screwed (no punn intended)

and to 907daydreamer
My best advise is to not make a big issue of it in the beginning. Get to know a girl you like before well before you mention it. We won't let it define you if you don't.


that was very well said......and i agree 100 percent, a wise woman you just might be!
 jerrod
Joined: 4/12/2006
Msg: 20
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 8/1/2006 10:50:20 PM
I've notiste that mentioning I'm a virgin has mead several woman in reacent e-mails say I don't spell good & they make some other comments, not very good or kind hearted things I mean. - - Should I take it as their not interested in finding love the way I am? I think daydreamer was right about whaiting to mention it for a little while, ( rufe trainslation ). - - I was thinking about putting my picture up, but so fare not a lot of woman seem very caring or in a way interacting with my personalitey. Is it worth putting up a picture if your afraid that woman might like you for your looks but not be caring for why your a virgin, or how you need to be loved first?? - - Also woman recently have bee a little forcefull with me that all men are the same, does my mentioning I'm a vergine in my profile keep thoughs kind of woman away from me, sence I want a woman who I find & build a future with to be like my beast friend & not put all her bad experiances with me or value me to the point of hate at the begining or if it came out after we were together for some time, does that make sence? sence it seems to keep some woman not right for me, or really looking for love from getting to close & herting us bolth as I really don't want that! - - I thought this another good reasone maybe to speak to a woman 4 or 5 times before sending her my photo. - - I hope a few different people would share insight on this & let me know what you think so I can have a little insight befor making my decisone & aproches, thuogh I like to talk freely & not be wond up & lost when I try to get to know someone. - - Thank you for reading this & please share with me, my name is Jerrod
 sniper 2007
Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 21
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 8/3/2006 9:40:42 AM
We'll the only thing I would need is to hang out with a few girls that would help me out to get rid of some of my shyness. So are their girls out there that like to unshy men and boost their confidence a bit? If yes please put some input on here and i'll see ya later.

You know what it looks like the good boy looking for the bad girl.lol
 good_eat
Joined: 7/8/2006
Msg: 22
Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 8/3/2006 11:14:56 AM
"We'll the only thing I would need is to hang out with a few girls that would help me out to get rid of some of my shyness"

Try to get professional help: escorts.

Woman like man dress smartly. I have a few suggestions: get rid of the black thingy under your chin, ditch the muscle shirt, the hawaii shrit, the vest, the baggy long sleeves.
 Bryantinfl
Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 23
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Posted: 8/3/2006 2:09:59 PM
Wouldn't mind training one.
 Billbutler8
Joined: 3/12/2005
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Hey! women what do you think about virgin guys?
Posted: 8/3/2006 4:21:13 PM
^^^ I'm open for offers. Not up for grabs, but open for offers...^^^
 dannick82
Joined: 6/28/2006
Msg: 25
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Posted: 8/3/2006 4:30:32 PM
I am a virgin myself . And at times it can be frustrating.
exspecially when u r single
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