| Do you think women masterbate as much or as often as men?
Posted: 9/9/2006 9:22:15 AM | | You know it has always been common knowledge that men masterbate. It is accepted in society and it isn't considered a bad thing really. Provided that it is done within the safegaurds of your home or whatever. But, with us women having just as many needs sexually as a man why is it shunned apon for us to masterbate. It is something that we feel we must hide and if talked about a lot then we are sleezy or slutty or whoreish. Well, I am here to set the record straight. I am a woman in her prime and because I can't just go out there and have sex with every man I meet I have to take care of myself from time to time. Or more often than that. But, I shouldn't have to feel bad for it. I love my toys they are the best sexual partner I have ever had. They are a sure deal for me to have an orgasim and they do it how I like it done!!! Of course they aren't much to snuggle with afterwards and the conversation is lacking a little but unlike a boyfriend, I get tired of it I buy a new one.!!! | |
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| Do you think women masterbate as much or as often as men?
Posted: 9/9/2006 9:27:07 AM | The answer to your question is yes and no. Being that women can have mulitples, I think perhaps they do more. LOL.
I'm sorry you feel your toys are the best sexual partner you've ever had. I guess you are saying (in a way) that you are the best at pleasing you; which is a good thing (i guess)  | |
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| Do you think women masterbate as much or as often as men?
Posted: 9/9/2006 9:54:42 AM | awesome!!! i dont have toys i dont like them but i do love my hand . love my hand . love my hand. and i talk about it all the time . the shame we feel is similar to the competition between women we endure ... it is instilled in us by men most usually. i have always gone against the grain and i am proud to admit it brought me to discover what shouldnt be exposed or discussed , sex and masturbation . i touch myself and i like it and i talk about it !!!!!!! u go girls ... do what u like , life is too short to please other people ( pun intended ?!?!?!)  | |
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| Do you think women masterbate as much or as often as men?
Posted: 9/9/2006 9:57:02 AM | | Thanks Tommy for the compliment on the topic. But, I don't know that I am saying that my toys are the best sexual partner I have ever had I am saying they are the most dependable to ensure my pleasure!!! After all doesn't sex suck if one of the parties doesn't get pleased and we all know that once a man gets his we aren't going to get ours. So we have to get it in the beginning or not at all. With masterbation we don't have to wait on anyone. | |
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| Do you think women masterbate as much or as often as men?
Posted: 9/9/2006 11:31:30 AM | Well, I cannot believe so many women do this, I may be old and all but I'm not dead yet.
To tell the truth I've did this and don't enjoy it like a man, with a man you are held, kissed, do what ever we like, they're so warm and good to hold and be with, who wants toys, I don't!!!!  | |
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| Do you think women masterbate as much or as often as men?
Posted: 9/9/2006 11:45:07 AM | dabeldo65,
hey! although I agree it is a woman's choice if she wished to discuss her self pleasure habits with others. I do not agree that it is shunned and discouraged by our society. Our societies tolerance is at the lowest it has ever been for socially acceptable behaviours. Women on Women, Women in Groups, Gang Bangs, Blacks and White Women, etc.
You can not go anywhere or see anything where it does not show some attractive woman in the "appearance" of the throws of passion.
Having stood on my soap box this long, let me indulge one more thought. It IS NOT solely the responsibility of a man to please his female sexual partner. She needs to be a willing participant in the interaction as well. And if she just lays there and waits on him to please her, many times (and as Mike said, with the wrong man) she is gonna be left there hanging. Unfortunately that is a factor for many males. We are not often able to have multiple orgasms in a few minutes or seconds. Many times we do not know what turns you on, unless you respond in a certain way (if he is observant) or tell us. Many women feel ashamed to be doing "IT" in the first place. And that is sad. It is such a beautiful process. And many feel the man is suppose to know everything.
If anything, we men have all the pressure. Have to come packing, have stamina, know when you want it, how to give it, not expect it or desire it all the time, and not have to go after it to the exclusion of making the woman feel like a piece of meat. All this to be, maybe Lucky sometimes to get just one shot. No wonder we poop out so soon :smiles:
Me, personally, I enjoy all weekend and all nite sex. So what if I have to go to work tired the next morning. The end result was justified in the means. And it is not too often that I have met women who can participate at that level of intercourse. Why? I just like all the feeling associated with watching a woman get hers and me help her get hers. More people should practice it I say.
