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 crazy_lonely_guy
Joined: 7/7/2006
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just out of curiosity...

there's roughly a 50/50 ratio of guys to girls on earth, yet somehow, all the girls are not available.

so what draws 100x the guys to dating sites as girls?
what do girls in the real world do?
 missy4888
Joined: 5/22/2005
Msg: 2
how many emails do you girls get?
Posted: 8/9/2006 7:23:30 PM
I get about one or two a week...
 enya1234567890
Joined: 7/14/2006
Msg: 3
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Posted: 8/9/2006 7:50:55 PM
i only get one or two a week, too...maybe the guys are all out watching the game. eh, it's possible
 bigbrowneyes38
Joined: 3/3/2006
Msg: 4
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Posted: 8/9/2006 8:05:44 PM
I actually get quite a few...maybe 10 to 15 on a good day and 5 to 6 on a bad one.
 JustTrbl
Joined: 4/11/2006
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Posted: 8/10/2006 3:49:39 PM
Only 2 so far today. 19 on the 9th, and 30 on the 8th.
Must be the ful moon.
What do women in the real world do? You mean besides dance under the full moon and chant for that ONE life changing email?
 crazy_lonely_guy
Joined: 7/7/2006
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Posted: 8/10/2006 8:01:39 PM
so do all you girls just sit back and let the emials pour in, or do you ever initiate conversation?
 missy4888
Joined: 5/22/2005
Msg: 7
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Posted: 8/10/2006 8:10:26 PM
Hummm maybe I should put the picture of me with my boobs back up?
 Cyndee_bythelake
Joined: 4/8/2006
Msg: 8
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Posted: 8/11/2006 5:26:45 AM
Not nearly enough - but their loss, I figure

 crazy_lonely_guy
Joined: 7/7/2006
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how many emails do you girls get?
Posted: 8/11/2006 9:17:23 AM
i'm really trying to find out why guys always chase girls.
 sandw70
Joined: 3/22/2006
Msg: 10
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Posted: 8/11/2006 10:28:00 AM
i think what it really comes down to is basic instincts. in the wild, like with animals on the dicovory channel, during mating, what happens??? the males always try to impress the females and they gotta do all the work to get the female while the females just chill out and enjoy the attention until they decide they found one worth mating with. same thing in our world, you dont see the girls hitting me up telling me what up cutie, you like to party. its nature. girls can just wait around and things will come their way and its up to the men to go after it. its how we are programed. so naturally the girls are the ones that should be bombarded with emails. and the guys just wait for the reply.
 prettypele
Joined: 7/13/2006
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Posted: 8/11/2006 11:30:27 AM
I've tried pursuing men but that never seems to work, so I'm waiting for them to chase me. I usually get 2-3 messages a day but it's often not from someone I would consider. It seems the guys are often too old, too young, too far away or are just not for me and obviously haven't read my profile. I got a message this week from a single dad. It specifically states in my profile that I am not interested in having children. In his profile it specifically stated that he was looking for someone who already had children and "can relate to the meaning of true sacrifice for someone they love". Are you guys reading girls' profiles or do you just go by the pictures?
 Quichebabe
Joined: 3/1/2006
Msg: 12
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Posted: 8/11/2006 3:49:34 PM
I get tons! All the time. Just wish Mr. Right was one of them!
 Vandalay Ind.
Joined: 7/31/2006
Msg: 13
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Posted: 8/11/2006 4:32:51 PM
I got alot. And I'm pretty fed up with the nasty ones, so I adjusted my profile accordingly. :)
 missy4888
Joined: 5/22/2005
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Posted: 8/11/2006 4:37:17 PM
I'm telling you it's all about the boobs....
 cuteldysxy
Joined: 7/18/2006
Msg: 15
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Posted: 8/11/2006 4:59:41 PM
I get an average of 24 a day it's hard to keep up. I've narrowed it down to 1 I really talk to all of the time. Although I do try to respond to all it's hard at times.
 Fishing4ADream
Joined: 1/23/2006
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Posted: 8/11/2006 5:12:54 PM
"I'm telling you it's all about the boobs...."

