| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/3/2006 6:09:43 AM | Please someone help me understand !!!why it is that so many men want to play games with, a womans heart??? why do so many men on here (p.o.f.) say they want a serious relationship,and then really come to find out they really dont want that. They are only looking for a one night stand!!!!! come on men if u really dont want a serious relationship say so in your profile and stop playing with womans feelings!!!!!! | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/3/2006 6:14:44 AM | they don't want to play games
it just happens.
just because you want a serious relationship
doesn't mean you will get it in an email
you can date and see
that part is free
but hey .... the heart goes where it wants to.
Most guys and girls are opportunists
they see a chance to win and go for it
just because you lose sight of the ring
doesn't mean you lose the game
hey ... it ain't supposed to be a game
but all the same in sanity's name
you still have to play to win.
immature guys and girls think they have to play a part in this searching for love thing.
that makes it a game... or a play ... and the big mistake is you are looking for love.
never look ... just let it happen as you go about your daily life doing the things you love to do. A good cry now and then can cleanse the soul ... but whining sucks.
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/3/2006 6:25:01 AM | Honey...all people truly want what they consider their "right one". The hard truth is the men in question likely DO want a relationship...just not with YOU. You mention "one night stand". If you're banging them right off the hop (which there isn't anything wrong with as long as you know that what you want for YOUR greater good)....don't expect much else.
People can't play with what you don't give them to play with. Be more careful. | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/3/2006 6:28:31 AM | I say it in my profile! I'd like to start as,"just friends",and see if anything comes from it. I couldn't date her,unless we were friends first. It sounds like you just had a bad experience....sorry to hear that! I'll agree with you,that sex may be what alot of guys are looking for. But,so are alot of women too. If I had any advice for you? Keep searching,maybe take a little longer to get to know the guy. The longer you two chat,the more likely you'll know his real intentions! We're not all dogs^! Best of luck to you in the future,in these deep waters! | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/3/2006 8:04:28 AM | I completely AGREE with you KELSEA.... 100% percent seeing I have gone through 4 dates with POF & the men that I met says LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP on their profile yet they were all thinking of the same damn thing.... FIRST DATE SEX , ONE NIGHT STYLE.
I also Believe it says on my profile-"RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT JUST BASED ON SEX" one of the guys I dated said, " But we are not in a relationship, despite he said himself that we are somewhat dating & we slept together & wanted to see just each other... so what u call that?? And also we are friends... friendship is a relationship, isnt it???
I have been burnt more than u could possibly imagine.,... then when i confronted them about it all I hear its excuses up your YIN YANG.... like they dont understand what u are trying to say or ask them.
Women are human too with feelings... we are not ATM Machine for sex..... we want some security, love & affection & by the looks of things both KELSEA & myself have met Men who are shallow & very egotistic that they think that women are beneath them & that they are GODS to all of them....
Some men are afraid to come out of their shell, scared to commit to one woman, Scared to express their feelings, Scared in so many levels that they frooze when the going gets tough.....
If they dont want a serious relationship then dont base anything on having sex with a woman bec I recall one of the guys I was dating said " Men just have fun when it comes to sex but Women get emotional... but the thing is its in our nature to feel or do things that way...its the way it is.
Now Im rather skeptic whether I want to get my heart on the line again.... | |
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Tarra
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Joined: 7/22/2006
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/3/2006 5:17:03 PM | Shhhhhh......don't tell a soul cause I'm sure nobody has figured it out yet, but most guys will tell a woman what they want to hear in the hope that they'll get laid.....quickly!
You can pass this valuable info on, but don't name your source. | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/3/2006 5:23:57 PM |
They are only looking for a one night stand!!!!! That is not true...men use the one night as a gauge...if you are worth their time for a second night or even a life time they will enjoy a long term relationship with you. | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/3/2006 5:29:08 PM | I ask myself the same thing every time I meet someone new, invest a bit of time getting to know them better through email and chat and phone. You think they want the same things you do you agree to meet for lunch or coffee whatever you plan, seems to go well, good conversation you get the feeling that yes you would like to see them again and bammmm you don't invite them in when you get home and thats it all of a sudden its like "well I thought we were having a good time together why not". Well news flash bud dating and long term usually means more than one meeting befor you want to jump into bed with someone. There are far too many men on this site who are just adding notches to their belts, but you do learn how to read them. I wish the best of luck to all the sincere people out there looking for "the one" as for the rest of you ( and you do know who you all are) concider how you may be hurting someone who believed you were true...
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/3/2006 5:36:28 PM | I haven't been on this site Plenty of Fish for long only about two weeks but I have read some woman's profiles and I have a grip with those women who stereotype men. I say stop your gripping and whining and take responsibility for the relationship that you are in. I read a lot of the time that some women feel that they put all the effort into a relationship. I say to those women poor you!!!
I also say to those women. Take a look at other type of relationships that you have said with your family, other type of friend’s boyfriend’s girl friends your boss, co-workers etc. Your probably feel like you get the short end of the stick in those relationships too. Get the stick out your ass and stop playing the victim.