-CowboyEnuff-
P.S. GREAT TOPIC tho' :smiles: | |
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| Do you think women masterbate as much or as often as men?
Posted: 9/9/2006 11:56:53 AM | P.S.S.s.t.t.
"Oh!" This was about toys... once on that soap box.
Something else about toyz. If she has them, bring them! I may want to watch you use them... a huge fantasy and turn on. It also gives me clues as to what you want and how.
OR
Let me use them on you... it is after all, all about the fun, the pleasing each other. or am I alone on this... 
-CowboyEnuff- | |
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| Do you think women masterbate as much or as often as men?
Posted: 9/9/2006 1:41:19 PM | yeah, lucky, i was a ...hm. overly and easily exciteable teenger. i used to masturbate on about 6 or 8 different time frames a day, even at school in the girls bathroom. it was pretty strange. I actually grew out of it. Now i'd rather wait and tease myself with the anticipation of my next sexual encounter, so that was the release is MUCH more gratifying.
Sure i own a vibrator. Three if you want to get absolutely technical but its on the VERY rare occasion that i use it. I dont masturbate because I'd just rather let my frustrations build up. It makes the sex more... Interesting? | |
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| Do you think women masterbate as much or as often as men?
Posted: 9/9/2006 1:48:07 PM | Wow Vera Mae. I was vey excitable also when I was young and did it that much also. Now I just lets say not that much but still a lot for an old guy.
Never realized ladies did such things. Amazing. Tell us more. | |
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| Do you think women masterbate as much or as often as men?
Posted: 9/9/2006 2:17:49 PM | | I love to make sure before I get relief that my lady has had hers. I get really turned on when my lady gets off. I think male and female should enjoy their bodies and discover their likes and dislikes. Let her pass those secrets on to me and I'll make it worth her wild. I masterbate and enjoy the gratification. It's no different with females. So I too say go for it, heck I do! | |
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| Do you think women masterbate as much or as often as men?
Posted: 9/9/2006 2:38:54 PM | I honestly think we may do it more. I mean face it..why do you think removeable shower heads sell so well *lmao* I have my toys too, and its great, but i do like it more with a man than my toys. I like the touching, tasting and hearing the moaning from a man...ohhh kkkk ummm... brb... *teasing* Hard core smut novels might turn me on, but plain ole romance novels...blah.. i cant stand em. Talking about it is a bit unusual for me. I would with my partner, but on here... in an open forum.. yip its a first!
Oh and Lucky, i`d take bets on that too, but i dont know how we would decide whos the winner, lol.
Vera Mae,
i so totally understand where your coming from. Be fore warned, it still hits me every once in a while. I get to feeling if i dont have sex of some kind i`m going to go crazy, lol.
Oh hell i`m gonna ask this and i might feel like a complete idiot after, but here goes. Does anyone else get turned on when they're shaving themselves? | |
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| Do you think women masterbate as much or as often as men?
Posted: 9/9/2006 3:02:14 PM | whyspr - Hardcore smut i enjoy. Its a triogy called The claiming of sleeping beauty. - Beautys punishment - Beautys release And its by anne rice. Its.. BDSM, pretty much. Spanking, rough stuff. Its pretty interesting. Its essentially the tale of sleeping beauty but.. pornographic. Instead of awakened to a kiss, Shes woken to a .. Stiff and exciting young man. REALLY wonderful read.
And yeah i get hit too. But does it have physical effects with you? With me, out of NO WHERE, i'll get instantly turned on, and clench my teeth, followed by unknowningly digging my nails into my leg and blinking really slowly. If that makes sense at all? | |
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| Do you think women masterbate as much or as often as men?
Posted: 9/9/2006 3:07:54 PM | lol g/f
I havent read the sleeping beauty series but i know a lot about BDSM. I did a two year study on it once because i was curious about how the human mind functions in some of those situations.
My biggest problem physically when it hits is ( oh boy) heavy breathing, wet panties and this horrible desire to grab a man, kiss him till we both cant breath and dig my nails into his back. ( am i old enough for this conversation??) | |
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