| Sacrificng things for love......
Posted: 8/27/2006 8:48:55 PM | Search your heart and soul........would you sacrifice something near and dear to you, for love..... for your SO?
Should they just take you as you are, or do they want you to make changes?
Is this worth fighting for, for wanting and yearning, to have that special person in your life????
Would you sacrifice anything at all for a relationship?
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| Sacrificng things for love......
Posted: 8/27/2006 8:58:51 PM | I doubt I would sacrifice something that was 'near and dear to my heart'....that means its significant to me and therefore not up for negotiations.....minor things are...but I would really like to find someone that matches me without having to do negotiating and changing | |
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| Sacrificng things for love......
Posted: 8/27/2006 9:00:00 PM | The only things that matter to me are my cats, and certain people. No, I wouldn't sacrifice them, as that would be morally wrong, and illegal. I don't plan on becoming romantically involved with a cultist anyway.
If the relationship is the right relationship, there is nothing you should have to give up. | |
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| Sacrificng things for love......
Posted: 8/27/2006 9:02:18 PM | not this time............... I tried that and almost lost the most important person in my life.
possessions......maybe
money..........maybe
changing myself again........never.......take me as I am or not at all
my kids........never
my soul.........not a chance! | |
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| Sacrificng things for love......
Posted: 8/27/2006 9:02:50 PM | I have sacrificed my education and career a few times in favour of my SO,... moves etc. That will NEVER happen again. ( OK... unless he gives me $1,000,000.00 first,... then who cares if he leaves and I have to start from square one all over yet again???) I am at the stage in my life that I don't/can't/won't start all over again. Costs too much.
Would I make small yet meaningful changes? Sure,.... it's called COMPROMISE. | |
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| Sacrificng things for love......
Posted: 8/27/2006 9:09:52 PM | I would sacrifice a chicken, possibly a goat, and maybe....MAYBE a toonie for condom... nothing else..
Oh ya, I would sacrifce my soul for ROCK AND ROLL.... too late | |
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| Sacrificng things for love......
Posted: 8/27/2006 9:18:44 PM | Meh - definitely wouldnt sacrifice my rock-n-roll 
That's part of me
Compromise? Hmmm, dunno about THAT either - compromise isn't an apt word there either - the means you also could be giving away something that's important to yourself.
ADJUSTING life and some goals maybe?
Don't ever ask me to sacrifice my friends again - did that once in my life and never again. | |
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| Sacrificng things for love......
Posted: 8/27/2006 9:29:47 PM | possessions......maybe
money..........maybe
changing myself again........never.......take me as I am or not at all
my kids........never
my soul.........not a chance!
gawd, that's so right........
it seems like looking back on my past relationships someone always made me change, or sacrifice something....for once it's so nice not to have to do that....everything normal, in tact, job, kids, life is great....and as for me....I just need to be little more number 5....
.............................................................................get red dye number 5...NOT! | |
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| Sacrificng things for love......
Posted: 8/27/2006 10:28:59 PM | ok not exactly...but still funny ... went shopping and met a cashier walking across the parking lot for her shift... I asked what cash she'd be at... she did not know, I told her I'd find her... bought my stuff... and a bunch of flowers. Then I could not find her...lol finally through customer sevice found her...lol and I went up to her asked if she was the one I had met an hour or so ago, she smiled and said yes, so I said I bought these for you... she was almost in tears. I smiled, turned and left. Made both of our days. Silly maybe but some of us are hopeless romantics...
Orzel | |
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| Sacrificng things for love......
Posted: 8/27/2006 10:33:52 PM |
Would you do something for money that you might shake your head afterwards?
sacrificed a lot of hard earned for (love)
oh how quaint is that what we're calling it now...................................... | |
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| Sacrificng things for love......
Posted: 8/27/2006 10:34:08 PM | ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^OMG, that's so sweet, wait, you did mean flowers right? Cause you left a word out......cause,
if you brought her bugs or a dead fish, that wouldn't be so nice........
................................................frickin ask her out, you're single man.....
oh shite...I got inbetweened again | |
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| Sacrificng things for love......
Posted: 8/27/2006 11:24:43 PM | ~ If they are your true so/ the love of your life/ your life partner/ whatever you want to call it there wouldnt be any sacrifices necessary.... things fall into place easily when its right.
~ If you are truly meant for each other: you take each other as you individually are, you fit each other perfectly well, and compliment each other, characteristics, qualities, faults, etc.
~ If you are truly meant for each other: there isnt any "fighting"... (maybe the odd argument!) but ALWAYS lots of wanting, yearning and what i think most important: adoring each other.... even years into the relationship as it was in the first 3 months.