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/3/2006 5:40:33 PM | I don’t know why they do it but it gets tiresome. I had one man that I adored. He told me that he loved me and that he wanted to be with me and live with me and never be away from me and then he was gone again. I think it’s a game to see how badly you can hurt someone and they’ll actually put up with it.
I met my fishy and I’m done looking now. Now all I have to do is get my affairs in order wait for him to get settled and move to another continent...no biggie..hahahaha 1 year and I’m gone…I hope and pray.
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/3/2006 5:43:21 PM | "I met my fishy and I’m done looking now. Now all I have to do is get my affairs in order wait for him to get settled and move to another continent...no biggie..hahahaha 1 year and I’m gone…I hope and pray"
If you really loved him, you'd give him at least 14 months
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kcjoy
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Joined: 8/31/2006
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/3/2006 5:44:31 PM | hey i hate to admit this but we play just as many games with there hearts. i'm not saying all women do it, therefore not all men do it. i recently started to fall for a guy but couln't work out what i wanted from him, casual sex or a relationship. he wanted a relationship. i stuff a***d around playing games with his head to see if he was serious. guess what. too late!!
he doesn't want any now cause he's sick of the games. let this be a warning to all thinking bout playing hard to get. DON'T BE STUPID. if you see it, you like it, you want it, GO FOR IT | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/3/2006 5:50:45 PM | You are right. Women can be just as much players as men.
I was seeing a women for awhile. After about a month, she asked me if she could borrow my X-Box 360.
I let her borrow it and she has'nt called me since
I thought she really dug me, but I was played! | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/3/2006 6:06:36 PM | I agree , but I do feel it is probably for the same reason women play with a mans heart and feelings.
It is because somewere in their lives they were hurt by someone and become poisoned by it and thus do the same thing to the next person they meet over and over again. This pattern is easily broken, all it takes is the sincere loving feelings of a human heart that you can give someone a chance and yourself and meet someone that you deserve and to be happy with them.
I for one am having a hard time. These online dating schemes have alot of potential , if you can just find someone who is like yourself , sincere , desirable and honest, then you can make it happen. Yes, it is such a longshot, but I do hope you meet someone who doesn't play games with you because noone deserves that. Especialy a lonely human being who has nothing more than the intentions of finding someone that he or she can make happy and live happy together with.
Its a beautifull life, lets all try to remember that and treat eachother with respect and dignity.
Winterpeg99
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/3/2006 6:09:29 PM | Women also play games with a man's heart as well. I have been involved in a lot of them actually and it gets sickening. Some women can be extremely cruel. I have had it done so much to me, that I seriously thought of dropping the whole dating/relationship scene. Then I think that not all women are that way. There are a lot of nice, trustworthy women out there. I just have to weed through the rotten ones. Men are like that too, ladies. Most, if not all, men are protrayed as sex starved, mind playing a-holes. That's not true. There are still some good men that want a serious, long lasting relationship, with no mind games. I happen to be one of them  | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/3/2006 6:15:05 PM | Blah blah blah...
Because you women go for the wrong kind of man. When I was in my late 20's I was an unattainable player. I did not want a relationship, I just wanted to have fun. Women perceived me as exciting and the phone never stopped ringing. Now that I am in my late 30's and think it is time I find a nice girl and settle down, NOTHING? I guess now that I am willing and looking for a meaningful life-long relationship, there is no challenge in trying to catch me so I appear less desirable.
I am an attractive and successful male, no children yet, just about exactly what all women say they want. It is funny that in a couple of months on here I have not had one date.
If you ladies would like to find a decent guy to have a relationship with, you need to change the type of guy you are looking for. The ones that you find flashy and exciting are probably unattainable players too. | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/3/2006 6:58:47 PM | I think if you do not wear your heart on your sleeve you will be okay...when you know you can trust someone and you have the same moral mind set then let yourself go...until then keep casual in mind and set your own limits to what direction you will allow a relationship to go keeping in mind you really do not know this person yet!! It is really LUST at first site....not LOVE  sad but true except in those rare exceptions..(I think the ratio probably matches that of winning the lotto jack pot!!)
I am sure you have a great heart that can survive any test some uncaring man might try to put it through!  | |
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daisie
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Joined: 9/22/2004
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/3/2006 7:05:37 PM | I've only met one guy from this site in person, a long time ago....and he didn't try for a one night stand with me. He was very classy man.
SOME guys play "games" because its the fast route to get what they want. You might not like it, but it is extremely simple to understand. IIIIIIfff they are deceiving you and then they have no integrity and are shitheads....so rules of conduct and good manners are irrelevant to them. Don't waste time trying to figure it all out in more detail....that's the bottom line. Accept it and move on.
But it also could be that they simply want to know if you are mutually interested in a ONS.....lots of people are ya know. It's one big "cootie-party and germ-fest" out there!!! blah!!! | |
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| why do alot of men just want to play games with your heart!!
Posted: 9/3/2006 8:15:53 PM | Good one, I understand that you think men are dogs! But even you have to admit you love we dogs, don't you!!
Of course you could get a real dog to lick and f**k you. I am willing to bet that isn't as appealing even though we are as men all dogs!!!
I do understand why you think the way you do however, as well as in general all women are b***h dogs but we men do love you! | |
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