| DO PEOPLE REALLY WANT TO MEET?
Posted: 9/9/2006 5:49:28 AM | Hello This is my frist thread I had to write this I have been on this site as well as others received alot of e mails a alot of lyers and a alot of looking for sex when I had put no one night stand and I do not sleep around was getting alot of mail still do not as much since I made a few changes in profile and seems to me that the men are looking for sex than why on this site they should go to other sites for that not dating site..I had gone on a few coffee dates did not go past coffee they wanted to meet again but they were looking for sex only.I am ready to give up on sites was told not to to hang in there. I want to find a nice man alot of nuts lyers and men looking for sex.It is so sad all the e mails I get makes you wonder about sites like this that so hard to meet anyone decent.I have no sex hang ups but sex should be with someone that respects cares loves likes into you that you are with each other in a relationship not just meet and wham bam thank you mam and have sex it is about making love a big difference sex is nothing what out a relationship you have to love like care respect each other sex is much better this way. | |
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| DO PEOPLE REALLY WANT TO MEET?
Posted: 9/9/2006 5:58:03 AM | Hang in there there are nice fellas out there unfortunately they are few and far between. I met my fellow on POF and everything has been great.
I would suggest that you have your PROFILE reviewed in the PROFILE REVIEWS FORUM and get some help with it from fellow POF'ers. By doing so you will receive some help in attracting the type of person your looking for.
One thing that I personally do not like to see in a profile if it all typed in CAPITALS. I simply will not read it as its not very asthetic on the eyes and I will pass by a profile like that without reading its contents.
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| DO PEOPLE REALLY WANT TO MEET?
Posted: 9/9/2006 9:46:01 AM | | What is wrong with my profile JUSTACHILDLIKEME just that I type with capital letters what else that I will change when I have time | |
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Posted: 9/9/2006 11:03:17 AM | No, you are right mens are here looking for sex.. Nowsdays no one want a relationship. This is my first time here. I learn alot lately this site is like " GREED LIL HORNY GREEN MEN"
I decide to be a teaser not a doer.. I tell them I do have a sense of humor, flirt that about it. no sex talk. I tell them upfront not in mood in looking, just friends to mingle if it happens down the line i like so one be it.. communiciaton is what get the guys and gal to get hook up .. I am not too trust worth to trust this site to meet guys. I met a best friend in a nother site so far it been a yr he is a good guy and we are friends and lil by lil we will see.
I m on your side many not looking for relationship.. they want to dip, swirl and swim to the ocean and then make a slide homerun base.. then that it.
Some guys tell me I judge too harsh.. Well if u tell them hey we going for a caffe latte that it to meet and chill talking . NOT SEX YOU GUYS! They start to think you know they do not want that they want more flavor of something else.
THAT why they " I call them Green horny guys" "lil horny green guys" they greed for sex.. They need to slow down their battery charge get to meet a good woman.. Then they will not have to be so hot to trot lol. | |
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Posted: 9/9/2006 4:18:25 PM | Some of us guys out here are decent. I just joined this site last week and so far I've chatted with a few really nice girls(and no, I don't plan on just having sex!). For some of us, and I hope I don't just speak for myself, coffee is just coffee. I mean, I love affection, but sex isn't the only thing on my mind. A good conversation would be stimulating enough. So please don't put us all in the same basket. We're not all bad guys.  | |
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Posted: 9/9/2006 4:42:48 PM | | To back in it I know all guys are not bad but must are.I like to do coffee first why what happens you do not like each other and do not click why sit at a meal or other kind of meeting and waste time coffee is to the point you like each other move on to dinner etc yes talking is very important being good friends and keep going from there see what happens that is key to a good relationship good for you you had chatted with nice girls | |
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Posted: 9/10/2006 6:47:43 PM | | Boy those are some photos for someone not interested in sex! Perhaps you'd have a different response with something more conservative. (Though I can't be sure, haven't met anyone here yet) | |
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Posted: 9/10/2006 7:56:54 PM | | I hope I speak for the ladies when I say thank you for the coffee. Some guys are looking for conversation and a cup of coffee, some are not. I guess it's up to us to figure out who is telling the truth and who is not, tough job !!!!! | |
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| DO PEOPLE REALLY WANT TO MEET?