~I wouldnt sacrifice anything for a relationship - if its truly the right one, its "it", itll happen without limitations, without sacrifices, without restrictions...
I know this as fact ...  | |
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| Sacrificng things for love......
Posted: 8/27/2006 11:34:18 PM | There was a time when I would paint my face with goat blood, wear shark teeth around my neck, dance naked by a fire, then sacrifice a virgin into a volcano...
But they got viagra now so I don't need to do that anymore.... | |
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| Sacrificng things for love......
Posted: 8/28/2006 5:26:39 AM | that's a personal decision for each person to make depending on the situation and themselves
If for you one is worth more then the other then you need to decied if you can live without the other | |
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| Sacrificng things for love......
Posted: 8/28/2006 5:58:34 AM | Awe Orzel...that was such a nice thing to do...I agree with Thumper...ask her out for goodness sake.
OT: I totally agree with Sweet.... kids, your soul, who you are, family n' friends...are non-negotiable. | |
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| Sacrificng things for love......
Posted: 8/28/2006 9:54:29 AM | | No way it cant be love if you have to give something up for the other person....but then again it all depends...I mean if I was married to the guy and his job had to take him to a different country or state, then yes I would have to go with him and leave my family behind, but other than that NO!!!!!! | |
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| Sacrificng things for love......
Posted: 8/28/2006 10:17:59 AM |
~ If they are your true so/ the love of your life/ your life partner/ whatever you want to call it there wouldnt be any sacrifices necessary.... things fall into place easily when its right.
~ If you are truly meant for each other: you take each other as you individually are, you fit each other perfectly well, and compliment each other, characteristics, qualities, faults, etc.
~ If you are truly meant for each other: there isnt any "fighting"... (maybe the odd argument!) but ALWAYS lots of wanting, yearning and what i think most important: adoring each other.... even years into the relationship as it was in the first 3 months.
~I wouldnt sacrifice anything for a relationship - if its truly the right one, its "it", itll happen without limitations, without sacrifices, without restrictions...
i totally agree with Fluffy....
you should not have to change your self ... someone should not have control or try to control a SO....if so then there is NO hope for the relationship... | |
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| Sacrificng things for love......
Posted: 8/28/2006 12:48:56 PM | 7 pigs 12 goats and 4 jugs of wine to appease the gods.
Its about perfectly understanding that neither of you are perfect. Now, some changes always need to be made to accomodate living with another person but the thing you have to ask is are they things critical to your identity. Is it dont throw your keys on the dresser or swear off your best friend? Sure, I will switch habits but friends and family...they are there cause they mean something to me and they will always be welcome in my life.
Like sure, we all have behaviors and habits that annoy the hell out of others and so when in a relationship we both have to try and make things work, but you can never ask someone to change who they are...cause then you are not understanding who they are, you are usurping control of their lives and manipulating their will, which in my opinion is worse than anything you could ever do.
jsut my $0.03 (some inflation there) | |
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| Sacrificng things for love......
Posted: 8/28/2006 12:55:00 PM | Things come and go....I will always take love over "stuff". I have done my share of sacrificing and I just chose the wrong person all the time. Be careful when you give to your SO, make sure they are not takers otherwise you will never stop giving until you give the relationship the boot!! I love to make my man happy and me being happy makes him happy which makes me happy which I am happy about the fact that being happy is all good.... | |
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| Sacrificng things for love......
Posted: 8/28/2006 1:44:22 PM | I sacrificed myself for 3 years of sex 3x's a day everywhere and anyway.
Was it worth it? I'm still not sure... 1 1/2 years later I've almost recovered.
..............................get scrif.......Iced
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| Sacrificng things for love......
Posted: 8/28/2006 3:30:36 PM | They should take you as you are.
It is not worth fighting for.
I would not make sacrifices...but I would make compromises.
In the past I have tried everything possible to be the person HE wanted. When the fog lifted....I realized what a self righteous creep he was, and I am lucky to be away from him.
No effort on his part....SO why bother with sacrifices.
There is an awesome person out there for everyone. Why settle or try to be what they want you to be.
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| Sacrificng things for love......
Posted: 8/29/2006 1:50:02 AM | Thanks for the flowers(kind words), belladona and Thumper; see I got them back...lol
I know some things are like poetry, if you change or add a line it can ruin a fine thing... The woman was instantly happy, I was not looking to date her. Just to create hope.
Reminds me of the weekend... danced with a fine lady at a bar, later she introduces her ex hubby...lol He is visibly annoyed... so I shake his hand and say new hubby...lol... oh to be a fly on the wall at her place that night...lol needless to say I had a good laugh with my friends.
Orzel | |
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