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Posted: 3/9/2005 11:46:28 AM | POF has asked that I post a testimonial before I delete my profile, so I will. I'm tired. I'm tired of sending messages to ladies who claim there are no "good" guys left, and then having my message deleted without a response. In doing this, they place me in the "bad" guys column or decide I'm some sort of player before they even talk to me. I'm not a player and I honestly believe in treating women with respect. Given the absense of response at this site, I see no reason to waste any more time. Best of Luck to all in your searches, and just a piece of advice -
In order to meet someone special, you have to at least respond when they try to contact you. | |
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Joined: 11/4/2004
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Posted: 3/10/2005 2:06:35 AM | SO TRUE SO TRUE...
Give people a chance... we not all bad and some of us show once or mybe even twice a day... just respond so that we can have a chat then you can chose to not talk to us... I know that you girls are getting 10 or more mesg a day but... your on here for a reason to just like we are... | |
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Posted: 3/10/2005 10:04:04 PM | | Agreed. Im still not sure why Im bothering with this shite. | |
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Posted: 3/12/2005 8:03:08 PM | I'm not sure what you guys are doing wrong but............I'm not gods gift to ANYone but my MOther........THAT said...........I get read-deleteds and UNread-deleteds and I get READ and no response(guessin they havent decided about me yet) its not personal....I DO it too........I would get some GOOD advice on yer profiles if you're not good with self-expression,and Change you're aproach when you mail woman.........another good tip is to NOT IM them ........EVER.........or atleast before ya mail them ,evEN then it'd be better to wait for them to come to you.... | |
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Posted: 3/13/2005 8:56:40 AM | i see were you blokes are cummin from bout just guessin a ladz a player i do dat sumtimes lol tryin to give that up and give people a chance as long as they aint like 50yrs old hahaha | |
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Posted: 3/13/2005 9:05:19 AM | Just because a woman deletes your response, it doesn't follow that she is arbitrarily putting you in the "bad" guys column. It is entirely possible that she is not making a snap decision about you other than "we wouldn't work" for one reason or another. I've read responses before and thought that, thus no response. For example, seeing someone is a smoker merits no response from me. Would it be better if I told them it wouldn't work? I see that as getting someone's hopes up only to tell them what they don't want to hear, and either way we (women) ultimately end up getting the "she says she wants the good guys but she really doesn't" response. That's not it. We know what we want, just like you know what you want. You don't email EVERYONE you look at, right? There's something about those women you do email that attracted you to them, either by picture or profile. Please don't assume that just because we don't respond it means we think you're not "worthy" or you're a bad guy. That's not it. There's just something that we read that we know wouldn't work.
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Posted: 3/13/2005 9:25:33 AM | someitmes women do that if they dont like ur pic,.and dont know how to say ,yur not my type
or something u said,,its not always that personal but some gals get tons of mail
cheers good luck | |
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Posted: 3/13/2005 9:27:12 AM | | actually i find this one of the better sites for some reason. the men are better and dont play games here. that is my experience | |
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Posted: 3/13/2005 9:32:06 AM | By deleting my mail they ARE telling me I'm not their type....no harm....no foul!
Batter up! | |
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Posted: 3/13/2005 10:07:03 AM | Hey don't give up so soon.
You have to take a lot of rejections. That's what overcoming barriers is all about. Anywayz, that's your choice.
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Posted: 3/13/2005 1:34:35 PM |  Hey people. I think it has a lot to do with your profile what use want and what your looking for! be straight up! I agree with the dont im them if u havent talked to the gurl< | |
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Posted: 4/12/2005 1:27:53 PM | | In response to richard4 I agree with his last paragrah. | |
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Posted: 4/12/2005 1:37:03 PM | I agree totally
i have been keeping track and i have sent more than four hundred emails
and Nothing
they all say they want a good man
they all say oh how amazing you raised for children alone if i meet someone on the street
but no one will go out with me
this site is about talking and teasing and thats it
what a waste
so i am done looking for love
if i can get laid
i will plain and simple | |
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Posted: 4/12/2005 3:13:16 PM | well thats all fine and dandy but you dont think us girls have the same problem just because i choose to look differnt you all think i am just like manson hmmm no i am a very normal person just like the everyday person but you guys do the same thing your complaining about | |
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Posted: 4/12/2005 3:49:25 PM | Why even get upset if you send a girl an E-mail and she deletes it read non-read? You don't know her you haven't met her. You have a 50/50 change if you did meet her she would like you or you would even like her. I consider it one out of the way and move on.