Posted: 9/10/2006 8:02:07 PM | | Maybe if you had a photo with your legs closed or crossed you may just get the "meet me for coffee" guys. If a man is just looking for sex then your photo will SHOUT at him instead of wisper. | |
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Posted: 9/11/2006 8:50:51 AM | yes i agree with the photo theory...legs open, laying on a mirrored bed of all places, and a boob shot. isnt that screaming sex as loud as can be??!! LMAO  | |
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Posted: 9/11/2006 11:25:20 AM | | Yes , some man not interested in sex , just a cup of coffe :) So , what is it gonna be Donkin Donuts or Starbacks ? | |
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Posted: 9/11/2006 12:27:14 PM | | aliny714 look at other womens photos on here showing chest butt leg my photos are tame I am sitting with legs crossed and everyone has a birthday and blows out cake it is normal also women wearing sexy lingerie on here wearing bathing suit mini skirt not me | |
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Posted: 9/11/2006 1:55:07 PM | | TO dynamite I just saw your profile you are looking for intimate encounter not interested no starbucks sorry did you not read my thread ? my point made like I had said men looking for sex here is another one case closed | |
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Posted: 9/11/2006 2:07:42 PM |  what a stupid waste of time it is, they think they know but they won't, can't
 getting stoned happy to be alone forget I'm here crack open another beer
 I won't, I can't why do I owe you a reason, naw I'm down to I die | |
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| DO PEOPLE REALLY WANT TO MEET?
Posted: 9/11/2006 4:51:36 PM | | I think alot of these guys are liars. They make plans with you, then you find out they are involved with someone else. I don't understand why they lie. | |
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Posted: 9/11/2006 4:52:18 PM | no i dont think the men on this site really want to meet and if they do its not for anything real i have been here for a while and i have recieved a lot of e-mails and when i found one i think might be good its all fake  | |
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Posted: 9/11/2006 5:45:26 PM | | I recieved alot of e mail. one guy wanted to meet he was gone for awhile came back with bs said he loves me another kept telling me to call I call voice mail or no answer sometimes picked up told me lets meet we made a time and place he said call before we meet voice mail then there alot of nuts sending e mails and others saying sex things oh then went on a few coffee dates they were hands on if you know what I mean was going to give up site not going to will not give up hope has to be someone decent honest now I will not waste time was reading I think newspaper or magazine is said a week is enough time to meet | |
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Posted: 9/11/2006 5:49:35 PM | cleopatrarose, nice name btw. I do agree with you, but I have had yet another type bloke hit me up. met him on another site so am glad this site is more local. last one had a bogus cashiers check sent to me. Good thing I am no one's fool and had my bank look at it before I did anything.
As for men wanting sex. The second you start chatting, if they bring it up, I drop them.
I am looking for companionship, relationship, dating.... the intimate encounters will come later if we hit it off.
Problem is, very few men are attracted to short heavy women who walk with a cane, Regardless of personality or character. They won't even agree to meet for coffee.
Not all men are hounds, but they are either in a relationship or dead.
I will not even answer a man who is already in a relationship and looking,... the last boyfriend did that to me... and the one before that... I am beginning to think it is ME!   Maybe a more positive attitude????? Whatdya all think? | |
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Posted: 9/11/2006 6:13:44 PM | | thank you about my name no not you I had alot of great male friends they looked out for me they wanted to go after my ex ex was not around had a friend he died he wanted more but I was with my ex but ex was not around never goes passed friendship except one that died wanted more he was good to me that I have no trouble with having males as friends but anything more than that does not happen for me maybe it would be better just to have males as friends nothing more have one now supports me in my divorce helping me know him over a year on here never met just good friends my rock he saved me a guy I had met in different site a man had told me he was a police man he was not my friend said this guy does not sound right my friend checked him out guy was no cop had a long rap sheet my friend is with the church thats why we are only friends | |
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