online dating service
REGISTER | MAIL/PROFILE | HELP | NOW ONLINE | SEARCH | RATING | FORUMS | SUCCESS STORIES

 

Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest 100% free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
     
Show ALL Forums  > Sex and Dating  > At what point in life did you get confidence about interracting with      Mod Threads Home login  
Page 1 of 4 1, 2, 3, 4
 Author Thread: At what point in life did you get confidence about interracting with the opposite sex?
 anticon

Joined: 2/18/2006
Msg: 1
 Mony_Penny

Joined: 8/23/2005
Msg: 2
At what point in life did you get confidence about interracting with the opposite sex?
Posted: 8/21/2006 9:09:43 AM
I was about fifteen...and I discovered I had boobs...big ones too.
 HummerNuts

Joined: 8/16/2006
Msg: 3
At what point in life did you get confidence about interracting with the opposite sex?
Posted: 8/21/2006 9:10:56 AM
This is funny, cause im 27, a late bloomer, and still shakey when trying to approach someone im attracted to while out and about
 Pandy

Joined: 11/11/2006
Msg: 4
view profile
History
At what point in life did you get confidence about interracting with the opposite sex?
Posted: 8/21/2006 9:13:30 AM
I've never NOT had confidence with the opposite sex. I was raised primarily by my father, and my best friends growing up were my same age uncles. I understand men... it's women I still have trouble interacting with sometimes ;)
 Dime12804

Joined: 9/1/2005
Msg: 5
view profile
History
At what point in life did you get confidence about interracting with the opposite sex?
Posted: 8/21/2006 9:40:52 AM
Only recently. LOL.

Because I don't care if they think I'm a loser or not. I guess it took having the one person that I thought I loved to reject me for me to find myself and be comfortable with that.

Of course, if I had boobs (big ones), I might have gotten that comfortable much sooner as well.
 father_heart

Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 6
At what point in life did you get confidence about interracting with the opposite sex?
Posted: 8/21/2006 9:52:44 AM
as soon as i got comfortable interacting with myself
so ita a day by day basis lol
 EarthWindandFIre

Joined: 7/11/2006
Msg: 7
At what point in life did you get confidence about interracting with the opposite sex?
Posted: 8/21/2006 10:00:10 AM
I believe to some degree there will always be that nervousness when interacting with the opposite sex..We are both human yes, yet our Psychological make up is different, I think the nervousness is an attraction between two people, I have found the more nervous I am at first the more chemistry we have for each other.....
 east_indiana_jones

Joined: 8/17/2006
Msg: 8
At what point in life did you get confidence about interracting with the opposite sex?
Posted: 8/21/2006 10:00:12 AM
For me it was at 14. Being athletic and playing high school sports the females started paying more attention.
 lakelandsm

Joined: 7/25/2004
Msg: 9
At what point in life did you get confidence about interracting with the opposite sex?
Posted: 8/21/2006 12:54:01 PM
Mid 20's ..finally got athletic and the ladies started paying a little attention.
 Sara Goldfarb

Joined: 10/4/2005
Msg: 10
view profile
History
At what point in life did you get confidence about interracting with the opposite sex?
Posted: 8/21/2006 12:57:37 PM
I was about 16; moved outta redneck hicktown, into the city; moved back to redneck hicktown, and everyone thought I was cool, cause I lived in the city and came back; whatever, it worked for me....
 nascar3fan

Joined: 5/31/2006
Msg: 11
At what point in life did you get confidence about interracting with the opposite sex?
Posted: 8/21/2006 1:17:22 PM
When I joined PoF in May. lol. Acually, I was about 30 when I decided to appear more confident. It helped me to approach women.
 ivannaa

Joined: 6/11/2006
Msg: 12
At what point in life did you get confidence about interracting with the opposite sex?
Posted: 8/21/2006 3:11:28 PM
Let's see...... i turn 40 tomorrow and I am still not all that comfortable interacting with men....lol. As far as co-workers go, it's not a poblem but if it's someone I'm interested in...... forget it!!! I get very shy...... and giggle alot..... I mean it goes away after a bit but those initial couple of meetings are real tough... And ya know it's odd, cuz most people think that I am very outgoing...... hmmmmmm..... maybe I should look into that......lol


 Cheeky Matt

Joined: 1/1/2006
Msg: 13
view profile
History
At what point in life did you get confidence about interracting with the opposite sex?
Posted: 8/21/2006 5:08:19 PM
Was when i was 15 and went on a family holiday to our local holiday park we go there every year and the 1st night there the 1st thing you do is check out the park site all the arcades....swimming pool....and club to see what talent is around lol and see if any of your friends are there and on that 1st day i see like 5 realy gorgous girls and went away that night laying in bed thinkin "oh how id love to date a girl like the ones i see today" and the next day 1 of those girls came up to me and asked me to dance wich i was absoloutly gob smacked and over the moon with so me and her went with each other for the night then i started hearing rumours that some of those other girls liked me and in those 2 weeks i was on holiday i had atracted and went on a date with 4 of those 5 girls and and while i was with a group of my friends a group of girls picked me out as the sexiest and that made me look realy cool lol and at the end of holiday i went home with over 15 phone numbers!.........it was a real confidence booster for me beacuse i had no confidence before that holiday beacuse back then i used to get bullied but after that i was super cool! lol ....oh how i wish i was 15 again!
 US is the best!!