I could care less if a guy deletes my E-mail. Usually they are the new ones and are so excited from all the women he has to choose from. But 9 times out of 10 down the road a month or two when the newness wears off, he ends up E-mailing me anyway. lol  | |
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Posted: 4/12/2005 4:34:43 PM | | NEWNESS.........Im lucky if anyone even writes to me....I dont think my pic is bad and my profile is not bad either.......but its still not working out. | |
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Clo129
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Joined: 3/16/2005
Msg: 17 | |
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Posted: 4/12/2005 4:57:50 PM | You know what I thing you look very pretty I know Im a girl but you know what I dont have problem to say to people how they look great !!! People who judge you I think they dont know what they are missing!! Thats the way that every body must think!!! Even if the person as 100 piercing and tattoos it doesnt mean its a bad person!!! People judge to fast and thats what I dont like !!!
cheers
ps guy dont sing out because girls are not replying one day they will!!
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Posted: 4/14/2005 6:41:53 PM | I know that you girls are getting 10 or more mesg a day but... your on here for a reason to just like we are...
^^^not all girls are lol...i know i dont..but alas i always respond to every email i do get | |
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Posted: 4/14/2005 11:14:24 PM | | I have talked to a lot of girls here on this site, sometimes a girl would not reply but I don't think anything about it. It could be just because she doesn't know what to say or intimidated, or perhaps she doesn't like the picture or something I wrote on my profile. Anyways why would you want a reply from a girl that is not interested in you? you would waste your time and hers trying something that is just not there. I know a simple reply saying: " I am not interested, thanks".. would do it. But that could open a can of worms. You would not want that either. So just live day by day, and take the most of it. If a girl replies be happy, if a girl does not reply to your email don't be dissapointed.. you just saved yourself sometime.. the right one ( other half), the person that will complete you is out there. If this site does not work don't worry she will come to you somehow. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2005 11:02:09 AM | | done with this whole internet dating thing........so this fish is swimming on to the reality pond. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2005 8:57:46 PM | | i"m staying here but I hate it if a guy deletes my message just because he sees my pic I'm not photogenic. I look better in person but mosty guys look for a girl thats beautiful. | |
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b0unc3
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Joined: 2/13/2005
Msg: 22 | |
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Posted: 4/23/2005 1:34:01 PM | whaa..
I can't control people into talking to me. | |
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Posted: 4/23/2005 1:45:59 PM | | Besides, it is a bit more difficult for guys on here. My location for instance has 6 pages of women aged 18-99 within 25 miles, whereas there are 19 pages of guys in the same area, same age classification. I'd say the demand for females far outweighs the supply of women. I may be wrong, but I'd be willing to wager that it's similar in most areas. Given that, the women are probably getting a lot more mail than they care to respond to. Unfortunately, with so many guys, you have to really make yourself standout somehow. If you figure out how, let me know would ya. | |
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Posted: 4/23/2005 1:58:35 PM | | You are right, sometimes just saying "I'm not interested, thanks" doesn't get the message across, because then they reply back and asked "why's that?" and you then get stuck with the obligation to respond to THAT.... I've had emails read and deleted or not read and deleted with no response and just accept it as they weren't interested, and that's what you should do, you can't expect everyone you contact to be interested in you. | |
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Posted: 4/23/2005 2:03:15 PM | | Unfortunately, by just responding "thanks, but I'm not interested" doesn't always end it there, the other person writes back and wants to know why or sends some kind of "well, fine, f*** you then" type of message, when they should just leave it alone and accept the fact that not everyone you contact will be interested in you. I think the fact that someone just deletes your message without replying should be enough to show they are not interested, I've sent messages that were deleted with no response and just wrote it off as them not being interested in me for one reason or another, you can't take it personally, you set yourself up for that kind of thing by putting ads on these sites to begin with. You can't go into it with a lot of expectations. | |
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