Well you might be right, at least for the first 5 seconds anyway .

Seriously though, it does not matter whether a woman's cups runeth over or not

 searching666
Joined: 5/29/2006
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Posted: 8/11/2006 6:10:55 PM
I get e-mails, and I usually try to reply to all of them. But it seems that there are guys who send out e-mails but never reply to my replies. wtf?

In real life I don't do much flirting with guys. They aren't nearly as outgoing in real life as they are online.
 mystical
Joined: 9/27/2004
Msg: 18
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Posted: 8/11/2006 6:22:10 PM
from this sight i get 5-6 E-mails a week.Im not really looking for a relationship only for some friends. but i chat with serveral nice man:)
 cateyes2006
Joined: 6/14/2006
Msg: 19
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Posted: 8/11/2006 6:54:18 PM
Well myself I get about 3-5 a week and I e-mail them back but you guy's just wont one thing and if you dont get it then you stop e-mailing!!
 cyn3100
Joined: 8/4/2006
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Posted: 8/12/2006 4:48:52 AM
I'm new to this site and I've gotten a lot of emails. I try to respond to all the emails I get. Sometimes it can't be done, but I try.

I have chosen a few guy to talk to. If none of then work out, I'll move on to another set. That's the best system I've come up with. Its a little confusig sometimes, but it is the best I've got.
 cyn3100
Joined: 8/4/2006
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Posted: 8/12/2006 4:53:13 AM
All of the time. If I think a guy is cool, I say hi.
 khrockproducer
Joined: 7/14/2006
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Posted: 9/5/2006 5:20:42 AM
I get about 6 a day, sometimes 9, sometimes 3, it depends on the profile. I stopped answering a while ago, except for friends with similar work. I tend to get bombarded by Ims when I come here and they pop up like I'm being slammed, and they don't realize I just don't care. They don't read profiles and just want to chat, I don't care - thy don't realize it.

There is nothing attractive about guys pursuing you (except it is a compliment) when you already have an interest in someone in particular.

Then, it's not about -- all those guys. It's about that person. I got an email yesterday from a really nice young guy who contacted me before and is a lifeguard. Very deep person who is 21. He talks aout Edgaar Cayce in his posts, really a deep young man and very good looking among young men. He's got 50 some odd fans among women. Well, instead, I sat here more broken hearted and decided not to invite him into it. I think that was the responsible thing to do really.

Some women don't answer perfectly fine emails because they are merely busy or inundated, and not because they are looking to be rude. It's a bit like TELEMARKETING. The guys need to realize this side of it.....telemarketing. Like when someone calls you at dinner. Do you wanna buy such and such ? You say, No - it's not for me right now. Some of us have run into aggressive sorts, and so we are worry of answering nice mails from good people though we might just turn them away. We don't want to be pulled into a caustic interaction with a guy who won't take no for an answer.
 mrjb
Joined: 12/13/2005
Msg: 23
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Posted: 9/5/2006 8:58:17 AM
i am trying to figure out how come i get winks from girls all the time.... but when i email them back they dont respond. whats up with that???? to the point i am about to just quit.
 zim73
Joined: 7/18/2006
Msg: 24
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Posted: 9/5/2006 11:57:24 AM
mrjb, that's been my experience too.
i was on 9 different dating sites for a year and a half, nice pictures, thoughtful, well written profiles. i emailed 2 girls per week based on what i read in their profiles that made me think we had something in common and were "in my league" so to speak. not once have i ever emailed a girl just b/c of her boobs or how great she looked, i know it's deeper than that. sadly, i took all my profiles down out of frustration, after a year and a half and 800 bucks misspent on subscriptions to true, match, etc. i got not one response, not one date. doesn't matter how nice or respectful you are, only your height and income really matter anymore.
it's so true that a lot of girls get more email than they can respond to, i think it's a reflection of basic sex drive differences. men on avereage think about sex
 Mominatrix
Joined: 7/5/2006
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Posted: 9/5/2006 4:35:44 PM
Some days as many as 20, other days, two or three. It seems to vary by time of the week.
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