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| O.K.....On a Serious Note,Do Women Think About Serious Relationships Anymore?
Posted: 8/27/2006 9:19:18 PM | I think it all depends when one is ready to settle down for a serious committment...Both in the male and female gender...Some in early 30's are looking for stability and security in a relationship and want that serious relationship...Some of the others are looking for someone to hang out with have fun without any expectations...Then you also get the older males or females looking for casual encounters is the highiest rate, then friends, dating...But yes there are some who do want a serious relationship too...
But again it's all individual and personal in our own choices...Doesn't mean it's right doesn't mean it wrong...
Well for myself I am looking for more then just friendship with benefits, dating and casual encounters...We do come to a point in our lives... We want more then just the fun and want the committment, the serious relationship and I would have to say I am one of them...
Life is way to short...I have thought about a serious relationship for a very long time...But it isn't easy finding that real, genuine guy that I am particularly compatible...As the saying goes there is a soulmate for everyone one there...But yes true enough some never find it...Some of us have never had it...Some of us are still looking for it...But I haven't given up and thrown in the towel yet...
As, I know there are still good men left out there that are true gentleman...But they are hard to find and a rare breed...So hats off the all the honest, genuine, real, gentleman out there...Maybe the guy's who are clueless need to learn from them...Maybe, they could teach the clueless ones about respect, how to treat a woman...Maybe if the clueless guys learned a thing or two... I am sure less woman wouldn't have to deal with the abuse some of you dish out...Then also too you wouldn't make it bad for the good guys out there...More woman would consider the good guys more often...
Woman your not off the hook either...Yes guy's I know there are woman out there that are no angels in this either...Some women can be just as bad...Making it hard for the good, heart, honest genuine women out there... | |
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| O.K.....On a Serious Note,Do Women Think About Serious Relationships Anymore?
Posted: 8/27/2006 10:26:36 PM | You are definitely the one! Your mental state is equivalent to a professional athlete or any highly defined corporate executive. You know what you want and are not playing games with anyone's mind, this makes you a winner in all the circles of life! This is a REAL MAN demonstrating that he is truthful (a rare gem today). He isn't like most of these insincere males looking for attention by telling fables, tall tales, how wonderful and successful they are, how good looking they are, etc. Then, you become their victim and they begin frosting you up with high hopes, insincerities, and every other kind of bullsh*t that they really don't mean. It's because they are born LIARS who have no concious.
Most people I listen to only want someone like themselves.
Directly below is a simple synopsis that can be reversed: example ("male" changed to "female", "he" changed to "she" - anything is reversible in quotation marks).
Let's view this example: a "male" who loves the outdoors, "fishing, hunting, golf", etc... and "he" is NOT seeking a serious relationship, yet cannot find "Ms". Right? Why? Because "he" is not advertisting this information for "Ms." Right, but "Mr." Right. "He" may never figure it out either or just maybe "he" does know?
If I wasn't already married with kids and lived remotely close to this man I would date him.
Ladies! This man is a super catch! Two of my alumni read this and the three of us are in agreement.
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| O.K.....On a Serious Note,Do Women Think About Serious Relationships Anymore?
Posted: 8/27/2006 11:59:16 PM | Come on, dude, you're 39 and you really need to ask if there are ANY women who want a serious relationship?
You knew the answer to that before you posted. It's like asking if there are any women who like jazz music.
The question really is "why can't YOU find a woman who wants a serious relationship?" But that is a self-pity thread and they are not allowed. Boo hoo.
But really, if you have met 10 women in a row who just want to have a good time, you need to really think about the choices YOU are making, and how you are screening potential dates. There is most likely a pattern and only YOU are responsible for following the same pattern that ends you up with chicks who just want to party.
Chances are, even if it's not intentional, you're going after girls who don't want anything serious. So as soon as you see the signs of a girl who just want to have a fling, turn and run.
And give me her number. | |
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vivid
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Joined: 6/30/2006
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| O.K.....On a Serious Note,Do Women Think About Serious Relationships Anymore?
Posted: 8/28/2006 12:08:20 AM | I am getting to the point in my life that it would be great to actually settle down
You're only getting there but aren't there yet, so you should be able to answer
your own question. And if the women don't want a serious relationship with
you personally, then re-evaluate and make the neccessary changes.
Is it possible they don't want to be a mommy to your children? I ask that
because I've yet to be on a date with any woman who took it
casually....I had the opposite problem from you - they WANTED a serious
relationship and I didn't. Now I've finally relented and am in one. | |
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| O.K.....On a Serious Note,Do Women Think About Serious Relationships Anymore?
Posted: 8/28/2006 4:21:47 PM | Of course the ultimate goal or hope would be to find that one
that just wants to be with you and see that when you have
differences may they be minor and may there be a common
ground to exist on that binds..but until that is found, may
we all find someone to feel is special in our lives at some point.
 Best wishes for successful fishing to all. | |
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| O.K.....On a Serious Note,Do Women Think About Serious Relationships Anymore?
Posted: 8/28/2006 4:28:19 PM | | If you pay attention to the profiles, most are looking for something serious. Even the ones that say "dating" and "hangout" have something in the text about how they are looking for their soul mate, Mr right, etc. Pay attention. Most women here want a LTR. Even the 18 and 19 y/o's that don't know better. | |
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lorie1
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Joined: 5/23/2006
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| O.K.....On a Serious Note,Do Women Think About Serious Relationships Anymore?
Posted: 8/28/2006 5:21:24 PM | Yes please have faith as not all ladies want just a casual bit of fun. I am one that is definately looking long term....hell, I would love to get married....have one man to drive nuts for the rest of my life...I think that is better than anything....to truly get to know someone, devote yourself to them, there is so much that two people can learn and share and experience with one another.
I hate dating. Plain and simple, period. Hate it. It just isnt my thing, but Im here....Im looking and I get hurt all the time. It happens....pick up and move on. Being in a committed relationship means alot to me.....when I know someone wants that and we have been together, the profile is gone. And Im not sure why people think just because they are with one person, or settled down they arent having fun anymore!!! I actually tend to relax more in a committed relationship than the casual dates....god help them! hehe
If you went out with a lady and she said, she had a nice time but she is maybe just not ready or something, then she may not think you are long term for "her". | |
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