Joined: 8/17/2006
Msg: 14
At what point in life did you get confidence about interracting with the opposite sex?
Posted: 8/21/2006 5:35:17 PM
i got confidence with the opposite sex last year
 Red~Fire

Joined: 7/27/2006
Msg: 15
At what point in life did you get confidence about interracting with the opposite sex?
Posted: 8/21/2006 5:38:33 PM
I didn't REALLY until two years ago, after my husband and I broke up. I learned about myself and that I don't need a guy to complete me. It is about that time in my life that I gained confidence and independance. If I ever seemed confident before that, it may have come across that way... but inside NOT A CHANCE! How's that for honesty?
~RED~
 SensiblySilly

Joined: 7/17/2006
Msg: 16
view profile
History
At what point in life did you get confidence about interracting with the opposite sex?
Posted: 8/21/2006 7:33:31 PM
What? We're suppose to be confident interracting with the opposite sex?!? When did this happen? Did I miss something? Hell, I can always fake it by telling her I'm not shaking, I'm "Batteries Included" Seriously, being a late bloomer, I'm only truely coming into my own. And the best is yet to come!
 Possibly The Devil

Joined: 6/15/2006
Msg: 17
At what point in life did you get confidence about interracting with the opposite sex?
Posted: 8/21/2006 7:49:50 PM
Saturday.


No, seriously... I was shy forever. Sad.

Lately people have been asking me out left and right. I figure I must look happy or something. Whatever it is... its making me less shy for sure.
 SensiblySilly

Joined: 7/17/2006
Msg: 18
view profile
History
At what point in life did you get confidence about interracting with the opposite sex?
Posted: 8/21/2006 7:53:21 PM
At the same point that I fist learned to cook. I learned that a steak and a blowjob sealed the deal for pretty much endless possibilities.

roxygemini, LMAO! And here I thought "Happy Steak and BJ Day" was an urban legend! Just kidding... I don't think I could ever live in a world without.... steaks! Of course they always go down better with good head... on a
 anotheraviator

Joined: 10/26/2004
Msg: 19
At what point in life did you get confidence about interracting with the opposite sex?
Posted: 8/21/2006 7:56:32 PM
Once you realize that you can't change who you are... nor that you really want to...

Also... once you actually STOP searching for a mate and just enjoy life alone.

If you go out specifically looking for a mate.. you're going to be single your entire life.
 EZP

Joined: 10/26/2005
Msg: 20
At what point in life did you get confidence about interracting with the opposite sex?
Posted: 8/21/2006 8:14:37 PM
After my first love broke my heart...lol. I quit being the nice guy...became the "I don't give a fck guy" and women were amazingly..attracted to that type of bad attitude. After that....I grew up and found a happy median that seems equally appealing to the fairer sex.
 Jezika S

Joined: 7/13/2006
Msg: 21
 walkontheocean

Joined: 8/12/2006
Msg: 22
view profile
History
At what point in life did you get confidence about interracting with the opposite sex?
Posted: 8/21/2006 8:54:02 PM
HA!!!!! I am 27 years old and still waiting for it.
 who_the_fox

Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 23
 RollerGrrrl

Joined: 3/11/2006
Msg: 24
view profile
History
At what point in life did you get confidence about interracting with the opposite sex?
Posted: 8/21/2006 9:29:50 PM
i think when i was about 17. i was horribly shy before that...but at 17 i started going to bars & sort of overcompensated for the Shy Years.
 TheMechanic1

Joined: 8/18/2006
Msg: 25
view profile
History
At what point in life did you get confidence about interracting with the opposite sex?
Posted: 8/22/2006 1:47:02 AM
I must have been 6 when I met my first crush. I have always adored the opposite sex I used to sit in the lap of my churchs pastors wife and I can recall that I felt so good and warm there I never wanted to leave after church it was time to play with the other kids and we were off and running playing all the games kids play. I didnt becoame intimate till I was in my teens.
Page 1 of 4 1, 2, 3, 4
 
Show ALL Forums  > Sex and Dating  > At what point in life did you get confidence about interracting with the opposite sex?